LTR Question

RedSkeller · 2016-10-16T16:34:04+00:00

Unfortunately, this is how it is in an LTR. Women want to go out to be seen, take selfies and "have a social life" (validation). Men are strictly utilitarian - have a drink, chase tail, get a friend laid. It gets boring quick unless you balance women and friends.

youdontevenknow84 · 2016-10-16T05:28:51+00:00

Same boat. Going out with my LTR is boring. Great girl, but I'm not going to bars to talk about love. I'm going to bars to either bullshit with bros or chase tail.

I occasionally will entertain her by going out to eat at a bar, that way she gets the bar feel while I treat it like a restaurant.

Not sure if there's a guide, but I'd be interested in other points of view. I sometimes wonder if I should just dump her to chase tail. Problem is she is a girl I want to stay with for LIFE... just wish I had met her 5 years from now.

TheRedStoic · 2016-10-16T19:35:31+00:00

Sorry bro. That's part of signing away your commitment.

You have to choose either or, or you can get really good at cheating.

Title	LTR Question
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	8
Comments	5
Date	October 16, 2016 4:43 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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