How to hold frame when a woman disrespects you and how to react?

Kolbath · 2015-10-24T20:27:29+00:00

I find it weird how to react. If a woman calls me a pussy or talks to her friends negatively about me infront of me, do I walk away? Do I say something? How about she is in my own house, or on a date, how do I tell her to not disrespect me without ruining the mood for the day?

What's wrong with walking away? Would you let your little sister talk to you like that?

Depending on the situation I'll either call the bitch out, ("Listen, chicky, you can say whatever the fuck you want about me behind my back, but when I'm here in front of you, kindly shut the fuck up."), treat it like a game , ("Pussy, huh? Well, I'm not sure, how about you show me yours and we'll see if you're right?") or just ignore her and talk to another of her friends.

One of my favorites is the six second stare. I was in a bar once and talking to a group of girls and one was annoyed that I was stealing the limelight from her. She said, "Oh, do you think you're cool?" I simply stared at her for six seconds and then said, "Isn't that cute." Flatly and with no emotion in my voice. Then I changed the subject and ignored her.

tastymedicine · 2015-10-25T05:39:29+00:00

You may find it weird because you want to hit them but cannot obviously. From the sidebar:

Women are Machiavellian in nature, this means they are comparatively proficient at being manipulative versus the typical male. The evolutionary theoretical basis for this is due to smaller size and inferior musculature women had to learn to use men as tools rather than directly oppose them in a physical conflict (as they would undoubtedly lose in all but very few scenarios) this makes the pronunciation of their strength a propensity to be mentally rather than physically violent. Physical violence is outlawed whereas mental abuse is not, this allows women to get their way without being held accountable by a system of law. The law does not legislate interpersonal morality to this extent. Where a man's instinct is to hit, a woman's is to do a big shit in your mind instead.

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In your house?

Make her leave

On a date?

End the date if you feel the need. Don't continue rewarding negative behavior by investing your time.

how do I tell her to not disrespect me without ruining the mood for the day?

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Title	How to hold frame when a woman disrespects you and how to react?
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Date	October 24, 2015 7:40 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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