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[–]terminal_block 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Slow down. Don't get so sexual with new girl over text. Escalate when you're actually in the same room.
Don't respond to this. Text her logistics: "come by around 9, see you here"
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[–]trpthroway1230 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You took it a step too far a step too early.
Don't be surprised if she flakes now that you showed your hand and left no doubt as to your intentions. It's 100% clear you're only inviting her over to fuck, and ASD might very well kick in no matter how willing she is.
This us why we always try to leave plausible deniability. Makes life much easier.
Telling a girl to wear something sexy should be saved for the point where you're already ducking and she already knows that's why she's coming over.
[–]Cunt_Robber0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's playing dumb, obviously. And your thoughts are correct, it's a shit-test, but you walked right into it by escalating too fast way too early.
Don't focus verbally on sex or anything related to, esp in text messages. If you straight up mention sex they get turned off. it's a rookie mistake. Anything sex related should be non-verbal. You wanna take her shirt off, you say "gee is it hot in here or what?" and you pull up the shirt a little playfully.
Texting should be short and to the point, mainly for logistics. Don't flirt or hold text conversations--she already has those with at least three other guys. She already knows what you'll probably aim to do once you meet up, is it not obvious to you that girls discover this early on in their development? The point is to be a step ahead of them, not vice versa, brother.
[–]RedSkeller0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You implied sex. Her ASD slammed the breaks. It's a bold move that would work on rare occasions - also known as you should put your penis in her first before you start texting her overtly sexual shit.
[–]redditatt0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
HB 3-4? Uhhh...
[–]SexySmexxy0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As always girls don't like to feel like sluts. Wear something sexy implies, "come whore, and bring your best garments"
Instead you can say things like "you look amazing" when you see her in person. Now she receives validation and she'll want more of that, so in the future she'll want to dress to impress even more.
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