It sucks when you’ve got a regular fuck buddy who starts acting weird about sex and doesn’t even wanna chill in bed. Nothing’s really changed between each other and you’re hanging out as friends and then when you try to make it sexual, they withdraw for seemingly no reason.

This’s happened to me a few times even with the same people. I want to convey the message “I want us to be having sex or not be such close friends” without sounding like an asshole. It seems like (to women) it’s not ok to be so up front about wanting sex.

So what can I do to get back to the sex zone that used to be so established? Play it cool and keep chillin till she’s feeling it again, or is there some chill effective way to essentially ask for sex?

Thanks!