Ever since swallowing /r/theredpill the reality hurts but the clarity is amazing. Since swallowing theredpill I can see just about how every relationship goes through these clichés. Alpha turned beta through nagging of wife, wife loses respect etc.

With my cousin it’s an even more perfect example. To clarify, I come from an Indian American family, we were all born here however we still try to retain our culture. My cousin is a good bit older than me and I remember since she was young she was always adamant that she never would get an arranged marriage. She was the type that hated her own culture, hated Brown dudes, and a hunger for the White Meat. Although, her parents thought she abstained from dating, her Facebook told another story.

And as you can imagine she crashed into the wall at 100mph. Now at the age of 29, she finally asked her parents to find her a guy. And well they did, the guy is decent looking, has a good job in Tech, but boy is he beta. I was talking to him about a girl I hooked up with off Tinder, and he couldn’t say the word sex without getting embarassed. Well, now the cycle is complete so to speak.

I don’t pity the dude at all, man has a low SMV so he is going to marry a post wall girl. If it wasn’t for beta traits, good career, stable, he would have likely never would have felt the touch of a woman. He likely will never hear about my cousins past conquests, but then again what good would it do him. It’s not like he will just find another girl. Top comment will say go find a girl in India, and to you guys, if you go to India now girls are sleeping around there just like they do here. Every Indian parent thinks their daughter and sons are virgins. There is nothing that can shield this guy from the laws of the sexual market place.

What's funny is that everyone in my family is dumbfounded at what changed my cousins mind to get an arranged marriage. My mom thinks its Bolly Wood Movies.