A recent plate wants me to fly to her home country to visit her and her family for Christmas. Help!

Officer_Dick_Johnson · 2016-08-31T14:37:44+00:00

No money, busy, already have plans, Christmas I'm with family, fuck off, ect...

I'm sorry what was the question here?

ex_addict_bro · 2016-08-31T16:32:19+00:00

Make her pay for your travel, marry her, get a fucking VISA, problem solved.

In case if problems arise in your marriage, r/askMRP. NEXT!

RPShitlord · 2016-08-31T15:43:46+00:00

No way. She doesn't have a boyfriend to bring home on Christmas. Game locally on Christmas, then visit US at your convenience not during holidays or birthdays, and see her alone at night at your hotel room.

Don't take her pegging you as her retirement fuck and beta provider for "falling in love". Her feelings are to her benefit. Ignore them. The last 30 guys did. Plate only.

chasethecake · 2016-08-31T14:55:11+00:00

Just say no.

Yashugan00 · 2016-08-31T17:09:45+00:00

Say no and save yourself a heap of hassle. You'll be stuck with people you don't know and all their misguided protection issues on top of the usual baggage, with no easy way out of dodge. You'll be so far in her frame you'll make compromises left and right and she'll see you differently. She's already a plate, it can only go ok or bad for you.

[deleted] · 2016-08-31T17:20:30+00:00

Ask if she minds if you bring your girlfriend.

quicklogaccount · 2016-08-31T17:51:01+00:00

I suppose this is one stance of handling "the talk". Easy one, it's on the sidebar. MILLIONS of excuses out, you don't even need to drop the plate.

blackfin · 2016-08-31T18:08:27+00:00

Are you trying to keep her as a plate or cut her loose?

toothpickhd · 2016-08-31T14:42:49+00:00

You just said it "im not interested"

Just man up and tell her no.

Title	A recent plate wants me to fly to her home country to visit her and her family for Christmas. Help!
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	13
Date	August 31, 2016 2:25 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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