Hello brothers,

I've been a lurker for several months now, and well into my self-improvement journey.

Unfortunately in the last couple of months I got hit with huge medical bills that cleared my checking account, leaving me with very little cash, not much of a credit line, and an LTR who is rather supportive (not sure for how long, given AWALT applies regardless of how RP she is).

Has anyone here started from scratch and could give some advice? My LTR suggested that I move in with her to save me some money, until I can land a job. She does most of the cooking, so we spend very little and eat fresh.

I've kept most of my problems away from her, told her just enough as I deemed necessary, and she offered to help, split rent/groceries, etc.

My LTR has a mindset very conducive to RP mentality, and she's several unicorn-like qualities... The only thing that worries me is that AWALT still applies because she's a woman, and I want to avoid future shit storms.

Should I trust my LTR when I need to get my shit back together, or should I rely on a friend and keep her in the dark?

TL;DR Had surgery, now I'm broke, can't get a legal job until June because immigration laws, and LTR offered to help with rent/groceries by moving together. Our relationship is very RP, but because of AWALT I am not sure if I should move in with her.