She has frequent dreams of me cheating\leaving her.

PragmaticRedTruth · 2016-07-20T18:06:02+00:00

You're damn right you aren't and everyone in the relationship sub will probably tell you all the things you need to do, but there isn't a god damn thing...

Other than:

Hold frame, tell her there's nothing to worry about, and dissociate yourself from this. Do not let this bring you down, keep you head clear, and change topics quickly anytime she talks about these dreams.

Do not tell her not to tell you, and do not seem uninterested, just don't make it seem like it's a big deal that she is having these dreams. Tell her she's got nothing to worry about.

Stories_of_Red · 2016-07-20T18:06:50+00:00

Tell you are not, but try and use this to your advantage. Encourage her to have some fun with with it as a fantasy, and that she needs to win you back from some imaginary competitor. Tell her the first priority of "winning you back" is freaky good sex, often.

Eyes_Of_The_Dragon · 2016-07-20T18:10:45+00:00

Tried asking relationshits sub, big help there! /s

I can only imagine. "Well, stop cheating on her, asshole! It doesn't matter that it's all in her head, it's your fault! Women are always rational, men are always cheaters!"

50pluspiller · 2016-07-20T18:14:40+00:00

I'm all for making all her dreams come true.

Title	She has frequent dreams of me cheating\leaving her.
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Date	July 20, 2016 5:47 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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