I'm a virgin and I hear that sex is not like porn?

TheJunkieMonk · 2016-04-20T19:28:21+00:00

Calm down young grasshopper, pls don't go straight to fucking her face. Have dominant body language and be more assertive from the moment you guys meet, she'll automatically be more feminine and be more submissive.

[deleted] · 2016-04-20T19:31:07+00:00

Dude, you're a virgin, you don't have fetishes yet, you have vague interests. Reality is a good teacher.

This shit right here is why people say that sex isn't porn.

There are PLENTY of women who will do whatever it is you want to do, but what differentiates real life sex from porn is that real life sex involves two parties, each of whom have their own sets of wants/desires/etc., and good communication skills allow you to figure out what will be satisfying for both of you, whereas porn is geared toward satisfying the fantasies of lonely masturbators.

Don't worry about your "demeanor," worry about having a physique and personality that women will desire, and then learn how to build rapport with women so they can open up to you about what it is they want.

jeezydasnowman · 2016-04-20T19:27:30+00:00

You aren't gonna thrust in raw and you aren't gonna latch onto her dry pussy and fingerbang her til she squirts. She isn't going to drink your load while maintaining eye contact and you're both going to make a mess. If you masterbate a lot you probably aren't going to be able to come since you will have death grip. You will probably feel a sense of amusement after at how big a deal it was to lose your virginity and how unspectacular the actual sex act is.

Jani1157 · 2016-04-20T19:24:14+00:00

I think what they were talking about how the sensations are different. Porn is a lot of over the top acting, especially depending on what you're into.

With a girl it's a lot calmer, but make no mistake girls do want to be handled and taken. Imagine how you feel when you don't have to do anything while a girl sucks your dick, that's what they want when you fuck them, just to let themselves go.

Read the Sex God Method when you have time, but aggressive and dominant are always good. The more introverted the girl, the more dominant she'll want you to be trust me.

gabilromariz · 2016-04-20T20:30:43+00:00

Remember: things you enjoy watching and things you enjoy doing are different in other contexts, and the same will be true of sex

Gawernator · 2016-04-20T19:21:22+00:00

The most unrealistic part of porn is the girls bodies and heavy makeup, fetish stuff does go on all the time in real life

dj10show · 2016-04-20T23:47:49+00:00

Actually, it was the exact opposite for me. I thought girls wanted to be made love to and such because they said pornstar sex was degrading. Turns out the more I fuck like in a porno, the better they like it.

TheDonald2k16 · 2016-04-20T21:12:28+00:00

Don't watch porn. It's for fucking losers.

Title	I'm a virgin and I hear that sex is not like porn?
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Date	April 20, 2016 6:48 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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