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[–]the_Zambony2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No, since you'll be fucking other chicks, while she is out fucking Spaniards.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
That's not a whole lot of information to go on. Did she think to invite you? If not, forget about her and go on your own badass vacation. Make sure you come back with a tan and a shit-eating grin.
[–]_red_carpet0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Agree we need more information. How long has this been planned? Did she plan it after you guys started dating- and did she think to invite you?
Has it even been booked yet? It could just be all talk and she's gauging to see whether or not you're ok with it.
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[–]_red_carpet0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She asked me if she can go, I told her no
Ehhh, there is a fine line between asserting your boundaries and controlling her/telling her what to do. I think this is probably ok since she asked you upfront "can I go", but in the future, I'd phrase it more like: "I'm not comfortable with you going."
Then the choice is hers whether or not she wants to put you in a position of whether or not she makes you uncomfortable, and you can make the call later whether or not it's worth nexting over.
It's kind of a red flag though that she would ask you, and then attack you when she didn't get the answer she wanted to hear. Why bother asking anyway?
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