Hi Red Pillers

Till a year back, I was a typical beta guy that RedPillers describe here. I was Mr.Nice guy a.k.a door mat until my onitis broke up with me. I was shattered. I was devasted. I cried. I punished myself. But then gradually I got myself introduced to the PUA articles. That was a huge revealing to me but at the same time, I felt guilty following the advices. Then after a year, I came to this sub-reddit via an AskReddit thread. The Red Pill theory was revealing, practical and also scientific. I read through all the side bar materials. Then I read the threads by sorting them 'top by year/month'. It was very informational and useful! I started using parts of it and saw immense success with women around me. I'm currently trying to get fit and improve my professional life.

So my doubt is - Though I completely agree with the 'abundance' theory of RP, 'IF' I want to pursue a LTR with a single women, how do I apply RP philosophies?. I would like to hear from the married men in this sub, of how they use RP in their life and how their SOs react to them. Thankyou guys.