The girl that broke my heart and drove me to the Red Pill is now suddenly looking for contact. I don't know what to do.

JustACrosshair_ · 2015-11-10T23:16:47+00:00

You should do nothing but ignore her.

End of discussion.

She is dead as far as you are concerned. She can not be spoken to. Thought about, maybe, but not even recommended - but definitely and for sure, she can not be spoken to.

If she wanted you, she could have had you. Instead, she betrayed you. Why you even consider engaging contact with someone like that is beyond me.

Leave it, and let it wither.

BrunoOh · 2015-11-10T23:41:13+00:00

Nothing good will come of this. Ignore her.

stickfiguresk · 2015-11-11T00:13:36+00:00

What do you have to lose? Plates? Emotional stability? Money? Independance?

Yeah... been there. Wouldn't recommend it.

Here's how it went for me:

Her: Hey stick how are you

Me: fucking awesome. Come over

(Sex; "oh right, I was bored of fucking her. Turns out I still am)

Her: I forgive you for making me cheat on you

Me: lol bitch pls go

Her: no.

Commence 2 hour argument about reality vs her reality because I didn't want to forcibly remove her or call the police. Ultimately, I invited the most skilled person of pushing my buttons into my home and she refused to leave. Fucking mistake.

panopticake · 2015-11-10T22:56:12+00:00

Was a post about this type of situation not so long ago on the main sub.

Rayjaysdick · 2015-11-11T00:13:10+00:00

Don't reply. Indulging her bullshit would be weak.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2015-11-11T04:42:04+00:00

I'm almost certain things aren't going as great in her life, so she's looking at me as some sort of diversion, to take her mind off of things or more likely as some sort of way out.

I think you're correct. She is fishing for attention, energy, and validation from you. She doesn't have a convenient source ATM, but that's sure to change.

If you're really feeling vindictive, reply with something like:

"u ruined my life for 3.5 years but now much better person because of it Good bye"

Then completely ignore and watch the show unfold.

But that would probably result in a massive shitstorm of text and email hate from her, and possibly even a ranting voice message. For someone like me, this would be hilarious, but since you actually lived through all the crap, I doubt you'd be amused yourself.

Also, being vindictive/hateful like that is not really a good frame of mind to be in. It'll mess with you for days afterwards. Best to just move her into the #2 pile of "people who no longer have anything positive to offer me" and move on. They can take care of their own happiness should they so choose.

RunawayGrain · 2015-11-11T12:31:37+00:00

Take it from someone who has been there: She wants something from you, and it isn't a relationship.

Do yourself a favor and block her.

Title	The girl that broke my heart and drove me to the Red Pill is now suddenly looking for contact. I don't know what to do.
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Date	November 10, 2015 10:31 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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