Fact: "Most women don't find me attractive" - How to proceed? I have insecurity issues.

desno · 2016-11-25T00:46:32+00:00

First, stop being a little bitch Second, become attractive.

How?

Lift, go and check out some beginner strength programs like stronglifts 5x5 or starting strength. Then go onto something like coolcicada's push pull legs when your lifts start to stall.
Supplement this with a solid bulking diet (calorie surplus) if you're skinny and a deficit if fat
As you lift gain more test, you will gain a more prominent jawline, along with losing bodyfat. If you have a weak jawline, try growing a thick beard. If you can't then just suck it up for now.
Sort your wardrobe out. Get slim fit jeans and snug t shirts. I'd legit look up some fashion youtubers and emulate a style you like. But in all honesty, just wearing the correct fit on clothes will up your game a lot.
Stop being a whiny bitch. You see plenty of "ugly" people with hot women. And no, not all of them are rich, but they have confidence and a no fucks given attitude.
How many women do you approach? I consider myself above average now but I still get rejected A LOT. I've had a girl push me away and another tell me to fuck off. What did I do? Laugh and move on.
Did I mention stop being a bitch?

PM if you want more help

RiseAboveRuin · 2016-11-25T01:53:35+00:00

I get on peoples ass in this subreddit for trying to AMOG people, but I also get on peoples ass that only here asking for pity.

This isn't a place for pity. /u/desno just gave you solid advice and you blew it off saying you were taking care of it already. So why the fuck are you posting here? What do you want from us? You want us to tell you it's all going to be okay and that you can get a bombshell if you try hard enough?

Chances are most people that come to this sub aren't cut out for this sub. They won't make the necessary changes and they'll stay in the dumps because they aren't cut from the same cloth. You haven't even read the side bar or learned the basics if you think a beautiful woman cares about physical attractiveness or that your attractiveness can't go up or down.

Attractiveness is based on variables:

How funny are you?
How confident are you? ^<--- ^something ^you ^need ^to ^really ^work ^on ^- ^we ^tell ^you ^to ^go ^to ^the ^gym ^because ^it ^improves ^self ^esteem ^and ^confidence.
How photogenic are you?
How physically handsome are you?
How jacked and tan are you?
How much money do you make?
How well do you dress and present yourself?
How likable and sociable are you?
How can you add value to this womans life?

That is what attractiveness is. It's called SMV, a very popular acronym in TRP and the entire basis of male attractiveness. All of these are things you can improve.

empatheticapathetic · 2016-11-25T00:57:34+00:00

What a ridiculous experiment. Way too many uncontrollable factors at play. There's a famous video on the main TRP somewhere called: Status is king! Where they show random women some average dude and in one scenario, say the dude has a shit job and in the other, he has a great job. The women immediately find him more attractive based on him having more status.

The other commended said everything already. The fact you did this experiment shows you care way too much about something that you can't really do much about. You need to improve game and general social skills minimum.

[deleted] · 2016-11-25T03:02:24+00:00

Fuck the ones attracted to you.

cesafacinaicesafaci · 2016-11-25T03:05:34+00:00

1/10 girls will find you attractive, this is why you hit on 10 to lay one. You got a better score than that.

Title	Fact: "Most women don't find me attractive" - How to proceed? I have insecurity issues.
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Date	November 25, 2016 12:28 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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