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[–]jb_trp2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
this awesome chick, straight girlfriend material. We're going to see each other again this week but the problem is I can't stop thinking about her.
Isn't it funny how if you don't give two shits about a girl, they love you, but when you start developing feelings for a woman, you start acting all blue pill and fucking everything up?
You need to be careful. You're developing oneitis and that's a sure fire ticket to turning into a beta bitch. Try not to think about her too much, focus on other things in your life, and until you both agree to be in a LTR, keep approaching and dating other women to keep your abundance mentality high.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yep. I've experience the whole women love you when you don't care, yet when they do, they don't love you. It's part of the whole "the person who cares less is the one who ends up having more power."
[–]jb_trp0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The ideal LTR is one where the girl loves the man, but the man only likes the girl.
[–]MrBowlfish1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's normal. You will only cure this "problem" by dating tons of women and gaining experience. Don't pedestalize her in your mind and just assume this relationship will fail at some point. Remember how easy it was to meet her and how quickly you can meet another. We are human and naturally develop feelings for people we like. Don't move in together, get married, or get her pregnant and you can sit back and live and learn.
[–]SetConsumes1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Enjoy it, but be mindful of your behavior. Try not to let her beauty cloud your logic.
[–]jeezydasnowman0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
In sales we call this QTQP, quality time with quality people. The system (approaching) works to find those quality people. Now make sure that you don't waste time - close her on the hookup and start the vetting process for a LTR.
Treat her like any other girl, but allow her more time than you would devote to random shanks. Note that this time does NOT include texting or calling, set up dates.
[–]Serrano-0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You've met her once. You have no idea. Someone on her once said "Slut until she proved otherwise. Never been proved wrong."
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