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[–]alveoli11 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just talk to her. She obviously feels at least a little comfortable with you if she asked you to spot her / do a form check.
Just start a conversation, make her feel more comfortable around you, joke around, light kino if possible then ask her if she wants to go for a drink / whatever after the workout.
Don't cold approach in the gym to women who obviously aren't interested. Thats super douchy.
[–]omegavil0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes I agree. Another thought I had is it someone simply wanting attention and asking questions to get some.
[–]GunnarX2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't. Don't shit where you eat.
[–]omegavil2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Like I said in the post, I'm leaving in 1 weeks time for 29 weeks, after that I will be stationed elsewhere. It doesn't matter if I take a whopping shit right before I leave.
[–]DonaldJTrump2k161 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A woman is going to have her guard up at the gym probably more than any other place she goes.
That doesn't mean she doesn't want to be approached, otherwise why do they wear these sexy outfits and leggings and yoga pants and such? Why do they still wear makeup when they go to the gym? They still care about their appearance.
When their guard is up, it just means that any potential approacher has a higher bar to clear when it comes to SMV. You will have to make it worth her while more than it would take if she were at any other place.
[–]bigcitytruth0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don't have the skills to cold-approach in a gym. The evidence? A girl handed you an opportunity on a silver plate and you didn't have the initiative to take it.
Work on day-game first at a coffee shop, and only when you can actually close via daygame can you do the gym, which is a LOT harder than most other daytime locales.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There is a video about that
[–]rep120 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why are you looking for women in the gym? You should be there to work out.
Because I don't go wearing blinkers, I am astute to the booty, it's hard to miss in such a busy gym. I'm still a guy at the end of the day regardless if I'm lifting big or not.
Also the gym is a good place to meet someone since you already have a big thing in common. Self improvement is what I'm after, where else do I notice that?
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