How to deal with an all-women University group?

MeatCurtainRod · 2016-09-26T15:31:38+00:00

You have to realize the truths in this situation:

women dominate the university world (2/3rds of all university students are female across the board). They know this, and they realize their social groups and protections gives them power to literally kick men in the balls and get away with it. They have all the institutional sexist rules and policies and laws to do whatever they want.
women around 30 as you say (which is actually very unusual for a university) are women who have not married and settled down yet and have hit the wall while still trying to follow a traditional man's path. At this point their biological clock is ticking, despite their saying it isn't (which is a flat out lie). This makes them vicious and desperate and selfish if it serves them best. They will easily turn on each other destroy each other without hesitation or guilt. They will try to be 'bossy' but lack the mental fortitude of actual leadership due to their late start of the career world.
there ARE double-standards and inequality as I've eluded , but it is solely against males. Tread lightly.
you aren't there to be right- you are there to get a degree. So you must do what it takes to earn that. The WORST thing you can do is argue and fight and become a hindrance to the group. Your ideals do not mean anything unless you have the backing of your textbook or the professor.

So just smile and agree, and stick to the subject, and AVOID all social interactions with these women unless absolutely required to get an assignment done. MOST IMPORTANTLY, know your shit for the class. Be the guy they look to for answers, and they will start following you.

[deleted] · 2016-09-26T15:43:02+00:00

Do your fucking studies and leave. You're not there for lifelong friendships. You're meant to be "friends" but it's only because you're forced to be around the same location together.

Chat about bullshit, bitch about the lecturers, create just enough rapport to be able to tap into them as a potential resource - both short term for notes as well as long term for favors - and most importantly hold your controversial opinions to yourself.

Yashugan00 · 2016-09-26T18:52:15+00:00

Guaranteed there's more than a few looking to leech. In any university group there's always 1/3 that doesn't do any work and relies on the others to get it done. You being one of two males are their first choice to mooch of because they know they can get a lot done with feminine whiles. Guaranteed they'll escalate until you react, including crying and actins super feminine 'my saviour' the day before big assignment is due.

blackedoutfast · 2016-09-26T16:54:31+00:00

bro are you sure it's not a home economics group? being the only guy in a group of 30 chicks trying to understand math sounds a total waste of time. but if they 're all learning how to bake cookies n apple pies n shit like that it could be dope af.

Title	How to deal with an all-women University group?
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Date	September 26, 2016 3:00 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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