Would you LTR alpha widow?

Aaren_Augustine · 2017-06-29T12:52:45+00:00

If you always wanna be the consolation prize, crack on... I'm sure that knowledge won't destroy your ego

Metalageddon · 2017-06-29T13:08:55+00:00

Nope. Never.

No matter who she is, there's someone younger with less baggage whose every bit as x you think she is. Great cook, great personalitittys, great sex drive, whatever.

There's a younger better version with less baggage.

Aaren_Augustine · 2017-06-29T12:53:04+00:00

Is the juice worth the squeeze? Is she an attention whore? Disrespectful? Doesn't know how to defer? Doesn't know how to be polite? Is she open with what you want to do to her?

You don't hire a woman that's got a problem keeping a job. That has bad work ethic. That's entitled to pay without effort.

Guys get way too wrapped up in the background check. They never get to the point where they ask WHAT you want them for past pussy.

And for fuck's sake, ain't nobody need to be a dish washer around here.

Kommanderdude · 2017-06-29T16:15:38+00:00

Technically all girls are Alpha widowed unless you are the first and only guy they ever dated. When a girl dates she is always comparing her new alpha to the previous one. Women's relationships are a series of comparisons. She'll compare to the previous guy and if you are more beta, well you're gone. If you're more alpha she'll stay with you until you begin to turn beta and then when she compares. She'll forget about the alpha traits you have and forget about the beta traits her ex had. And she will compare your beta to his alpha and you'll be gone.

Now if you are a superior alpha that's unwavering you probably won't be to committing to her. In which case you'll probably leave her and now the alpha widow process begins again with a new Alpha with which she uses to compare men too.

Borsao66 · 2017-06-29T12:52:45+00:00

Will Smith voiceover

Aw hell naw.

mcr00sterdota · 2017-06-29T13:12:49+00:00

Fuck no. Plenty of other fish out their with less baggage mate.

quicklogaccount · 2017-06-29T13:11:45+00:00

Alpha widows are often shitty women, demanding and entitled as fuck, and reserve their "best" to the idealized and unattainable alpha.

The first bit, before the coma, is all you need to know. Shitty? Leave. Not shitty? Proceed with the checklist.

kabylewolf · 2017-06-29T16:04:30+00:00

Depends. I've successfully dated a few alpha widows. Some are too far gone, others are suitable to date. There's a lot of nuance in deciding.

My advice is to drop the ego. See where it goes, be open, and have very low expectations. You'd be surprised how alpha widows respond to guys who operate without an ego. It's a complete 180 most likely from the Chad they were with. Sometimes worth a few pumps, other times you can convert an alpha widow into a serviceable ltr.

No one size fits all. Just play the game smart.

And again. Drop the concept of an ego.

Gawernator · 2017-06-29T13:43:22+00:00

No.

Docbear64 · 2017-06-29T13:50:12+00:00

You'll always be second place and if the man who widows her EVER comes back into her life she will drop you or do whatever it takes to spend even an hour in his presence. Surefire way to invest in a woman then be heartbroken when she shows you how little you truly mean when daddy comes home.

GreenPiller · 2017-06-29T17:25:51+00:00

Hahahaha.. no.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-06-29T15:19:36+00:00

Are u people even trying anymore? The rule is no LTR with Alpha Widows. You either are RP or you're not. There is no opinion or voting on this.

Title	Would you LTR alpha widow?
Author	fakeplastictrees87
Upvotes	2
Comments	19
Date	June 29, 2017 12:46 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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