How to respond to: "in love but single shit test"

Rasalom72 · 2015-12-31T18:58:18+00:00

Fucking ignore. Think about it. How could you respond to this IN ANY WAY AT ALL, that won't cost you some how?

Just STFU about it and ignore it. Besides, who gives a fuck if she's not single, not in love, or dating.... none of that shit matters.

Apexk9 · 2015-12-31T19:27:11+00:00

"Hung up on an ex. I kow that feeling fucking crystal...30 women later and I still haven't found anyone even close"

Warning: I personally don't mind texting as I don't have enough time to make space for that many women to see what's up so I vet them through text.

My strategy at this point in life is to have one ltfwb while vetting women through text if I met them online, if we met in person depends on the interaction.

neverstoplearning590 · 2015-12-31T20:33:46+00:00

If this isn't an alpha widow I dont know what is.

But my response would be "You already fell in love with me? I'm not that good at dancing!"

MasterUm · 2016-01-01T01:45:10+00:00

For my style of game, that is perfect. This gives you an opportunity to go out with her, while outright completely overtly disqualifying her as a woman. The way it goes, by the end of the first date the girl would be physically escalating on you non-stop (happened to me multiple times). She would not know it is a date, of course.

Some caveats:

You must invite her to an activity that you yourself enjoy, and that is not necessarily a "date". Partnering up for a salsa, then drinking beers in some park is perfect. Absolutely no fancy restaurants and shit like that.

"Is this a date?", "Are you hitting on me?" should be met with either outright disgust "O_o WHAT? Omg NO you have that thing going on!" or crazy laughter "MWAHAHAHA NOOOO you are taken honey". I.e. nuclear option right out of the door, to make it very clear you do not see her as a potential partner. If you can not deliver this line, or understand that this is the best way to go, you did not swallow the pill.

This puts you in an unachievable prize position, which blows them right out of the water. Again, for my style of game, I'd often see non-stop IOI's including physical escalation by the end of the first date (and I'm in the bottom 30% looks-wise).

Hope this helps.

Title	How to respond to: "in love but single shit test"
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Date	December 31, 2015 6:52 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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