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[–]RPNovice890 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Go further in depth. I can't quite understand.
The best I can think of is giving you attention and you eat it up but the moment you try to make the moves she looks at you like you treat her like a piece of meat.
If anything, be solid, be a rock and say what. Not what as in what is your problem BRO!
What as in a stoic calm manner. If she doesn't say anything, deject and push her away when she tries to be affectionate. Don't reward her for bad behavior. Only reward good ones.
For better effect, work out, get confidence, openly flirt with other girls but show you aren't a thirsty idiot. Have class and return your attention to your girl. Dread game is a thing for a reason.
If you don't believe me, there are several links I can add where this worked.
[–]HippogrifId0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I for one would like more details about this dread game.
[–]RPNovice890 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Basically, it's the concept that you can leave her and find other women, which instills dread in the woman you are seeing. She'll work harder to be better and get your attention.
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2rsk3s/the_intelligent_alpha_male_smv_and_why_dread_game/
This is the long, detailed version for theory.
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2yn5j5/guys_wife_stops_putting_effort_into_their/
Here's a true example of real life of what dread game does in application
[–]abdada0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she doesn't respond to your time investment, invest less time.
Google: 12 levels of dread, and do that.
[–]MeatCurtainRod0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she is annoyed, isn't it wise to just stop? Don't take it personally, and don't read into it and jump to conclusions. There will ALWAYS be a disparity between emotional states and affection between you two. Just be calm and collected, and do your own independent thing. Soon you'll realize the more you care less, the more she will realize you aren't playing her game. Then she'll turn 180 and do things to get your affection back. Just ride the roller coaster of female emotions with cool levelheadedness.
[–]FrameWalker0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go no contact for at least a week. When she asks you about it pretend you didn't notice and tease her for being needy.
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