There is a myth that has been perpetuated by academics and feminists for quite some time; that women are the gatekeepers of sex and the sexual selectors for humans. The idea is that because women are capable of giving birth, they are the ones who judge whose genes get passed on (hence, women's picky nature). A fleeting glance of any developed nation with birth planning/control technology will tell you otherwise.

These nations all fall prey to the same symptoms of hypergamous behavior; entitled women, beta-fied and exploited men, hook-up culture, feminism, divorce, etc. The moment women are given complete control over sexual reproduction, social disaster ensues.

There is historical evidence as well that indicates when women are given more control over reproduction, the birth-rate ALWAYS declines. Ancient Sparta is a perfect example; low-birth rates, psychologically traumatized men, hypergamous women (Spartan women were nicknamed "thigh-flashers").

I'm not using this to make a case against women's rights, rather I'm pointing out that if women were the ultimate natural selectors, then any nation that granted them full responsibility and control of reproduction would see steady birthrates (at least enough to replace those who die).

The opposite is happening.

Women are bad at sexual selection. Anyone who has been on TRP for long enough knows that. If women were great at sexual selection, there would be nothing that any male could do to guarantee or enhance his chances with women, yet there is enough evidence to prove the contrary.

Men have always been the ones who sexually select and it is specifically because WE are the ones who must approach and engage women. Sure, a women can reject a man but her ability to reject only comes into play when a man has made the decision to try to woo her. He decides, she can only accept or reject his advances.

Women are, by nature, not capable of approach without extreme stress and anxiety. They are capable, in the same sense that women are capable of war...It doesn't mean they are built for it, nor does it mean that they will be effective enough at it to be sexually beneficial to the human race.

There are a lot of newbies here, and I wanted to address this in a concise post for their understanding. Women are not built to approach and they most certainly should not be demanded to do so.

Cowboy the fuck up and approach.