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My favorite pre-work out is bcaa preworkout from optimum and I like having 3 oreos dipped in peanut butter. I then proceed to knock out a 1200 calorie workout. Lol
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Depends. I've successfully dated a few alpha widows. Some are too far gone, others are suitable to date. There's a lot of nuance in deciding. My advice is to drop the ego. See where it goes, be open, and have very low expectations. You'd be surprised how alpha widows respond to guys who operate without an ego. It's a complete 180 most likely from the Chad they were with. Sometimes worth a few pumps, other times you can convert an alpha widow into a serviceable ltr. No one size fits all. Just pla…
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Why do you have an ego? This is bad advice if your criticism is focused on someone maintaining an ego. Perfect fine if you don't have a petulent ego and high confidence.
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Honestly, most girls I've dated in this area find the entrepreneur guy a huge turn off. Mostly because so many guys are trying to do it and trying to ride with that veneer. I'd say it's only something worth bringing up once it's clearly established. I'm a tiny bit aways from that, although still making outrageously good money. Or you actually have the casual alpha personality that sells the "I'm an entrepreneur" . I honestly smoke a lot. I'm creating a new line of cartridges and prerolls so ther…
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Well, there's a mild conundrum. The chicks that smoke that would date a conservative guy, aren't exactly desirable (think ghetto CA chola or deliverance trailer types). The good ones that would date a conservative guy by and large don't smoke and don't want to bring home a guy who smokes. And the desirable girls that smoke, conflict with a conservative guy. Which hasn't been bad in the past, and has had a lot of wonderful plates. But I'm so burnt out on plates and I'm giving my hand at serious d…
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I usually do the same, but girls zero in particularly hard on what you do for a living. It wasn't a problem before because I was a Systems Engineer and trained military/police K9s. But now I quit my Engineering gig and my K9 business is such a low priority right now that I can't honestly say I'm still doing it. I think what I'll do is just tell them I'm a farm hand. I supervise some illegals or something. I don't know. Hahah
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She probably does, so? The question that matters is WOULD she. If she cared about you, she probably wouldn't.. even though she wants to. And again, if you make a joke about gang banging her with your friends and she's down... wellllllllllllllll you can let that ass walk right out the door with as many of your buddies dicks in it as she wants. Should be clear cut to you man.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 09:19 PM
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End it. Youre too fucked up to know your own limits. There is nothing but pain and disappointment if this carries on unless she shows a wild change in committing to you. But even then, can't turn a ho into a housewife. Just get busier after work. Start seeing her less outside of the office. Shit make her work from home more often, or you work from home. Doesn't matter it needs to end.
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You failed a shit-test. Let that sink in. I had a girl similar to your situation. Feelings developed and we were both wild wild whores, we both aknowledged an emotional/intimate connection and we both told each other we'd have jealousy issues. After I established that I do not care that she sleeps with others or how slutty she is, but bringing that shit up harshes the fun. She understood and she felt the same way. Your options are pretty straight forward. Cut it off (which I know you won't do). …
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Easy. Keep fucking her. Stop caring what she does on the side.
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agree and amplify is directly in line with cocky/funny. You need to simply not take any of those questions seriously. You don't impress a chick with your job, the only fucking chumps that think that works are people who think women valuate men with blue pill lenses. I'm also deep into 6 figures directly after becoming a civilian and going from 22k to that it was insane. I thought it was the most impressive thing. And a few months of dating and you realize that shit simply gets absolutely no trac…
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Hahaha, so being around contractors. Who have a reputation for being shmucks all over the DoD is what caused your perception of rich people? Hahaha your average contractor is still likely working paycheck to paycheck even with a six figure salary. They ain't rich. They're just high income. What is my side? That I'm tolerant of people? I'm a bad guy because I also tolerate people who make a lot of money? How do you know I wouldn't make the world better? Based on what? You're prejudicing me becaus…
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/r/askTRP20/01/16 05:25 PM
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Ok, holy fucking shit. You wrote all this shit for a chick you're obviously already in love with and you've only known her 3 weeks. De-escalate, you ain't ready. Drop this chick like a bad habit (ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR GUT) and move on. You obviously have serious problems maintaining frame.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 05:20 PM
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I don't know how many women you sleep with. But I run into these situations too. Sometimes chicks just don't want to keep going, some hamster is running in their head and they decide they just would rather not. Be it they're not that into you, or they feel weird about a younger black dude, or whatever. It's a strange dynamic and women aren't as adventurous as men are with new experiences. I wouldn't sweat it unless you can bring up something to suggest you did something they reacted negatively t…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 05:19 PM
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And you begin shaming her for a lack of responsibility.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:59 PM
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Bro. Just look at her and tell her "Hey I need my paper back" it's that simple. She'll give it back.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 09:42 PM
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Yeah you absolutely 100% are not ready for suppliments. Please head my advice, you're just wasting money. Just stick with creatine and a protein powder you can stomach.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 09:38 PM
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There's a guide on TRP about this sort of thing. He needs to keep calm and collect, document everything and get an attorney. He needs to never react to anything she does to attempt to trigger him. He needs to always be willing to help. Just because she self harms is not a slam dunk. Not by a long shot. Especially for a minor, they'll be looking at her parents as opposed ot the actual parents of the child.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 08:16 PM
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I literally told him to get a lawyer. This is the advice that should be given.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 08:15 PM
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He needs to crash and burn. And he will. Be there to help him after everything.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 07:28 PM
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It's libel, not slander. Get a lawyer, they'll draft a cease and desist on the cheap. If they continue, then take them to court for damaging your reputation according to tort law.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 07:27 PM
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You should want to look forward a monk mode. See you're after getting laid more than you're after self improvement. You need to have that significant shift in inner dialogue with yourself. Once you get excited about the limits you can reach with dedicating time to strictly yourself and being the best you can be. It'll get addicting, and chicks will come as a by product. And you know what? You probably won't even want to be with chicks half the time since you'll value self improvement more than t…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 07:05 PM
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If you can't afford a 150-200 dollar hooker. Then you can't afford to take girls out for food. If you can't bring them home direct to bang then you need to go monk mode and just try to pick up chicks in the wild whenever the opportunity presents itself.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 06:46 PM
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Look, if you're asking on a sub about your supps you don't know what you're taking. It's that simple. The only sup worth taking in that list is creatine. The others are usually reserved for people looking for something specific. I don't know anyone who rolls with this many sups. I only keep 2 sups and I'm jacked (190lbs, 12% BF) . Creatine and caffeine (whey if you want to include that). Just fucking eat half decent and drink creatine after a workout. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 06:44 PM
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You were raised without a functional social model. I suffered the same fate by being raised by extremely conservative traditional immigrant parents and I was an odd one out as a child up until I was a young adult. You need to learn to mirror peoples emotions. Get "The Charisma Myth" it will show you everything you need to know to make a connection with anyone. Raise your charisma and become instantly social-able in any environment. It'll teach you to be aware of how you are pinging to your audie…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 06:10 PM
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Then you have to maintain the girls you sleep with. Let them know you're interested and keep them interested in you. I play the "Work has been crazy" card all the time with chicks I've recently slept with and I'm just trying to lock it down at home again with minimal effort. I tell em all I want to do is smoke some bud and order Italian delivery food, she should come over since you find her relaxing. Chicks always come. And I always get a nice little massage. I talk a lot of shit to my plates, k…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:58 PM
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Yeah I just wouldn't respond either. Move on. If she cared she'll hit you back up again more amicably. But I certainly wouldn't reach out again, she burned this bridge for sure. I don't think you were being a dick at all. Remember you were waiting on her and she forgot about you. She was the dick.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:55 PM
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who cares about spinning if you can get a replacement? And you need to remember, just because you bang one doesn't mean she's automatically a plate or that she's a lock for keeping around. She might get bored you might get bored. It happens. Spinning plates requires a bit more maintenance than just going out and bringing in fresh meat repeatedly. I don't really spin plates myself, I mostly just keep going on the hunt. I'll plate one if the sex was good but that's about it.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:46 PM
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Hookers and monk mode. Don't fuck up something simple. I use hookers a lot. They're great.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:41 PM
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It doesn't have any merit for promotions. There are plenty of toastmasters clubs/groups on just about every base but it's simply a self improvement decision. However I know for the Air Force as part of your performance report you can put toastmasters under the self improvement or education categories.... soooo... kinda? But not really.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 09:15 PM
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The Charisma Myth and honestly, just going out in the field is your best education.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 08:05 PM
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You don't have to do anything. This over dramatic mindset is bluepill as shit. Slow your fucking roll.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 07:33 PM
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arrogant means you aren't self aware. You need to refine your charisma. Get this book "The Charisma Myth" and it'll fix this issue. You're also brand new to TRP, it's a metric fuckload of trial and error so don't sweat it. You're gonna fail with a lot of chicks until you find the proper balance. Look forward to failing.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 07:32 PM
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Bro IT'S ONLY BEEN A MONTH. This takes a long time to make a major shift in your mentality. You're still bluepill if you want immediate satisfaction like a fucking child. Results take time. Being redpill means we delay gratification for self improvement. Keep working on yourself, keep being diligent, go completely monkmode for a few months then come back and report once you've found yourself. jesus christ, a fucking month
/r/askTRP15/01/16 07:29 PM
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Think of it like this. chubby chicks are like neckbeards. Neckbeards like to imagine they'd treat women nice, they want a real relationship and not some cheap one night stand (because they can't get it). Fat chicks are just like that. Look at POF how many butter huffers say they want a REAL relationship. haha
/r/askTRP15/01/16 06:50 PM
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Don't even bother talking to her unless she directly tries to converse with you. Just ALWAYS smile and have a good time when she's in the vicinity. Keeps her disappointed in herself. But DO NOT ENGAGE. You'll cuck the fuck outta this if you try. I'm glad you recognize it's not a good idea. Just stick with your guns on this one. Much better pussy out there man.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 06:37 PM
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You're still in an anger phase. Start succeeding at something and those feelings of nihilism go away.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 06:35 PM
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bro....... you literally just made a post in asktrp 20 minutes ago. No, chubby girls are not getting harder to slay. Why are you settling? That isn't very RP. Chubby girls aren't what you think they are. They aren't some sex starved being that wants to take the first dick thrown their way. Chubby chicks want something REAL. They know they can't compete in the WHOrlympics so they want to find LTR material right off the bat because it's their only way to bring a guy in in the way they want. Use th…
/r/askTRP15/01/16 06:34 PM
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Yeah you aren't ready to contact her. So don't. This post made it that much more obvious.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 06:30 PM
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Lol, it's a numbers game man. Keep rolling the dice. Don't let it get to you. This is why a lot of guys here don't recommend online dating because of exactly this and it's hard to exhibit your masculine traits. Most guys are at the mercy of the girl who has a window shopping spree of pickings. Honestly, I'll line up multiple dates as /u/mattyanon said and I'll date hop like a dirty bastard. I've got one cafe/bar I go to and I bring all my dates there, the wait staff always laugh when they see me…
/r/askTRP15/01/16 06:29 PM
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Lol. you just twisted this chick so hard you don't even realize it. She's into you HARD if this is how she reacted. If you contact her for whatever reason in the near future. Remember this chick clearly liked you and she got hurt. It's an advantageous position to be in the future if you want to bring her around again. But I wouldn't recommend it since you're obviously way too into her that you probably can't control yourself.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 06:23 PM
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It's normal. chicks want to be entertained. You don't exist until they meet you. You're just one out of dozens of numbers they're talking to. If you don't make an impression when it comes to online dating you're gonna struggle. The text for logistics and minimal digital communication is fine if you've already met them. But before that point, you're gonna need to keep them interested.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 06:14 PM
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Yeah, if I was long I wouldn't be looking at shit right now. Hahaha Now I want to look at my 401k because fuck it. -7% HOOOLLLYY FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
/r/askTRP15/01/16 06:12 PM
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posture. And surround yourself with confident, achieving people. You'll mimic their habits without even realizing it. Then, pick up the book "The Charisma Myth" By Olivia Cabane. It'll teach you a handful of tricks and methods into putting your mind to the gym. You'll come out a refined, confident, charismatic machine.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 06:11 PM
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I did toastmasters while in the military. Great experience. Toastmasters is going to be a difficult environment to find friends. As most people who join those types of clubs are generally older. Not often you'll see a couple of young bucks strolling through there. Just look for the one that will teach you the most and has the most impressive group of members.
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puuuuurfect. You're in an ideal position to see significant gains relatively quickly. Alright so if you can sprint, sprint. It doesn't have to be fast, just make it hard. Sprint routines are one of the ultimate ways to get mo' shredded than a Julianne salad. You want to try to throw your body as violently as possible with each pump, it's not going to be fast but it'll engage every muscle group. You're doing a lot of calisthenics which is great but you won't be seeing gains very quickly unless it…
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Just get snipped. It's cheap, and reversible and you don't have to rely on the chick.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 05:36 PM
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Bro, just go and have fun. Chicks like dudes that aren't being obvious in chasing the vagina. Just go with your bros, have some fun and a chick will latch on. Chicks suck at having fun. They have fun by latching onto people that have fun and being part of the group. Certainly don't over think it. A girl will make herself stand out to you if you're attractive and having a good time, just recognize it and roll with it.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 05:32 PM
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Not true. Savvy investing is another route.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 05:27 PM
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Ah. So I'd certainly focus on machines as opposed to free weights. Are you capable of using a leg press? If so, it'll be your best friend. Find a smith machine and start doing most of your upper body workouts on it. If you can row, use a row machine as well. I don't know how severe your condition is but if you can row it's probably one of the best things you can do full body workout wise outside of sprinting which I'm assuming is ruled out. What's your diet look like? Whats your weight? And esti…
/r/askTRP15/01/16 05:26 PM
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You're super vague. her telling you she only sees you as a friend could be a shit test or not. But I can't accurately tell from your post. You want to be alpha? Simple, tell her "hey, let's go on a date" That's it. Then you'll see if it's a shit test or not. She might initially refuse or protest but navigate accordingly to see if it's genuine refusal or if it's just a token refusal.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 05:20 PM
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What is your disability? Anyone can improve their SMV in any situation. You're already on the right path, you probably just aren't going about it in the most efficient way. And gains take a while to appear when you work out. Especially if you work out to look like you work out. You gotta drop that mentality, looking good and in shape and seeing gains are a side affect of just being a healthy person. You want to be healthy more than you want to be jacked. Get in that mindset. You won't even pay a…
/r/askTRP15/01/16 05:18 PM
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You ain't ready to start seeing if people pay attention to you. That simple. You place way too much value in external validation. Start meditating, start doing mental roleplaying and boost your confidence by running your ideal dream scenarios over and over and over in your head and just being comfortable and fooling yourself that you really are just the shit. You probably have a look that is just unattractive, and I can bet you a thousand bucks is that you look unconfident from a mile away. Just…
/r/askTRP15/01/16 05:16 PM
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It's just someone after shock value, he's not gay. I did something similar when I was younger but quickly grew out of it since shock value entertainment is cheap and extremely risky. He's just immature, chalk it up to that.
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You'd be surprised how rare it is to find someone who reaches this point of insane motivational drive. The best way to see it is watching athletes. You can tell immediately by those training who has that next level of drive and who doesn't (I'm not talking about talent or ability, simply the effort put in). Once you find that place in your head where you're ultra motivated. FEED IT. Ignoring it or settling to do something else will no longer make this mental place in your head as amped up as it …
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You should start by talking to anyone period, penis, vagina, surgically altered genitalia, whatever some weird whackjob wants to identify as. Talk to anyone and everyone. Dating is just a natural by-product of keeping a girls interest. You only do that by being interesting to people around you.
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He's as alpha as they get. But why do you care?
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STOP COMPARING. Now fucking listen to me you whiny sack of pity me shit. You can stat yourself out all day fucking long with shit you think women find attractive. That's bluepill, being ripped doesn't mean chicks will be into you. That's bluepill. Making a bunch of money or having a cool job doesn't make a chick want to be with you. That's bluepill. You don't give a fuck about those chumps. You've got a baller career and lifestyle. Who cares what some dude does? Get busy living your fucking life…
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Offroading, shooting, invite her over to "decorate your cast". Shit man, if you were fun and you got this chick hooked just any option you throw at her should work. Say you feel like cooking something up that's crazy and invite her over or go to her place and cook up a storm.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 10:36 PM
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If you like XC and it's benefits, stick with it. There's nothing wrong with that, you can be the alpha of XC. Your call. I did distance running but I was never lean for it, I was always moderately jacked. Great benefits and girls love seeing a guy who can run who doesn't look like a holocaust victim. Running shirtless (assuming you got it to rock it) around the area is always a surefire way to kick up a conversation with a girl who might of seen you. I can't tell you how often I've gotten the "o…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 10:31 PM
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Uh no. Don't sniffle. You play coy. It hints that you are into her, without you busting frame. You hug "man, I almost missed you" you say it teasingly. She's gonna want to try to get a more concrete statement from you like "I like you" or whatever and you just keep it light and fun.
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Depends where you're at. I've always enjoyed my deployments, it was forced monk mode and I came back a pussy crushing machine. Mo' shredded than a jullianne salad man, and loins frothing. It's really up to you. But I've found a certain enjoyment in having no distractions in that type of environment. You really get the full experience. Plus you're young, you try some craziness like that you'll be just another young enlisted who fucked up out there. My vote is for taking the time to make money, le…
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This might be a dick move. But why are you with her? I wouldn't jump in a relationship with someone if they didn't have a strong character/confidence. In my opinion, TRP would be to not even be with this chick. But if you choose to be. You're gonna have to act a little blue pilly here and there to soothe her. She's a basket-case.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 07:02 PM
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of course isn't agreeing and amplifying. It's just agreeing, but it was a C+ grade for this shittest. Not bad, but not good. A&A would be "of course, I bet you're ridiculously good with kids too" (assuming she likes kids).
/r/askTRP08/12/15 07:00 PM
2

Nothing, there's nothing special about it. Online is just the new platform but the game is the same. This post is worthless.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 06:05 PM
2

Hmm, interesting read. I see his points. I'll keep that in mind if I face a situation where this information would be appropriate. However in my case, I've had fairly good results by being clear it's not something I want to deal with. Then again I'm not dealing with LTRs.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 05:58 PM
2

Either you recently just started working out, or you aren't having very efficient sex. for the squat, I use one of the leg press machines, they do the job fairly well and I have a herniated disc so it's likely my best choice. For deadlifts, easy... use less weight. But there really isn't a decent substitute for a deadlift without throwing in a bunch of workouts in it too. I typically like doing dumbbell rows on days I'm not feeling the deadlift or I'll also do this working (I forgot the name) bu…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 05:55 PM
1

Lol no, who gives a fuck. It's her problem. Unless of course she's one of the rare hyper menstral insanity cases where she's just 100% unbearable on her period. Then yeah, fucking duh. I had a chick like that who would literally I bullshit you not, hold her lower belly and wither and squirm on the floor begging for jesus to help her. I banged her once on her period and this chick exploded a fucking blood bag from a crime scene it was one of the worst I've ever seen. Shit was EVERYWHERE. Anyway, …
/r/askTRP08/12/15 05:43 PM
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No. She doesn't see you as a BB. She's trying to raise her value to you so you commit. She's still trying to hook you. You're the alpha.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 05:39 PM
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You want closure, you ain't gonna get it. Don't seek it. Just do it a day at a time man, one day without hitting her up, sweet, two days without hitting her up... ah shit, this is getting easier. Usually by the third day it isn't on your mind that much and it gets way easier to push her out of your head. Just get busy man, Abundance mentality. Find other shit. This chick ain't that great I can absolutely promise you that. Just hit the gym, turn yourself into a chad thundercock.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 05:36 PM
2

If it ain't easy, don't bother. That's my mentality with online dating. And after looking at your texts, you should of answered her if you wanted to see her. A chick that is that insisting isn't going to like being shut out and it's gonna turn her off. Not to mention occasionally chicks like to know whats up so they feel safe. You played a good game on the wrong girl. Chicks ain't gingerbread cookies where one cookie cutter will work.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 04:59 PM
2

It's possible, I've only had it with some seriously magical pussy though. We bang, I jizz, still hard so I get back in there. Zero recovery period. The chick really wasn't even that hot but something chemical about our sex made it some of the best ever. It's biological as far as I'm concerned. Extremely rare to find pussy like that.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 02:46 PM
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"Cute? Shit it better be Bambi levels of cute" But in all honesty. Replying with "I know" and moving on are your best choices. It'll tickle her with how little that phased you.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 07:51 PM
2

Well I told my doc my problems and he suggested Cialis. It sucked because one of my main plates is no longer sexually compatible without Cialis so I had to drop her. But it's about every one in 4 girls that I get this problem with. Even trying again later yields the same result. I use my Cialis for the super hot ones but it's sparing. A bottle of 8 pills will last me about a month and a half. But plenty of people take it recreationally with no major issues.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 06:54 PM
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Only way to know is if you fuck another chick just fine. I've reached the point where with some chicks, I just go soft no matter what. So I have a bottle of cialis as backup. There are other girls with whom I have zero problems fucking. I haven't totally figured it out either but I've just come to terms that sometimes my dick will make the choice.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 02:35 PM
3

Hahaha she asked for 300 bucks. She wasn't worth a Mickey D's kids meal.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 04:27 PM
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Lol. I fucked a feminist. A fucking annoyingly militant feminist. She kept trying to make it seem like it was her show and I just wouldn't allow it. She was in one of those "open relationships" and was interested in how I behaved differently towards her than other guys (BP suckers she hangs out with that worship her feet). I made her shave her legs, pits, and put on deodorant (yeah, she was one of THOSE) and gave her the dick of her life. She fucked it up when while we were fucking asked me to p…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 04:07 PM
5

It depends. I had Alpha characteristics throughout my entire life however due to how I was raised (hyper traditional islamic family) a lot of those traits were curbed and I had to understand how to utilize them again. Once I went through monk mode (this was before I found TRP) the transition was relatively quickly. I think my mental state and perspective on life turned around in about 5 months. Now, 4 years later I've refined a lot of what I've learned. I always practice, I'm always improving, a…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 04:05 PM
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What are you trying to do here? Is this a post to humblebrag about your dedication? Because that's how it comes off as. You certainly are right, your social charisma is pretty meager. There's nothing wrong with what you're doing. It's essentially going monk mode. However you're putting off a holier than thou type of vibe about this whole ordeal with leads me to suspect you may not be in the most efficient mental position. Things for you to consider.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 04:01 PM
3

Uhh, have you just tried talking to her?
/r/askTRP18/11/15 11:30 AM
3

Jesus christ. You've got issues kid.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 11:28 AM
5

Embrace it. It's who you are, why are you upset? It's like someone saying hah! You have black hair! Reply with "oh so you noticed? Now what do you want to drink?" Let it slide off you. Deflect to keeping the image of you being a fun person, a good time. If she fixates then she's worthless and move on.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 11:25 AM
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Lol. Don't respond. Act like you don't go on facebook. And actually stop going. Who cares how someone feels about their jab at you. That's your ego talking because you're too petty to understand that shit just don't matter. So in sort, who cares? Move on
/r/askTRP18/11/15 11:19 AM
6

It's whatever looks good on you that you can pull off. Most guys here will recommend more conservative styling like crew cuts or comb overs. I personally like some length and am growing my hair out, chick's love stroking longer hair.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 11:17 AM
1

I was 353d SOG The military opens a lot of doors. Only an ignorant fool would disagree. It sucks, military blows and it's a generally huge waste of time. But the benefits available to you are unmatched. I've helped plenty of people lock down 100% disability, or educated them on the insanity that is buying a house with zero down. Not to mention multiple tax credits available to you once you sep (dependant on state). The military gave me a decent salary, paid for my degree, and gave me ojt that ro…
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:26 AM
4

Yeah you're still blue pill if this is your reaction after serving. VA doesn't take care of you huh? I've got $1000 dollars that says you haven't even helped yourself to get the VA care you deserve. Also guess what, the sjw BS in the military is going to prepare you for how shitty it is on the outside. I understand your reaction, I got attached to your unit in kandahar 2013. Total shitheads. Being in the military is EXTREMELY advantageous when you line it all up. I did my 4, and not even a month…
/r/askTRP17/11/15 02:38 AM
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Dude what the fuck? Just stop contact until you're about to see her again. Why even bother? Jesus
/r/askTRP16/11/15 09:54 PM
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Because it shatters your image of self worth. Even though it really doesn't. Because you're weak, collect yourself and get back into self improvement. Move past this. Because you are competitive and don't like to be beat. And you desire closure on your terms. Come to terms that you got rocked and delete any contact info relating to this chick. Because you are weak and haven't understood abundance mentality works both ways. Because you are weak. You fucked up by using RP to figure women out befor…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 09:51 PM
3

Find a good girl.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 09:46 PM
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If you ever don't know how to respond. Don't. Rule of thumb. And she's soooooooo feeling you out. So this depends where you're at with her. In this instance, I'd say something along the lines of "I dunno, I send my side pieces pics all the time. You should too, but let me make sure they're gonna do the job right though ;)"
/r/askTRP16/11/15 09:46 PM
1

20-22 year olds are gonna be around school for the most part. Just hang out in a college town cafe or something doing some work and hit on whoever is around you (I'll do this when I'm on a binge for chicks). Or just get tinder, pay the subscription and change your location to a college town near you. Any age group (legal age obviously) is worth looking at if you just want to be the iron chef of pounding vag. Anything more than that and it complicates things.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 09:40 PM
3

chicks know they're into you within the first 5 seconds. Register their mannerisms accordingly. This guy is cutting a few corners in explaining this to you.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 09:38 PM
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Go worry about basic first. Picking up chicks in that environment is hard, and if you get fired for it, can jeopardize you going into boot (since you said basic, I'm assuming either AF or USN) since certain services don't accept enlistees who have been fired from previous employment.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 09:37 PM
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News Flash. A lot of us still feel like kids when we're older. It's a strange perspective. You just need to go out with pure confidence and trust in yourself and your decisions and the manly-man will come out as a by product. Don't worry about where you are, just keep working on moving forward. Digest the RP fully. Stop worrying about how you stack up, stop comparing. Plan for school, get mo' shredded than a Julienne salad, work on your charisma (you come off as a meager kid, you don't leave an …
/r/askTRP16/11/15 09:33 PM
2

Sketchy. Go a little distant and see if she pursues. If she doesn't or waits for you to initiate, you're done. Leave. If she makes the attempt of making plans, getting in touch with you, then she's into you and her online profile thing is meaningless. But I'd certainly make a point to get her to quit going on that shit.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 09:30 PM
3

♂ bingo
/r/askTRP16/11/15 08:59 PM
2

Some guys here will say stay away from social media. Because it makes you look weak or someone who seeks validation. However I say social media is a tool. I keep my social media extremely simple. All I do is exhibit my SMV. I don't post political nonsense, or opinions or any of that. I'll post pictures of me skydiving, training dogs, partying, racing etc. But I NEVER have just text posts or anything. I've come to enjoy the simplicity of instagram and use it for showing off. I've even taken advic…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 08:58 PM
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Exactly, any energy you spend trying to refute it is ammo you give to use against yourself without you knowing it. It's a situation where the right move is no move. It's their ace in the hole and the only way you lower it's value as their ace is to not feed that fire. She told me her dad abused her and I had her side. Now I wish I could buy that man a beer. Cold blooded. Hahaha
/r/askTRP16/11/15 06:56 PM
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Asking why you don't say sorry isn't a security test. At least not for me. She wants to figure out whats making you tick. Her emotions are what she uses to lure you in. Keep mysterious, any opportunity to let their hamster run is a good one. If she wants security, you bang her and cuddle and be affectionate then. Re-assure her with your actions, not your words.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 05:41 PM
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Why the fuck did you bother explaining yourself? In a situation like that I'd have done this "Why don't you ever say you're sorry?" give her a gentle playful push "Sorry.." and then laugh about it. Kill it with humor. Don't ever explain yourself. You're lucky she didn't get stuck on that conversation. That was a minefield and you failed it in my opinion.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 05:27 PM
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No. Don't hit her up. Just act like nothing happened is the best course of action. Talking about that night shows that you've been thinking about it and it'll make her hamster run. Just act like nothing has happened and she'll be grateful that she won't have to be confronted about it. I'd also avoid work flings unless you know what you're doing. Which you typically learn early on and not at a career (which I'm assuming is the position you're in).
/r/askTRP16/11/15 05:04 PM
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It's the easiest card to pull and not a sane fucking person would dare challenge them. They don't feel like it does any real damage and they get a pass or sympathy to help get over whatever happened. I've had a few girls pull that before and my reply was always "Yeah? Well you hurt my feelings once" and I just stop. No need to explain. Nothing. You not taking it seriously and turning it into a joke shows how little it's affecting you and that it discredits the chick.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 05:02 PM
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Keep your sword sharp. Be flirtatious, show that you are desirable and that you can engage at will. When I was in an LTR I'd still flirt in front of my girl and it kept everyone around me in good spirits (except her little hamster would get goin a little). There's very little you can do to tame the beast, I constantly flirt and am good at getting girls attention and making them laugh. Sometimes just doing that isn't enough (which is why I ended my last LTR, although I never cheated). It all depe…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 05:00 PM
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It's normal. You're overthinking it. RP is to help turn you into a better version of yourself. A lot of the initial neckbeards here like to imagine the "ideal" RP man when it's the biggest load of shit. Just be yourself, magnify your alpha traits and curb your beta tendencies. Eventually it'll become second nature. You can even learn Alpha traits you don't posses as well to add to your toolbelt. But being hard on yourself is natural, you'll eventually find it's exhausting and you'll go through c…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 04:18 PM
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Because women objectify people. Waitstaff are there to serve, it is their job to keep you happy. A woman gauges their performance not on a full image perspective but how they feel they performed for them. The loaded girls you come across, many have a disposition to look down on others in less advantageous positions. A couple times this has happened with me I take the opportunity to covertly blow their whole frame the fuck up. I'll give you an example that has happened MULTIPLE times. we finish o…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 04:13 PM
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You haven't failed, you're just not feeling it. Not a huge deal. You're still learning, eventually if you keep practicing charismatic actions and force yourself to maintain a charismatic mindset it'll become second nature. As an introvert who loves my alone time it was a challenge for me too. So I've learned to turn it on to 11 when I'm with people but I absolutely need my alone time. I'll have zero issues making myself scarce but I prepare myself each time I jump back in to wear the mask. You'r…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 04:07 PM
2

Thanks for the props, but this post won't garner much success. There isn't any real RP knowledge in it and it's coming off almost as a complaint. The system in place works, just because you may get answers that seem wrong to you, use your own free thinking mind to identify the Nuggets of value. Just keep asking questions if there's something you don't understand. They'll be plenty of correct answers each time.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 02:21 PM
2

As a zoomer. Fuck yeah you guys are lowbrow. :P
/r/askTRP14/11/15 01:31 AM
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Just tell him sometimes, there's nothing you can do. She might have fun with the guy but that doesn't necessarily translate to her fucking him. It's VERY easy for a guy to confuse a girl just having a great time with her showing IOIs. So chalk it up for what it is. Move on.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 08:05 PM
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identifying micro expressions in people. There's a thread in the sidebar on TRP about that. You need to focus on peoples reaction, catch every eye movement, engagement of eye lid muscles, the different kinds of smiles, body language and the like. Once you can successfully identify all of that you'll be well on your way to identifying warning signs of you losing someone's interest. Read the charisma myth first. Then look out to apply it in person and you'll pick up the ques you need to see.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 07:50 PM
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go out and start small with her. This is the perfect situation for you to build confidence. She can smell you're nervous most likely and depending on her personality could be very receptive to watching you come out of your shell. She seems like she digs the attention. Once you do it with this girl, you'll be able to apply it to others and complete strangers and it'll become natural. So don't sweat it. Put your toe in the water and see how it feels, then your foot, then your leg, etc.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 07:18 PM
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Hahahahaha she's got you figured out booouuii. Sounds like she ain't stupid. Looks like this is one of those golden rule standards, treat her like you want to be treated and see where that goes. Seems like she knows the games you're playing and using them against you and your frame isn't strong enough to handle it. I'd suggest an RP alternative but if it's bothering you this much that a 17 year old has you nailed like this, you won't be strong enough to break her frame. So get back on even groun…
/r/askTRP13/11/15 07:15 PM
4

Meaningless. Tats or no tats hold no meaning on their own. Stop focusing on something artificial. You need a more complete picture to make a fair assessment.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 06:18 PM
1

sent ;)
/r/askTRP13/11/15 06:16 PM
2

A journal is whatever the hell you want in it. Don't over think it. People have their reasons to do these things so you can choose exactly what you feel will help you best to put in there.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 05:37 PM
3

I'm a CS engineer now. My degree is in finance. You don't necessarily need education to jump into IT. Just get your foot in the door and work on as many systems as you can wherever you start and branch out. identify which direction you want to go (I went security) and get the appropriate certs and you can get picked up fairly quickly. And let me start by saying this. The notion of doing a job you love is bullshit. Don't base your idea of a job on that bluepill dick sucking fantasty. You do a job…
/r/askTRP13/11/15 05:35 PM
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Come home, put out a chair in my driveway, have a cigar put on some good motivational music. Let my dog sit beside me as I look upon all my shit (cars, house, toys) and realize shit is easy right now.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 05:26 PM
1

First of all, nothing I've said are lies. And you haven't even made a valid attempt at disproving them. You're an angry person. I don't know what it is but you need to let it go. I'm sorry you think what I do is unrealistic or not possible but it's happening and the sooner you accept it, the sooner you can lead a happy fruitful life. If it really bothers you that much I'll send you a screenshot of my investment account just so you can start to take it easy. Hell I'll even show you the house I bo…
/r/askTRP13/11/15 05:20 PM
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depends on your own goals. I tried the leaned out shredded look at 5'9 175lbs then went on to grow to 200lbs and be a beef castle. I personally like being around 185-190 for my height. It's bulky enough to have a change in presence and women love feeling larger muscles. But I'm still agile, athletic and clothes still fit without too much hassle (becomes a problem the larger you are). It all depends on what you want and then make it work with the ladies.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 05:11 PM
1

First of all. That's not true. You earned it. You're giving one commodity for another. You earned the money you're using for that hooker and you're going to get your dollars worth in sex. This simply transfers the effort as opposed to gaming a chick with time and planning into sex. Into whatever how many hours you put in at work for money for sex. It's a wash, although for me mentally knowing that there's a face dollar value on the sex, I'm more more determined to make it worth it. And I do. But…
/r/askTRP13/11/15 05:09 PM
5

Jesus christ. Get a goddamn hooker. Stop all this self destructive weakass bullshit.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 04:45 PM
1

I don't give that piece of information any value. It really depends on who she is as a person. Typically you can figure out if her having just ugly friends is a red flag fairly quickly in conversation. From being ultra shallow, cold, a bully, insecure, or just a super lame person that can't have attractive fun friends be entertained by her.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 04:44 PM
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What? No I'm totally 100% blaming you. This is all on you. This chick is clearly weak. Why you would be drawn to a girl as insecure that constantly needs to be validated or coddled is beyond me. You next her, keep meeting other girls until you find someone else you like who doesn't have all these goddamn problems. Then again, you're both young as shit so it's moderately expected. Just move on. Bang her every now and then but if she starts being a drain. Cut her off.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 04:39 PM
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Dude, you sound young as hell. I'll tell you this right now. This is some top quality blue pill drama. Next the fuck outta this chick and find someone better who isn't a goddamn basket case. Jesus christ.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 04:31 PM
1

Lol. Ah yes, pulling up videos over years old. That'll make your point I'm sure. Oh, so living in suburbs means you can't have a high income? What are you smoking? You can't own a home as a single income in Southern California without a 6 figure salary. hahah literally nothing you've posted disproves any of that. And the most recent videos in that channel are from when I was still making a paltry 22k a year in the military. I've been out for a while now and got a solid gig. Must of been getting …
/r/askTRP13/11/15 04:19 PM
1

If you don't have a tendency for manipulation you likely will struggle very hard to understand it. You might just not have the mental makeup for it. Don't beat yourself up. Plenty of people are influential without that mental trait. And house of cards is a freaking TV show. Throw that as a yardstick out the window. I'll tell you a text because honestly it's one of the better reads out there so you better buckle down and read it. But it's called the Charisma Myth. It'll help develop advanced soci…
/r/askTRP13/11/15 04:16 PM
1

This is a non-issue. She is attempting to re-establish a new meeting. Something probably did come up. It happens. Agree and meet her.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 04:12 PM
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stop trying so hard. you're beating yourself up because you aren't getting results. Stop seeking results and it'll just happen. Same thing with talking to women. When I meet a guy whose cool enough to hang out I always ask for their number or something and I'll hit them up next time I plan on doing "mutual interest". And then you just shoot the shit from there. My favorite is bringing a guy along to the gun range and seeing how he handles being around that kind of environment.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 04:11 PM
2

No, I have a healthy investment portfolio.. me day trading simply is a portion of that. Why would I go pro when I have the results I want doing it as is? And no one would invest in a day trader no matter how good they are. It doesn't exist unless someone just has no care in the world. What are you talking about? Who says I'm not taking risk? Where did that come from? Plenty of people make more than "banks" whatever that means from day trading. Just like how plenty of casual poker players can mak…
/r/askTRP13/11/15 04:07 PM
2

What experience do you have trading to make that claim? And being a pro doesn't make you an exception. I make roughly 4 trades a day, and on average over the past 9 months have averaged a growth of 1.5% of my account per day (not including contributions) which means after 9 months, I've grown my account ~6x it's original investment. I started with 30k, and I'm knocking on 200ks door with a "conservative" daily trading strategy. I quite literally could make more money take home per month than my …
/r/askTRP13/11/15 01:22 PM
2

Care to explain why?
/r/askTRP13/11/15 01:09 PM
3

Yes, and?
/r/askTRP13/11/15 01:02 PM
1

Eat more. PM me with questions.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 12:49 PM
1

Do you have a before and after of your BF%? Because I'll tell you right now. NO ONE loses muscle that quickly. It's quite literally biologically impossible. You lost fat before you lost your muscle. It typically takes about 2 weeks for your average normie to start experiencing muscle loss from being stagnant, and even then... it's so little. Quit being dramatic. Filling out your shirts is not a good standard of measuring how jacked you are. In fact it's fairly stupid. You lost water weight and f…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 09:32 PM
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hahaha you didn't kiss her, you're orbiting. She's teasing you, she's getting off on you still chasing her and she literally hasn't given you shit. How do you not see that. Stop talking to her.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 07:36 PM
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Dude, you didn't lose 2 years of gains by being sick for a week you fucking dildo. That's called water weight. Just get back in the gym and it'll all come back nearly instantly. Stop letting little set backs like this seem way worse than they really are. top 20% isn't out of reach for any guy. It's really not that hard, it's just the other 80% aren't trying.. if you're trying, you'll make it to the top 20. That's how it works. You've got some serious confidence issues you need to address and tha…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 07:35 PM
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Hahahahahah those aren't shit tests. And I'll tell you how to deal with it. You don't, just keep doing whatever it is you're doing. In time it'll pass. It's just like picking on anyone else, if whoever your picking on doesn't react it's not longer entertaining after a while and you sort of find something else to entertain yourself. They'll forget about you as long as you stay under the radar. You aren't set up to challenge anyone yet.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 07:31 PM
2

orrbiiiitttiiiinnnnggg. Stop talking to this chick, you're getting suckered HARD.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 07:30 PM
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Shooting. Best "good ol boys" club type of activity you can do. But it sounds like you just don't like to do the typical things. I'll tell you what I do with my brobeans and it's typically fairly masculine. We...... skydive, train military/police K9s, shoot, go offroading, go racing, ride quads in the dunes, go to shows, work on cars/bikes, day-trade (stock market), hunting, smoke some cigars and hang out. You don't hang out with a friend if you want to be productive unless whatever it is you wa…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 07:29 PM
1

I got out of my GC8 a while back, 300whp and just a half decent shock/spring combo and I was slaying out there. Get higher springs and blizzaks and hit some backroads. Or build up a beater for the abuse (I personally admire the guys who do it with older civics and stuff, as lame as it sounds... some of those guys really dominate their classes). Get a dog, get into a serious training program with him. If you look in my post history I train military/police K9s on the side and my GSD is loaned out …
/r/askTRP12/11/15 04:25 PM
1

My spin on follow your dreams. Do what you need to get to the point where you can follow your dreams. I dislike my job. I'm a network security engineer. I make a shitload. It's not fun and fairly uninspiring. My goals however are to race cars, skydive, and train military and police k9. My job affords me to pursue my dreams comfortably. Eventually I won't even need to work anymore and I can do them full time.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 04:12 PM
1

If you can still bang chicks on the side while improving yourself go for it. As long as you know it wont' distract you from your goal of self betterment. Me personally, I go in cycles. I'll go 100% self dedicated. Get mo' shredded than a jullianne salad, start ballin, do cool shit and I won't even up a chick for like a month or so. Then I'll get back into pumping a few and moving on. I know back when I was younger I couldn't do both because I didn't have the mental fortitude. I'd break plans (gy…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 04:10 PM
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No. You're doing it right. If you set your boundaries and then ignore the attacks then it's clear to you to just move on. Nothing beta about it. If someone doesn't want to come into your frame/boundaries and play by your rules you move the fuck on. No need to react.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 04:07 PM
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You haven't had good sex. Read Sex God Method to learn good sex and it'll change your views on it. However, traditionally, you want to get a better feeling from your accomplishments than sex. I race cars (baja/road course) too and it's a thrill, glad to see another track rat out here. Stay calm and don't lift ;) With the season over, you should want to set your finances in order, or build an off season vehicle. My FD is likely getting retired for a few months until the rain goes away and I'm foc…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 04:05 PM
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Why are you asking? You've clearly got a good track record
/r/askTRP11/11/15 11:12 PM
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Yeah seriously. I'll never forget as I'm plowing her from behind and I just command her "what are you doing? Suck his dick." and my buddy and I just started laughing hysterically as she just starts going to work. It was just an awkward laugh like "oh fuck, we're doing this." It was a great time though. But you're totally right, it's all about wheeling in some slut and it just sorta takes place. You gotta have a certain vibe/chemistry with your buds for it to take place.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:32 PM
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No.. that isn't true at all. Plenty of people make a shitload and brag. It might be a novelty for them. Being discrete is something learned, it's not something people are by nature. Some people just like to brag, plenty of pro athletes brag about their skills and they can back it up. Bragging is just part of what makes someone who they are. You need to get over it and being skeptical.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 09:54 PM
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Those types of things are usually spontaneous. You can suggest hanging out with one of your bros in a context that implies "this isn't just "hanging out"" and see how she feels about introducing a potential friend into the mix. It's unlikely you'll do the MFM off the bat first time meeting, unless she's really just like that. Your bro is 90% going to back out. I did it and the only reason it happened was because it was spontaneous and it was pretty funny. We did have a blast but I'll never organ…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 06:45 PM
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You over-reacted. You fucked up. Go in there with a level head, apologize for the outburst and you got carried away. But you need to take the time to say that disturbances at 2am can be frustrating when you pay to live in peace.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 06:41 PM
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You need to not act like you don't care. It comes off as too try hardish. You need to come off as a happy, fun person who won't be phased by petty nonsense. You are 100% doing something you aren't telling us and we can't help.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 06:13 PM
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Cuddle AFTER sex. Learn to cuddle to invoke passion. Post sex is valuable in connecting with a plate/LTR to maintain their interest in you.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 06:12 PM
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Why are you comparing? I make 150k just off my salary and when my friends tell me they make $12 an hour I'm impressed. It's a lot of money. It's an accomplishment for many people. You being disgusted or pissed at those people shows you compare too frequently and it's an ugly trait. The RP thing to do is congratulate them, and convey genuine happiness for their accomplishments. It makes you more charismatic and people will like you better for it.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 06:11 PM
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Who cares? Why do you care about people bragging? It probably bothers you because you think it somehow gets them attention they want and you don't want to stoop to their level. Just be confident in that you don't need to do that. I talk about my finances, accomplishments, and activities fairly regularly here because I want people that I'm trying to help here know that it's a situation I'm fairly knowledgeable about. Read the Charisma Myth and it'll help you understand how to process people who b…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 06:09 PM
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gaming girls should never be a priority. You need help, you're in a shitty place. Make a change. Psychologists will always tell you to masturbate and that it's healthy but if it leaves you feeling empty. Don't do it. You need to console a sex therapist. A specialist in that regard and they're advice will likely be much more beneficial. Stop thinking of the fact your life sucks. So what you had shitty sexual experiences. We all do. Keep working out, get a goal/ambition and obsess over it and work…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 06:04 PM
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This is a decent start. http://redpillgame.com/passion/ but you need to realize women connect emotionally. Just from continuously approaching women and seeing how they react to certain emotional stimuli you'll figure out what vibes with them and what gets them going. After a while, when you're one on one you can drop some intense passion and it'll rope the chick in. You can use passion game with a plate and she'll bend over backwards for you and trust you with everything. You need to learn to bu…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 05:58 PM
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Why do you have an auto response? Are you not responsible for what you say? If you say something beta, adjust for the next interaction. Keep it from happening again. Or learn to recover.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 05:53 PM
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Bro, you're looking at yourself like a stat again. That isn't RP. Just because you're loaded, in shape and social doesn't mean you have all the check boxes to get laid. You haven't absorbed the theory. You're stuck in this frustration and it's preventing you from moving forward because you want sex and female validation. You aren't redpill yet. You want women to validate you position with their sex. It's WEAK. You need to shift your mentality completely. KEEP READING. It's obviously you haven't …
/r/askTRP11/11/15 05:38 PM
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Or you know, don't get shitfaced to that degree. Ain't nothing RP about a guy who goes over the handle like that. Sounds like a lack of impulse control. It's unattractive and weak.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 05:34 PM
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It's not raising another man's kid. It's the ultimate TRP role in my mind. You are setting the example of what being a good complete being is to someone who is disadvantaged and looking for help. Any way to help give back to the community in my mind is very RP. I had a short stint with being a big brother and it was absolutely great. Kid was cool as hell and we had a blast. Helped me understand a little more about what it takes to be a man and be compassionate.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 05:32 PM
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You reward her for recognizing your place in the relationship. You can reward for certain KINDS of sex. Regular everyday sex isn't something to reward her for. But if she does a little somethin somethin, then it's something you can reward. If all you want from her is sex then you don't reward her for that. Those are just the terms of her being around you. She'll likely do extra things to earn more validation or she just might be fine with just the sex from you and nothing else. So no reason to r…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 05:29 PM
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I've been blackout drunk once. You literally just don't recall. There are parts of the events that just aren't there but your mind makes the connection anyway with those gaps so you don't even think you're missing anything. Until people fill you in. It's really weird. As for being in control. Some people lose total impulse control when drunk, it'll get worse when blackout drunk obviously. I don't really get that no matter how much I drink, I just get sloppy. All depends on the person.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 05:26 PM
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Bro. Why are you looking at yourself as a stat? Why do you assume you're at a disadvantage? That's where you fail to apply. You're failing before even starting homie. DON'T APPROACH TO HOOK. You haven't read all the theory. Just approach to approach. Talk to people, girls boys.. doesn't matter. Don't have an agenda because you clearly suck at it and it'll be insanely obvious. Stop worrying about a success rate. That's beta shit. Start working on making yourself a better person then the success w…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 05:24 PM
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It's a pretty dangerous line. A lot of the advice here I believe it's overly unnecessary with it's brashness. Such as just jizzing anyway. That can SERIOUSLY backfire. You want her to crave you after the fact that she lost you due to her decision.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 11:03 PM
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How old are you? Is this with every chick or specific ones? It sounds like just a lack of stimuli. Maybe desensitized from porn, or jacking off too much. I'd consider quitting to jack off for now and see if it changes anything. You might also be putting way too much focus on the sex part and it's killing you with even a modicum of stress. If it doesn't change anything, I'd recommend ED medication temporarily. My buddy used it for a week or two and I guess it re-taught him how to be insanely turn…
/r/askTRP10/11/15 10:48 PM
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PM me your city, and distance you'd be willing to either move/commute. As well as experience.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 10:39 PM
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How do you know you have ED? Have you had it happen during the act? A lot of the times for guys some chicks just don't mix well chemically with us and we don't get boners. I've got a fucking super hot HB8 that I plow all the time. But if I don't use Cialis I can't get it up for her. We're super casual and there's zero pressure and we do whatever we want to each other and I have zero stress to perform with her. But I just can't keep it up. I don't have that problem with any other chick.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 10:02 PM
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Where are you located. I'm a Systems Engineer and could point you to an avenue that could lead to good employment.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 09:58 PM
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You can't be friends with a girl. So don't try. Especially when you're as beta as you obviously are right now.. avoid girls unless you're putting your penis in them.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 06:48 PM
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She's old, and looking to you for validation. I'll give you a hint. She ain't that great. And she's also a monster sized piece of shit if she's doing this with you and she's married with a kid. She's a shitty person. Why would you be attracted to a shitty person? You're being a punk.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 06:21 PM
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If this is an LTR prospect. These are things you need to do. You should want to know these types of things. You need to take this opportunity to flex your passion muscle and get her even more into you. This is an opportunity for you to SHINE. If you engage her on a passion related level on something so intimate she'll never fuck you over if you do it correctly. She'll trust you with every fiber she's got. Depression is something you'll need to navigate on your own call since it's very dependent …
/r/askTRP10/11/15 06:02 PM
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Jesus fucking christ. You already know what you need to do. Just stop. You've swallowed a big fat blue pill. Just delete ALL of her contact info and block her. This relationship is EXTEMELY unhealthy and it's limiting you.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 05:58 PM
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My logic is for at a bar type of environment. You need to be able to do whatever you want but have other people not at all question the fact that you're a fun person. Too many people just act like a stiff when they refuse to drink and it KILLS how people view you in that setting. You need to refuse and make sure people know you're still fun regardless. They'll forget about it.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 05:56 PM
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No.. you should be doing that. But you probably weren't doing it correctly if she was seeking validation from other sources. She needs to crave your attention. Read Sex God method if you want to nail that. You need to make it clear you are not ok with them hanging out. If she still wants to.. then it's clear to you. Leave.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 05:54 PM
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"Can I hug him?" - "why would you want to?" flip the shit test on her. You didn't do a good job of keeping this chick interested in you. She was using him as a source of validation. Instead of seeking validation from you like she's supposed to (And you were supposed to get her to WANT to seek validation from you) she got it from external sources. You were obviously too into her and she didn't doubt it. She was a slut, you were weak. Read TRP and avoid those same mistakes.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 05:38 PM
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I look at it the same way. I'm very analytical and look at almost everything I do as an investment. It's not that you're introverted. It's that you're emotionally independent. No need to question it. Just maintain the course. Eventually it'll shift. The phase can last a looong time, mine did. And as /u/bertmaklinFBI said, you just haven't found someone that makes the investment worth it. Don't sweat it. You have a life to live. Don't worry about something meaningless like this.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 05:35 PM
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It depends on my mood. They'll be months where I won't drink at all. Others where I'll do nothing but drink. For when I'm not drinking and people pressure me to drink. DEFLECT. Someone tries to pressure you to drink with them, keep the good vibes going. If someone is insisting just reply with "You tryin to take advantage of me sugar buns?" and just playfully shove your guy friends around or tickle the girl depending on who is pressuring you. You need to be obvious that you're a fucking great tim…
/r/askTRP10/11/15 05:32 PM
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Why even bother? If it isn't easy then why put all that effort? She'll want you more when you drop her like you never even liked her to begin with. She just used you as an emotional little tampon to get her validation for the night.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 05:05 PM
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That is the explanation. it's just who you are, there's nothing wrong with it. You are in an anger phase and don't see the point in passing shit tests with an LTR or have any desire in an LTR right now. And that logic bleeds over to sex occasionally. It's totally fine.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 05:03 PM
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Yeah. You're in a mild anger phase. Pay for sex, you'll see what it's like. It's a hell of an experience and I greatly enjoy it for the most part. It's added a new perspective to me about how I deal with women. I do the same thing, I work in cycles. I'll go a couple months of just being hard in the paint smashing poon and juggling a nice stable of plates. Then, out of nowhere.. I'll have zero desire. I'll end up focusing on myself for a month or two. And then the urges come back. It's nothing ba…
/r/askTRP10/11/15 04:14 PM
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Personally, in these situations. If she's going to play this card. I get very self serving during sex. Fine, she doesn't want to let me get my jollies off out of nowhere? Alright. Fine. Just have the quickest, least satisfying (for her) sex. I've even just had the girl in my arm and I just jack off and then leave. It drives them fucking CRAZY. You do your business and leave. Next time you hang out or get intimate. And if she brings that up again, show your disgust then repeat. Their mentality ty…
/r/askTRP10/11/15 04:09 PM
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Yeah, no this is bad advice. Don't do that.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 04:06 PM
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Big time. Guy hit all the right bases with this one. Keep it up. Your progress with how you've handled this girl will lead to a shift in mentality in other aspects of your life. You'll likely experience a significant increase in satisfaction in your life. Enjoy!
/r/askTRP10/11/15 03:57 PM
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Don't base your achievements based on how often you sleep with girls. You are over achieving if you are improving your quality of life. Remember that. Sleeping with girls is just a by product, it is not the measurable standard of how well someone has improved. Stop fixating on sex/women.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 03:54 PM
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That's what I thought too. But a handful of my other buddies share the same experience. Our uneducated Brosciene hypotenus is that we're just high digesting caloric machines and process alcohol super fast. I'm an engineer not a doctor.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 05:34 AM
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Ok. As someone who has done both body types. From lean and ripped (5'9 175lbs) to now currently 5'9 and 200lbs. Being massive has its advantages. Girls take you a little more seriously. Girls love holding onto my significantly larger arms. They love the weight of me on them during sex. They like the large bulging muscles. It's the sensual feel they like. They're eyes closed and your having passionate sex and it's what they're hands run over and feel. You feel the jacked guys more than the shredd…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:10 AM
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My only disadvantage. 5'9
/r/askTRP06/11/15 10:39 PM
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Low rez. I'm Algerian. Hair for days
/r/askTRP06/11/15 07:42 PM
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Making money with smaller amounts of cash is fairly easy, the higher you go up.. the harder it gets.... relatively. just read everything on investopedia, assess your risks and your income and make the best decision for yourself. I can't give you relative advice because I already make 150k a year at my job and I can afford to lose my entire investment account and that's how I trade. You'll likely want a completely different path. Just pick up a book and learn.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:23 PM
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Don't send dick pics. EVER. If she really wants a dirty pic of you. Let it be something funny/sexy. For example. This is one of my go-tos that I send. It's hilarious, causes a new topic of discussion (who took that pic?) or why did you take it? And she sees the goods that chicks like (strong back, big ol' booty, forearms).
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:12 PM
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This is pretty much as clear cut as it gets for dread https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/[1] It really doesn't need any further elaboration. As for soft nexting? What's not to get? You just stop talking to the chick until she either re-engages with you or you feel a sufficient amount of time has passed to give her another opportunity (typically a month for most cases). You soft next as radio silence. That's it.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:10 PM
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You haven't found the addiction of growing money. I was like you too. I still have remnants of my terrible financial decisions to this day. I have a race car I keep in Tokyo and I live in fucking California. I'll help you out. Download the Acorns app. This isn't a great investment app or anything as retards like to claim it is. But it'll automatically round up your purchases to the nearest dollar and invest it. It's essentially a tiny little savings account. You do it for a month and you'll see …
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:07 PM
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It's the wrong kind of aggression young one. Aggression like what you want is weakness. You want high testosterone motivation. The stuff that pushes you to the next level. You don't want the emotional BS of going nuts and yelling at people or getting incredibly infuriated. That is weakness. There's a reason strong, powerful, confident people stay stoic. Your Dad just didn't know how to egg that emotional edge out of you. My little brother is the same. He is significantly more gifted physically a…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 08:54 PM
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People viewing this on the surface, very easy for someone to feel like we hate them. We really don't. We hate extreme feminism culture. Which has permeated much more than the average person thinks it has. A lot of the general blanket statements made about women are proven through evolutionary psychology. If you take some time and read through the TRP sidebar you'll get a deeper understanding and you'll lose the "we hate women" view. It's just not accurate and it's an easy thing to throw our way.…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 07:06 PM
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They don't test for roids unless they specifically want to. You obviously can't use weed but there are a handful of guys I know who smoke and manage to get THC out of their systems relatively quickly due to insanely low bodyfat and outrageous active lifestyles. But roids aren't uncommon to find in SOCOM. I never had the desire to stay in SOCOM or be the best of the best. I was gifted with decent genetics and being insanely competitive from the get go and it made up for my physical performance di…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 06:07 PM
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It's a book that teaches you how to be confident, influence, and in general charismatic. It should be in the arsenal of any RP man. It's a shame it isn't lauded as much as other books in TRP. EXTEMELY useful.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 06:02 PM
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Read any of the TRP books suggested. My advice? The Charisma Myth and sex god method. Have fun
/r/askTRP05/11/15 05:11 PM
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I never geared personally but I am very familiar with it's sides as people in SOCOM around me used it constantly and I'm still around people who take it now that I'm out of the military. Mental challenges (depending on what you take, but these are primarily for tren) are no sleep, potential anger issues, insane sex drive, OUTRAGEOUS confidence. People deal with mental sides in different ways. The no sleep kills a lot of guys. So people try to overcomp with sleeping pills or weed. Weed is one of …
/r/askTRP05/11/15 05:11 PM
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You probably didn't go with the flow well. If someone offers to pay for me. You react positively, you don't react negatively. You got shit for free. Who cares if you can pay for it or not. You keep the good vibes going. This guy wants to pay? SWEET. You make him PAY. You bring girls and just get hammered and constantly ask if this guy can get another round. You run him into the ground with his generosity. You turn him being gallant and nice into a fucking crippling decision he's made. You rule h…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 05:04 PM
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zyzz went overboard and mixed too many things at once too quickly. Gear is safe when taking the noob mixes. Plus you can take gear and be medically supervised. It's what half of that sub does. Routinely get blood work and adjust accordingly. Your doc will tell you to not do it but he will also help prevent you from hurting yourself if you insist on going on gear. But like I said, you aren't ready for it anyway. That's great you have a good trainer. But you need a food trainer. You complaining ab…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 11:56 PM
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Stop comparing. STOP. This is the key to what is holding you back. You have your own style. Stick with it, refine it, perfect it. Not giving a shit in a youth bar like that is ideal. Chicks dig it. When you get older that type of approach has worn it's welcome and isn't as effective. You'll need some style after a while. Chicks like fun, confident guys. Betas or alphas doesn't matter. That's all a chick wants in a guy at a bar. Hell even unattractive dudes can pull poon if they manage to be ente…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 09:34 PM
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First of all.. the nice guy works. I constantly tell people that you can absolutely use your blue pill self to bring girls in. It's disarming. It's easy. It's comforting for you and her. If it's you being genuine so be it. But MAINTAIN FRAME. Don't crumble being the nice guy, just be genuine. There's no tact involved in being a nice guy when you have a conversation. If the vibes are good, switch your tempo, revert to being red pill and escalate. But if you do the nice guy, it needs to be a confi…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 09:31 PM
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It's not. It's just hard to find other RP guys without broadcasting and if you broadcast you're gonna get a lot of hate. Plus a majority of RP guys are lone wolves. We let people do their own thing while we have our own agenda. It's what sets us apart. You'll eventually come across other RP guys but you don't meet another dude because he's RP. That's just weird. Just worry about doing you. Use people as entertainment and don't put much value into them at first until you settle down in your new e…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 07:37 PM
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Where do you live? PM me, I'll set you straight with how to have your own local adventure. Thailand is too much too fast and you really won't appreciate it. You'll waste the experience since you're in so much turmoil as it is. And stop bringing up suicide. That's the first step. I don't want to hear you bring that up again. You keep it out of conversation. Keep it out of your mind. And keep it off the fucking table. You've got improvements to make.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 07:34 PM
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passion game is how to tap into a girl's emotional needs. You express an exaggerated emotional connection to her. Eye contact, intensity, body to body intimacy, slow powerful intimate sex. Passion game gets swung off it's hinges in the bedroom. But you can hint at it in day to day but you maintain stoicness. Lets the girl feel she's breaking through to your tough outside and gets to know your inner gooey self. When in reality you only show her what she wants. Start here, and read on. http://redp…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 07:33 PM
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When you get into RP. You get into RP solo. It's extremely uncommon to find like minded RP friends. I'm lucky enough that my best friend and I are RP as shit. And you likely won't find a social circle of RP guys because that just doesn't fit the idea of RP.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 07:06 PM
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you're an introvert. Just sign up on meetup and find a group thats interesting. It's a great start and I met plenty of cool people there.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:58 PM
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No, it just sounds like you either didn't communicate clearly or she's trying to shift partial blame on you. It's your call. But I'd probably next her. She might come around down the road and try it again but be more dedicated. And at that point it's up to you to judge if she's in the right place to do so.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:54 PM
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Hahaha Thailand is the shit. If you go. You're gonna wanna do the hookers there. If you don't have enough money to really get into everything Thailand. I'd pass and keep working on yourself. How much money do you have saved for your Thailand trip? How do you expect to experience a new life changing experience fully if you aren't at peace with yourself?
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:51 PM
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Hitting him wouldn't be a bright idea.. letting someone who is simply annoying bother you to that degree is not a good sign of your mental maturity. Work on it.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:50 PM
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I feel you. How do you recharge? Because if you get depressed by not being around people it's a sign of an extrovert. Plenty of extroverts have interovert habits and decision making but they still crave human interaction to feel happy and recharge and be ready to re-attack the day. So again, how do you realign yourself? How do you take a break and relax? How do you "get away"? If the answer is being alone, or doing your own thing. You're a true introvert. If you need to be around people (no matt…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:49 PM
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It bothers you, you don't need to think about any further. She lied to you in the infancy of your relationship (even if it wasn't an LTR yet). Plenty of other options out there.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:45 PM
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Her resenting a peasant is all dependent on her upbringing.. there's not one "fit all label" for that situation. If she's a well adjusted girl, that won't matter in the slightest to her and I've seen those kinds of girls. A lot of guys feel that her making a lot puts power in her court and that you'd be her beta bitch. But it really all dramatically depends on the girl. Girls aren't as tied into that sort of thing as guys are, a girl wants an emotional connection and a girl who struggles to find…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:42 PM
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Shit situation. Sucks bro. Not much you can do about that except continually excel. I was made fun of by family when I was younger and now I'm better than everyone else in my family on paper by miles. And they still talk shit, but not the same kind of shit. They recognize the shift in power. Just keep doing you and don't let it get to you or distract you and don't bring chicks around.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:38 PM
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The Charisma Myth. guys here confuse assertive with confidence and charisma. What people are looking for is charisma. It's the confidence to execute and charm that person. Any douche can be assertive once they hit the "i don't give a fuck switch". That's not productive.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:29 PM
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My Dad is one of the rare cases where he receives alimony from my loaded mom. If you line yourself up pre-divorce and have all the checkboxes ticked. You'll get it. But the downsides are that she might be an alpha widow. And that leaves someone who isn't a genuine alpha in a tough spot.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:26 PM
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Ahh, so you're an extrovert. Yeah my contributions are limited in this regard. I don't know much about extroverted mental needs but, join a club or something. meetup has a bunch of cool groups in denver and you're bound to find a group that'll fit your expectations of them. You're gonna have to learn to elevate yourself and not rely on external stimuli to keep you happy.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:23 PM
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you're just young dude, you'll find out what you're doing right and wrong. Just keep going out. You'll learn to strip down your inhibitions and go for the prize. You're already way ahead of a majority of guys here. So at this point it's just some more finesse. Adjust and analyze. And grow some nuts.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:21 PM
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Then who cares. If you've done your job right as her partner she'll be fine.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:05 PM
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It's because you're 19 in a fucking bar dude. hahahahaha
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:55 PM
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you're blue pill my friend. You've let your hamster run loose. See that? You are what you said you weren't. Now that you know that maybe you'll stop hamstering yourself like a scrub. Just look at the message, let her know. And don't respond. Let her watch her damn movie man. When you figure out when you're free next just hit her up. But you're shooting yourself in the foot by not making plans sometime during the day on the weekend.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:54 PM
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You don't know how to work out. That's it. Get a trainer, make friends with the most jacked dude in the gym and ask for advice. AND FOR THE LOVE OF GOD EAT. Also, small wrists ARE DOPE. Yeah it limits you to how much you can actually lift. But aesthetically it's the fucking shit. It makes your forearms look massive since they have such a dramatic size change. Start an addiction to mexican food, beef ribs, and get a giant block of cheese and a big bag of hotdogs to snack on during the day. And sm…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:50 PM
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No, because it's obviously being playful. This does two things. Either she'll tease you about you not being there. Or she might give the opportunity for you to invite yourself. Eitherway it's fun and entertaining. You're over thinking things.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:43 PM
1

I'd say it's a 100% soft next. An opportunity might present itself in the future but absolutely do not try to push anything to happen.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:42 PM
1

You think you're far from bluepill but your comments say otherwise. first step is recognizing it.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:40 PM
1

Dude your text game is fucking HORRIBLE. "Yo, where the hell is MY popcorn?" would have been the better response. Dude, you are way behind the bellcurve. Stop texting. You suck at it and it's obviously killing you. Just stick with logistics. If you don't know how to keep things fun, don't text. Texting should be funny and teasing. Very light stuff. Asking questions dries her vagina up. Make some plans. Otherwise next her because she isn't that into you that much is hilariously obvious.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:38 PM
2

Sounds like you need to go into Monk mode anyway. the friends will come from you exploring yourself and finding new habits you enjoy.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:34 PM
3

I know you filthy germans. You all look miserable. :P Good luck.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:33 PM
7

Ain't nothing wrong with not doing any of that. It doesn't make you seem like a pussy. It's just not your thing anymore. You're gonna Wes Welker yourself into retardation. Just stay in shape and do the things that matter. Your body clearly isn't built to handle what you want it to. Stop it.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:32 PM
2

You tried to play it too thick. You want to stay FUN. What you did was not seem fun and seem super uninteresting. Don't do that next time
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:30 PM
1

Lol. Bro. you have a lot to learn. TRP is fairly black and white. That's what you don't get. Looking at chicks like an "investment" is bluepill as FUUUUUUUCK. That builds entitlement and "why not me I'm mr.xxx I did all the things right" After going over all of this. You ain't ready. I'd say make SOLID plans for the weekend and if that doesn't happen it's a resounding next.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:28 PM
1

Well she is busy if she's already in bed watching netflix. Duh. (read between the lines). Why are you trying to balance between being cold and needy? That's ALL WRONG. You need to be fun. You want to be desirable, you want to be addicting to hang out with. What you're doing is trying way too hard and I get the feeling she can sense it. Why not make plans that far? That sounds stupid and you've got all this idle time not making solid plans and it's killing whatever drive this chick has for you.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:27 PM
1

Who cares if you're in a happy LTR. You're nowhere near as attractive as you think you are. Otherwise you'd have people check you out. You need to fix how you come off, your vibe, your overall view. You're clearly going about things way too intensely. Just go about have fun, have a smile, appreciate everything and everyone and they'll smile back. Chicks will always go for a guy with passion over their stats. Guys are logical, for us we base attractiveness on "stats" how attractive, career, what …
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:22 PM
6

the next move is no move.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:18 PM
1

Dealing with these situations is easy. Recognize the moment you let an ounce of passion come out of your voice in an environment like that.. you're losing. Catch yourself before it escalates. It's a game. You don't want to lose. You're a competitive manly man. You want to win. Eventually you'll master your emotions and let BS like this just slide like it's no big deal. but to fix this situation, I have given you a solid suggestion. Are you the boss? Is it your call? You should listen to people's…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:17 PM
2

it's still off putting. A girl doesn't need to give you an explanation as to why she didn't want to hang out with you that night. Just like how you don't need her explanation. It's just useless and makes you seem needy and invasive. No, if she's busy today she's busy. Accept it, don't try to push for it to happen. It's weak and makes you seem like you're eager. you've already got plans for the weekend. Ride it out. Keep texts fun and entertaining until then.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:13 PM
2

you are weak until you fix that about yourself. If you keep reacting negatively to that kind of stuff no one will like you. Why do place so much value in bullshit like that? Who cares? The best way to look in a situation like that is to smile with a "hmm" or get ready to insult them back... lightly of course. Too strong and it'll backfire. Back and forth like that is just a fun little chess game. Keeps you sharp and on your toes. Sounds like to me you've got some significant confidence issues an…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:11 PM
3

Hahahaha you aren't that memorable. Move on. You'd look weak as shit trying to re-engage now no matter how good the sex was.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:08 PM
7

Jesus. You are so over thinking this. You shouldn't be looking at women like "I should approach this girl" no. no no no no. You talk to people. You talk to a chick just like you'd strike a conversation with a guy. If the vibes go well you escalate. But coming up to some chick in the street is rather strong and if you haven't developed a disarming personality you're fucked from the get go. Slow your roll padawan and just talk to chicks with no goals or agenda. Just talk. "I like your case on your…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:07 PM
2

Why did you let things escalate? Don't let it happen again. Bring some treats or something for the group next time and be fun, reliable and a contributor to the group. No one will give a shit then.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:02 PM
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Jesus dude. Why would you bring up up "'awkward, and you didn't want to hang with me'" that's so fucking... off putting. find out when she's free, make a plan. If she bails. MOVE ON. Keep it light and funny until then. Not this "why why why" bullshit. There is no shame to "lose" her. She's not that great of a deal.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:01 PM
1

Hahaha walk the fuck away. This one is brain-dead obvious.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 04:57 PM
1

Depends on the girl, these things are notorious for being cheat-fests as I see it everytime I'm on a "Business trip". Some girls are down for it, other's aren't. It's about how much trust you have in her. But I think if you're posting this, you aren't exactly the most confident person in your relationship. Plenty of women go to these things and nothing happens. Yours could be one. We don't know what kind of girl she is. It's really your call.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 04:56 PM
1

What's you're medical issue? Seems highly pertinent
/r/askTRP04/11/15 12:27 AM
2

"I've been meaning to try the new restaurant, heard it's balling. You should come with!"
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:48 PM
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My first one was brutal. And then I remembered I don't give a shit about relating to her. I just want to plow. Just stick to keeping things light, funny and strictly inviting her over to bang. End of story.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:45 PM
2

You're trying to make yourself self important. You need to remember you're in the company of many TRUE alphas. This system works, egos are left at the door and the points per comment are the judge to what is valuable or not. Otherwise how would some poor shmuck know that what you're saying isn't just full of shit? How would you know you're wrong without the community putting your ass in check like now? Like I said. You ain't ready and you'd do more harm than good assuming you can be a mentor.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:43 PM
2

BINGO. Asian chicks are typically pre-programmed to be fairly RP as shit. Not to mention they age gracefully usually. Which is always pretty cool.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:40 PM
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First of all.. that's a dangerous game to the inexperienced.. which you are. This is how you bring out the crazy in bitches. You're playing with fire. Go read sex god method and you'll be able to pull the emotion and passion out of her for you to toy with. But I highly recommending to not do that if you don't have the personality set up for it. You'll find yourself in a shitstorm relatively quickly. EDIT: holy shit yeah, I just looked through your history. You ain't ready. Just worry about eleva…
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:37 PM
1

Yep this is DOA. You fucked up by telling her let's be friends. Why? Why on earth would you ever even consider that? I'm not friends with a single chick. I'm familiar with a couple. But I'll never consider them a friend. I'm either having sex with them or I'm not talking to them.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:35 PM
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No. Take one step back. What makes you stand out from the others that answer the questions here? This sub IS the counseling. You're very clearly in your early stages of RP since you aren't exactly aware of your surroundings and you just default to thinking you're king shit. Well you aren't. So sit tight and answer posts when you can if you want to contribute.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:31 PM
1

Depends what you're after. Macros are an important part and just asking something general like "What mass gainer you use brah?" won't really give us enough information to tell you what works. Honestly, depending on what you're situation is. I tell younger guys to just eat a shitload and start an addiction to mexican food and clam chowder and snack on hot dogs and slices of cheese. If you're older and more experienced in working out and dieting. Then that's a different game altogether.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:29 PM
1

Learn to harness this issue for the best. For example, I'm outrageously greedy, self centered, competitive and just a giant douche. And I can't and don't even bother trying to hide it as opposed to what many people do. I took my flaw of being greedy and am addicted to growing my money, staying sharp about how to make more money and as a result have a fairly successful investment account as well as just generally having a nose for where the money is. I'm self centered as shit. I don't mask it. I …
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:27 PM
0

It's gay. I want to approach. I don't want to be selected like at a fucking grocery store or by some willy nilly window shopper.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:17 PM
1

I flirt and have sex at work. Then again I've had a good track record of picking decent chicks at work to slay. For sure fuck her if there's no issue you can foresee. Just stay casual, and distant outside of planning to bone. She'll get the hint. Either she'll be onboard or not you'll feel her out relatively quickly. But you CANNOT CHASE. That's how shit blows up at work. Escalate, make it clear you want to get down. If she's down, do it, but never chase or talk about anything other than plannin…
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:15 PM
2

Kick her out. Only bad will come of this since you've admitted to already breaking frame. You can't handle this.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:09 PM
2

I know she did it on purpose. I just told her she doesn't deserve an explanation and if she wants to talk it over she can come over with a sandwich at 1am.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 09:34 PM
2

Her vagina exploded in a bloody mess. I don't blame her for not putting out but she sure as shit wasn't sleeping in the same bed as me without fucking me.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 09:14 PM
3

The guidance I was looking for. Thanks brother.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 08:49 PM
1

I was driving back from SF for work and my company authorized me two nights at a hotel. Decided to stop in Napa Valley and spend the night in wine country with her while not on my dime.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 08:41 PM
1

It's been 4 days, she reached out to me with this text.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 08:37 PM
1

I didn't. Company did.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 08:26 PM
1

I want to leave her the opportunity to redeem herself. If not, I have zero issues letting her walk.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 08:21 PM
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She didn't want to have sex so I told her she can sleep on the couch. I told her I don't share beds with girls I don't fuck. And since it's my hotel I told her she can sleep out there.. she kept refusing. Got entitled. So I just packed up and left.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 08:04 PM
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Don't come across as butthurt. Be confident when you leave. It'll impact her more than you. Women are much more self conscious about this type of stuff. I do that shit all the time. "You should suck my dick right now. No? Ehh, alright" then I get my ass up and either leave or smoke a cigar and read a book. Her being left alone with her thoughts makes the hamster run run run.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 01:35 PM
2

You've described them shit testing you. It's how they filter the boys with no balls and ones with.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 12:57 PM
1

I do one of two options depending on my mood. Something meaningless like "I'm the guy that wears over the ear headphones at the gym but they aren't beats" Or "I stole a jetski naked once. Would do it again" To talking myself up like I'm the shit. What you're looking for. I always just say something lame like "looking for my ride or die". Step brothers quotes are good too... mean girls especially.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 12:32 PM
1

Trial and error man. You're gonna spend a lot of time screwing up and learning what works for you. What a lot of people here fail to mention is that one set template isn't best. A lot of guys here act like it's the same for all of them when in reality each guy has their own little flavor. I went balls out trp for a while and had below average success. Kinda threw me for a loop. Then I found out my style involves throwing in a little blue pill philosophy into my game but resulting in a red pill s…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 12:25 PM
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Just don't reveal any information about yourself. Just very sparringly. If she pries, just tease and direct her attention elsewhere. You let the mystery down only in the bedroom.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 12:20 PM
0

"Oh yeah? Well due to the degree I've heavily edited all of my pictures. You should see how the magic wears off over a drink ;)"
/r/askTRP16/10/15 03:03 PM
2

WHERE IS DAVE CHAPPELLE WHEN YOU NEED HIM? When keeping it real humble goes wrong
/r/askTRP15/10/15 06:15 PM
2

yeah seriously, wtf was this guy thinking?
/r/askTRP15/10/15 04:48 PM
2

I think you're from Vietnam correct? If she's willing to have dinner with you, she's interested and it's not a rejection. Take the opportunity to lay it on thick. If you do a good enough job she'll break plans with her friends. If not, you're just laying more groundwork to have a potential plate. I'd say go for it. And escalate kino then.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 04:46 PM
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Maybe your laugh is fucking ugly and that's whats turning off women. I laugh all the time at my own jokes, it keeps my positive, radiant joyous energy highly contagious. You're fucking up somewhere. Adjust. Analyze. Adjust again
/r/askTRP15/10/15 04:28 PM
2

HIIT will be your best friend after you do a decent length at stronglifts. You're in college, you'll have the same superficial SMV as everyone else (roughly). Finish college, be confidence you'll pick up poon on the way. You are fucking up big time if you're eyeing LTR right now. That's some bluepill buhhshiiiii right there. Your SMV will raise with your personality and the more you discover and learn about yourself the more attractive you will become because you'll grow into a confident person.…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 04:22 PM
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You need to do hookers. Strip clubs. You need to get comfortable with objectifying women. Do that a couple of times and report back. You will pay for sex and you are there for one thing, manners and shit don't mean anything. You will eventually learn to say what you want and it'll translate to your personal life.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 04:11 PM
1

Who cares if she's interested? She's clearly annoyed him, it's his call to stick around or not. This chick just sounds retarded. I'd drop her, no problems.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 03:54 PM
1

it's an uphill battle my friend. I probably wouldn't even bother with the effort. Better prospects with less effort are out there.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 03:21 PM
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Dude, you're fucked up. Write out a regime and fucking do it. When I went to school in Bologna I didn't have a lifestyle anywhere near this self destructive. It sounds like you're depressed. You need to read the sidebar and hit a realization that your life and your current path fucking sucks and you're going nowhere impressive if you maintain it. Make the goddamn effort to eat healthy, get a goddamn vape pen, and you shouldn't hate anyone.. if you really hate anyone you haven't reached the TRP i…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 03:13 PM
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Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha I think she's telling you you're being creepy bro.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 03:09 PM
3

Reply with "I love how it captured the perfect, 'taking a shit face'" Sounds like the connection is weak, if there's nothing productive after you send that response. Cut it off.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 03:08 PM
1

Holy fucking shit. That's a lot of text. First of all. You need to understand, sometimes.. there will be girls that just won't be into you. You might play your cards right all you want, but sometimes you just won't be that girl's flavor and there's nothing to do at that point. I'm routine as fuck, it's effective, it's usually cheap and it's my territory. I have the same shpeal, there's a Mediterranean resturant here that knows me by name and all the female wait staff recognize me constantly and …
/r/askTRP14/10/15 01:50 PM
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Ignore. You might even try to hit her up in a couple weeks after the fact but it's unlikely you'll get a response. This chick burned your bridge. She's muff cabbage. Worthless.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 01:38 PM
1

I'm not disappointed in the lack of sex, I'd rather be focusing on myself until I know I'm at the prime of my potential You're fine. It takes time for it all to click perfectly. And when it does you'll slay way past those blue pill guys. Also, don't know on blue pill attraction strategy. Plenty of redpillers pull chicks in with initially fooling them with bluepill type acts and then turning it on. It's part of some people's game. You're at a stage you should be thankful for.. that you don't care…
/r/askTRP14/10/15 01:36 PM
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Because you're afraid of initial failure. That's why you aren't a go getter. You are insecure. You are weak. Sit there, mull it over. Digest it. Understand it. And hate yourself for having this vulnerability and tell yourself today is the day you'll beat the fuck out of your weakness. You're letting some imaginary hoohah stop you from going out and getting what you want. And trust me. Chicks will smell that lack of aggressiveness a mile away and it'll cut your knees off. Smoke some weed, have a …
/r/askTRP13/10/15 05:23 PM
1

You should just try it out. You might get slapped.. or you might slay. The math and science is there. By my calculations between the two outcomes.. you have a 50% chance of getting laid and a 100% chance of learning something. Just try it out with one of your plates first in public. Do it to other girls.. and then try it on randoms at a bar or something. It'll come relatively quickly if you're naturally very kino.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 05:14 PM
1

It's all very situational young padawan. I'm naturally very goofy and it's very disarming for women. I'm a confident, goofy, fun person. So I can get away with saying some pretty fucked up shit and girls will laugh. But I'll give a couple examples. When there's a lull in the conversation and it's just idle. I'll gyrate my hips and bump into hers and bite my lip and have super intense crazy eyes (comically of course) and tell her "could you imagine? How weird would this be?" and just get more out…
/r/askTRP13/10/15 04:25 PM
1

I'll have a girls hand in my hands, and I'll gentlely crack her knuckles, fingers and wrists. It takes a certain amount of finessing and awareness of how the body works. But I can crack the thumb on the finger, the first knuckle, and the large knuckle in your hand. Chicks are always very impressed by that and it feels good for 80% of them (some girls just aren't a fan of getting their fingers/wrists cracked and that's fine.. there's always soft touching). I'm sure there are youtube videos or pos…
/r/askTRP13/10/15 04:14 PM
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Just be bold man. You talk to a chick? Tell her "holy shit, you've got some seriously soft hands" as you rub on them (I'm super kino myself so it plays super easily). For me, in a situation where I'm kino'ing them I have a light conversation that I'm leading and I watch how she's reacting. 90% of the time her eyes glaze over as she's getting really into being touched. Once that happens, I escalate. Arm around the waist pull her in playfully, tease, whisper things in her ears. It doesn't even nec…
/r/askTRP13/10/15 03:17 PM
0

Depends how good of a friend he is. I've typically been very emotionless with these types of situations and just get super selfish and I drop them like nobodies business. It's a no brainer at least for me. Then again I only need ONE good friend so anyone else after that is really superfluous.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 02:54 PM
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Don't worry about your Dad. He is a grown ass man. All you can do is support him. Just keep an eye on your brothers. Explain what's happening to them in an age friendly way and shield them from anything ugly. You need to be the figure of stability in their eyes. You want to help your old man? Talk to your brothers as much as possible. They're young and need an adult, and two adults bickering as your parents are.. just aren't healthy.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 02:46 PM
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Bro.. you need to lighten up. I'll give you an example, I'm prior special ops, I train military and police K9s, I race cars, and I'm an engineer. And I'm one of the goofiest people you'll likely ever meet. Being overly serious is a buzzkill in my opinion and chicks like someone who has a certain energy about them. What I advise you do is to show your contempt for their behavior in a over the top way. So you get to express how you really feel but people get to egg you on. Like I'd just walk aroun…
/r/askTRP13/10/15 02:40 PM
1

you're caring too much about the chicks. Or caring too much about wanting them. At least it's how I see it. Who cares, you shouldn't be going through a hassle to get with these chicks. You're still early on and your SMV isn't super high. No worries. Just keep working on it. You've got other things to worry about instead of some fickle girls. You're goddamn 22
/r/askTRP13/10/15 02:29 PM
2

Dude... you need to work on your grammar. Also, it's perfectly acceptable at least in my mind to come off as blue pill to bring a girl in. It's all situational. Redpilling doesn't work on every chick. You can blue pill initially until you get the game rolling. The main goal is to make sure you maintain frame. Ain't nothing wrong with what you're doing. It's part of your game. It's your style. Embrace it.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 02:27 PM
1

Holy fuck. That is one fucked up situation. I wouldn't stand for that shit. Depending how bad it was. I'd probably just stand there smiling while calling the cops and see how she changes her tune. She keeps talking shit? Ignore her. At that point she's just a bitch who's butthurt who thought consequences don't apply to her and she's clearly obsessed. The best thing you could of done was just shatter this girls entire idea of how much she thinks you value her.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 07:59 PM
1

Who gives a shit if it's written by a woman. She cites all of her information in abundance and makes excellent sense. Plus who better to get advice on being likable and manipulative than a woman?
/r/askTRP12/10/15 07:53 PM
2

read the book The Charisma Myth. It'll help. You need to learn how to fake being genuine until it becomes automatic and then you become genuine. This book will break it down fantastically. You'll learn to interact with people for the goal of elevating yourself in their eyes. And you'll see results instantly. The first 15 pages of that book I applied to even women and it made a HUGE difference. Cannot recommend this book enough. EDIT: it'll show you techniques to absorb peoples experiences and co…
/r/askTRP12/10/15 07:25 PM
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No. let him learn on his own. I fucking hate it when my friends meddle in my relationships and women. Even if I'm fucking up, stay the fuck out of it. Just talk about it later and spitball ideas and shit but don't push him towards a goddamn thing. He'll learn one way or another. If you're more advanced in RP than him, you'll just help translate when it comes crashing down (if it does). But I always stay out of my friends love/sex life. That shit is their field.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 07:24 PM
1

Don't tie your hopes, dreams, happiness into a relationship even if you desire one. Get a real hobby. Or as someone else suggested a dog would be a good outlet. For example I train military and police k9 and I have my own work line german shepherd. Building our relationship is extremely rewarding and you can see developments in the dogs confidence every week. My goal is to get him titled as IPO3 and then move on and create my own training facility. I learned to love the hobby of dogsport and it'…
/r/askTRP12/10/15 12:00 PM
2

Being opinionated on social media is an SMV killer. I only use it to promote my high SMV attributes. My cars, travels, dogs, work, achievements etc. So the only thing to judge is if it's impressive to you or not. But it's hard to come with an articulated reason as to why you disagree with someone simply because they got a lot of good going on in their life. Meanwhile, you post something political, religious, or social commentary. It opens you up to a world of open ended interpretations that some…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 07:38 PM
1

So now you're drawing validation from likes upvotes? Hmm... interesting.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 05:13 PM
1

Thanks for the compliment, and I'll be sure to elaborate in the future.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 04:59 PM
1

I've witnessed the influence IG holds from my friends and decided to give it a whack. You've got it figured out. You should def write something up with more detail. I'd love to learn as much as possible with this new tool. I've only been using it to advertise my SMV.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 04:56 PM
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Lol, it's gonna take a lot to hurt my feelings. I'm just pointing out the short coming of your post. You retaliated by comparing yourself to me to hopefully give validation to your post. Instead of trusting the substance of what you were saying. Which is something women commonly do. See? We all do girly things from time to time. ;) You don't need to take reddit posts so personally or seriously. We're all here to share what we know.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 04:52 PM
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Thank you. These guys are on here for advice and when someone who just spent the night balls deep in a hott mixed chick tries to give them some, they want to argue about it. Clearly, what they are doing (ie instagram doggy pics) isn't working or else they would be fucking the girl instead of asking for advice on askTRP. You've got a pretty strong narrative lined up here. First of all, I didn't ask for advice and this isn't asktrp. This was a post to simply show how girls think and something to k…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 04:44 PM
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I apologize, we carried the conversation further and she was very interested in what I had to say. I just had nothing further to say and proceeded to do my own thing she then went back to her phone. This is a learning experience for me so I'll be sure to add more detail to future submissions.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 04:36 PM
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I 100% agree. The pictures I share mostly show that I'm the shit. Things I do, places I go, things I buy, great times I experience. None of that opinionated type nonsense that can kill your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 04:33 PM
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Hmm, that's an interesting perspective. I personally wasn't looking at passing a shit test seeing as I had no ambition to sleep with this chick as she's banging my buddy. This was mostly an educational experience. But out of curiosity, what would you have done?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 04:21 PM
1

Hey sorry but english isn't my first language and I'm having trouble fully understanding what it is you're trying to convey. Thanks brother
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 04:17 PM
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You shouldn't need to compete or compare with other alphas. Make your own brand. I came out of special operations in the Air Force and I constantly kept setting myself back by comparing against my peers. Either trying to achieve a stellar physique, or physical performance bench marks, or just who is more willing to do the most craziest shit. Instead I directed that focus and attention on creating my own internal goals, standards, benchmarks and became MUCH happier. I went from focusing on having…
/r/askTRP07/10/15 04:09 PM
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I'll do instagram whenever I feel I have something to share. Doesn't make it a girly activity. I train K9s and it allows me to advertise and bring more potential clients. I also race cars and my friends and family love seeing my developments and not everyone is on FB. I'm coming from a strictly looks standpoint. Those exist, at least in my opinion. This was a productive argument. I learned (or re-affirmed) something from it. You need to take the positive of this situation instead of criticizing …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 03:59 PM
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His issue doesn't seem to be from the people or the interaction being the issue. It seems to stem from him. He seems to just have his fill of socializing and just wants out. He's an introvert. Guy clearly has game if we take his word for it so doesn't need advice there. Also I hold the belief that showing strong passion for a hobby is attractive to a woman. Shows you have one thing that turns you on and if you are someone who doesn't grant many emotional highs to things it can be very interestin…
/r/askTRP07/10/15 03:51 PM
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As /u/bl33ddingr3d said, sounds like you're an introvert. I too personally find being social too much is just numbing. I spent 2 years while on Okinawa doing nothing but school, lifting, working on my cars and trading stocks. I only went out whenever I felt like it. And when you learn to figure yourself out and you call the shots on when you WANT to go out. You'll crush. You collect yourself when you're alone. You appreciate things when you take time away from things. You are learning to love yo…
/r/askTRP07/10/15 03:42 PM
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This explains a lot. I already knew I was an introvert but the way you broke it down really helped me further understand how I work. Thanks man!
/r/askTRP07/10/15 03:36 PM
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No mistakes are being made. You're just getting to know her. She is likely lying about being a virgin which is very common in traditional cultures. You need to not look at this chick as something serious. Start from the bottom, she's just a fun fling and through having fun with each other you'll get to know each other then evaluate her with a more complete picture. But I'd absolutely downgrade how serious you're taking this for starters.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 01:30 PM
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After looking it up even further since I was genuinely curious it seems you're both right. TIL, thanks!
/r/askTRP05/10/15 04:56 PM
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I'm dubious as to you being grammatically right or wrong. But English isn't my first language either. However I don't believe I'm wrong. More than willing to have a literary expert explain.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 04:16 PM
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I wouldn't of bothered making this post. If you're confident don't act extreme. Just be calm and explain, if your friend is retarded enough to stay mad that's his ptoblem. Brush him off until he chills. The more you don't let nonsense phase you the better. You've got serious shit on your mind. Who really cares about a guy bitching about whipped cream.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 01:39 PM
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Thanks man, I appreciate it. I was looking earlier but I must not have used the right terms.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 09:22 PM
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well as long as you're offering. Sure
/r/askTRP18/09/15 09:07 PM
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So I take it you don't know either. It's alright.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:59 PM
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I race cars, sky dive, train military and police k9, shoot frequently, lift, do real offroading (that's a stab at you redneck mudding types hahaha) and day trade. Pick your poison.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:51 PM
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Well I deleted the thread yesterday after I got a decent amount of suggestions and I took them accordingly. I read a fair amount of the sidebar. However it was brought to my attention that I lack soft skills which may have been an issue previously. And suggestions were to comfort and empathize to draw her in due to me being emotionally distant.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 04:03 PM
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I had asked here previously and you guys said since I had difficulties empathizing with others and glossing over a girl who expresses emotional issues to try to comfort her so she feels comfortable with me.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 03:34 PM
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Good call homie. That's an eye opener
/r/askTRP01/09/15 03:12 PM
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It's strange. We got along well on our dates and shes shown she is flattered I'm interested in her.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 03:07 PM
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I don't believe it's defined.. I think it's the judges discretion. But it's a rare situation to find someone with proof of making a false claim, and being the judge that hands down the punishment for it would be a risky move as the media could spin it pretty wildly as victim blaming or what have you. But in this instance, I don't think she tried to officially charge the officer with touching her, I think she just said it outloud. So I don't believe she can be reprimanded for that.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/15 05:13 PM
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yoooo... especially bro-arguments.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/05/15 02:26 PM
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You believing it or not is not my concern. I simply shared as much as I could about the situation. I elaborated on multiple things so it shows I'm not going to her just for her. I'm asking for outside perspective on this situation and how to interpret it.
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