Met her a couple of months ago, we desired each other a lot but seen each other only 3 times cuz she lived 2 hours away. We never ended up having sex because that one time she was too tired to come to my place or some other shit and the other 2 times we didn't have a place to. Maybe I wasn't pushing enough.

She's 28, I'm 22 and I feel like she's the dominant one here, even tho I'm naturally dominant with women. In a way that I have this strange vibe that she decides when it's on or off, when with this new girl I'm with she's clearly submissive and I control everything.

The texting slowed down to once or twice a week few messages and I tried my best to keep it at 50/50 ratio, she's even texting a little more sometimes but we're around 50/50.

I'm doing my best not to come off needy because I think she hates it, I never sent two texts after no response and I only initiated twice in a row maybe once or twice.

She moved to my city last week and seems to have lost interest, the day she moved in I was going out with my friends and asked her if she wants to join, she said she was too tired, reasonable, she was moving all day.

She texted 2 days later asking how was it, few messages exchanged that's it.

I texted her a couple of days later to try and set up a date this week, she said 'Yeah we could :) we'll talk about it, have fun now :*' I was actually going on another date while texting her so that's good for me.

The day comes, I initiate at like 6PM with a funny message just to get her talking and try to confirm the date, she sees the message (she was working but she isn't that busy I know) and doesn't reply, she replies at like 11PM saying oh my god I'm so tired and tomorrow I'm working early... good night :*

She blatantly ignores the fact that we were supposed to hang today. I've read I'm not supposed to call her out on this, or come off needy, rather be understanding and 0 fucks given mentality, so I was like, oh dear they really torture you at the new job :o night :*.

No response since then, I reckon we're done now but she still might actually text me because 'breaking off' a 3 month texting like this and after having such great connection would be really sad... I'm still hoping that she just might need some space because she moved to a new place, new job only a couple of days ago, still I'm all about that 'If you want to be with someone, you'll find time'.

So yeah, TRP, I don't plan on texting her first after the second flake so what do I do when she texts? Maybe flake on her but politely? Maybe reschedule and show that I have priorities too?