Found sex isn't worth it, now what to focus on?

kabylewolf · 2015-11-12T16:05:57+00:00

You haven't had good sex. Read Sex God Method to learn good sex and it'll change your views on it.

However, traditionally, you want to get a better feeling from your accomplishments than sex.

I race cars (baja/road course) too and it's a thrill, glad to see another track rat out here. Stay calm and don't lift ;)

With the season over, you should want to set your finances in order, or build an off season vehicle. My FD is likely getting retired for a few months until the rain goes away and I'm focusing on my Baja-Bronco. I previously had built a WRX I was rallying on free weekends and a couple SCCA RallyX events. Lots of fun. You learn A LOT about car control when you're in the dirt/sand or snow.

You seek intimacy, we get it. It's a desire and no one can really fault you for it. But just realize you've got all the time in the world. You don't need an emotional outlet. If you do, get a dog. You don't need a chick to bond with.

empatheticapathetic · 2015-11-12T14:42:58+00:00

I don't really have any advice but just wanna say thanks for writing this. Late Virgin here. Nearly lost it to another Virgin last month and then blew it up for getting too attached. Been obsessed since and only recently started to not care about it again. Reassuring to hear that it's not the be all end all from someone who may have been in a similar place compared to experienced redpillers who blankly say "focus on yourself" with no understanding of the struggle at this point. Thanks.

Rayjaysdick · 2015-11-12T20:31:37+00:00

Women are nice to have around when you want to come in them. But that's just a small part of life, women should never come first.

FrameWalker · 2015-11-12T14:46:42+00:00

Everything in life takes work. LTRs take time money and energy, so does spinning plates. If you've got good game and are fit and pulling girls requires little timr spinning plates is better for your time. Once you're in an LTR you still have to Game her and open new girls to stay sharp. It's not zero effort mode.

Title	Found sex isn't worth it, now what to focus on?
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Date	November 12, 2015 2:26 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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