Tinder Flake

OmLaLa · 2015-12-08T16:02:58+00:00

Post the back-and-forths between you two so I can analyze and hopefully find the root of the issue.

kabylewolf · 2015-12-08T16:59:25+00:00

If it ain't easy, don't bother. That's my mentality with online dating.

And after looking at your texts, you should of answered her if you wanted to see her. A chick that is that insisting isn't going to like being shut out and it's gonna turn her off. Not to mention occasionally chicks like to know whats up so they feel safe. You played a good game on the wrong girl. Chicks ain't gingerbread cookies where one cookie cutter will work.

fromdario · 2015-12-08T17:10:04+00:00

One of the things to remember with Tinder and online in general is girls are coming in for a variety of reasons.

On Tinder many are there for social validation, promote their IG or just to flirt. Who knows what other guys she is talking to IRL. I know girls who go on just for shits and giggles with no intention to meet up. Maybe she thinks you're good looking but a high 5 in her taste. Sometimes the perfect execution is still not going to get her to bite and you may never know the reason for it.

Have you ever looked at a chick's tinder account when you are with her? Matches through the roof, she has options and if some guy is like "I'll take you to a five star restaurant", your coffee date won't seem as exciting.

Obviously, you should always be working to tighten the game and improve (which you are by posting this question) but part of it is the medium. So don't get frustrated.

Another thing is logistics. My success on pulling girls out on Tinder is much higher in NYC than LA, partly for the fact that NYC is easy to get around, you don't need to drive and the fact that LA is a sprawl with parking/driving hassles. It plays a factor.

Will leave it to the others to do the specific analysis.

PUAtalksRP · 2015-12-08T18:54:21+00:00

ya you communicated too much

secret_barber · 2015-12-08T17:42:54+00:00

Just stop asking questions. Make jokes, statements and demands.

Title	Tinder Flake
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	4
Comments	16
Date	December 8, 2015 3:56 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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