Girl shows attraction & makes out with me but calls me big headed and denies any attraction

jeff_vii · 2016-02-27T11:16:41+00:00

Translation ;

Girl is calling you big headed as a defense mechanism to essentially neg you and try and bring your confidence down because is potentially intimidated

On the other side you're being a bit of a validation whore. You say you don't care to continue this, but now want to further read into the situation and try and examine if she's still interested.

Make up your mind for what you want. Either way the best approach will be to ease off a little and give less of a fuck. Sounds like your frame is slipping a little and that might be where the doubt is coming in

DarkisKnight · 2016-02-27T18:33:02+00:00

pay attention to what she does, not what she says'

Exactly.

This is good, you're the asshole that she wants to fuck not the creepy asshole who was hitting on her at the gym.

Also, yes, best not shit where you eat unless your job doesn't matter to you.

satcheel · 2016-02-27T12:08:41+00:00

Of course she is.

PeopleHateThisGuy · 2016-02-27T16:41:31+00:00

Dude, it's a retail job. When you're barely eating, you might as well shit. Your words.

mr_nate_ · 2016-02-27T17:52:27+00:00

Adding on to Jeff_vii's explanation — it's just a simple shit test. Read Shit Tests 101. Agree & Amplify when she does this, or just plain ignore her ass.

Title	Girl shows attraction & makes out with me but calls me big headed and denies any attraction
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Comments	7
Date	February 27, 2016 11:00 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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