Is there a clear signal that a woman with a boyfriend is ready to be with you in spite of him?

Borsao66 · 2016-06-05T14:51:56+00:00

Why would you chase an obvious branch swinger? If she's willing to dump him for you, what do you think she's going to do to you eventually.

Chasing taken women is a sign towards a lack of abundance mentality.

brix99 · 2016-06-05T17:26:20+00:00

It is hard to read whether a woman in a relationship is just flirty and enjoying attention or is serious. I just leave them alone. What I hate is when they flirt with you in front of their SO. I had that the other day, and I just started subtly ignoring her and talking to her boyfriend mostly. She got a dejected look.

TheRedStoic · 2016-06-05T16:36:38+00:00

Same signs as any single woman. They act the same.

More importantly I get the feeling you only want to understand if there's a difference between a girl in supposed social contract showing interest vs a girl outside of one.

No. There isn't a difference. Your question is answered, move to something less annoying. (girls who are in a supposed social contract always provide less availability or more drama or both, just annoying imo)

Darkredsubmarine · 2016-06-05T14:59:53+00:00

For clarity, are you looking to be the new bf or just looking for signals she'd be willing to fool around with you?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-06-05T18:21:49+00:00

Is there a clear signal that a woman with a boyfriend is ready to be with you in spite of him?

You escalate, and she let's you fuck her, same as any other girl, except you will likely get some hard "Oh, but I have a BOYFRIEND!" LMR. So you need to be able to deflect that:

"Don't tell me your problems."

"I don't want to be your boyfriend."

"So? Now where were we..."

Bear in Mind: She may well be looking for validation. They all are, really, but especially 'taken' women who are used to having the bf around and want some validation from other guys. Incidentally, IME, no girls want validation MORE than women who are engaged and planning their weddings. They practically throw themselves at you.

Title	Is there a clear signal that a woman with a boyfriend is ready to be with you in spite of him?
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Date	June 5, 2016 2:49 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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