I'm 28 and this girl is 38. She's Chinese, lives in Chinatown and speaks little English. She's only had sex with her husband whom she divorced 5 years ago. I'm the second guy she has had sex with in her life.

I see her about once a week and have sex with her at my place. However, the problem I am beginning to notice is that every time we have progression in our relationship, the very next day, she is at my throat, telling me all these negative things.

For example, before I had met her in person and was just talking to her on the chat app, we sexted and I came. The very next day, she starts talking about how it is too weird to be talking to me and that we can never meet. I calm her down and of course, we eventually meet and things move forward.

Another time, she says her Mom back in China is worried about her and wants her to move back to China. The girl tells me that she wants to stop seeing me otherwise it will be too painful for her to move back to China. I say, that's fair enough, fine. Of course, a few days later, she breaks down, comes over and we have sex. We keep seeing each other.

Yesterday, I gave her the longest orgasm she's had in our 1-2 month relationship but before that, she saw me selling a gram of weed to one of my friends who was over at the house chilling downstairs with my brother. She said the smell of the weed made her dizzy. She was fine with everything that night and had the best orgasm she's had. After sex, she tells me that she is engaged in this Chinese business deal where she gives $1,200 for 6 months and then after that receives back $1,000 every month for "as long as the business lasts", however, she has no details of what the business actually is and knows nothing except that she has to pay $1,200 for 6 months and may or may not receive money back. Sounds like a type of pyramid/ponzi scheme to me. But I don't make a fuss over it. It's her money and her business. Anyway, the very next day (today), she complains to me over the chat app that she doesn't understand me, that we are from two different worlds, that she shouldn't have started a relationship with me so fast, etc.

I just tell her to stop worrying so much and stop replying until a few hours later where I message her and tell her I am no longer selling weed (probably should have just kept my mouth shut). She responds saying that she doesn't want to know about these things and that I can still go find a white girlfriend who will have the same thought process as me and with whom I can communicate easily. Lastly, she says, "I am not engaged in your world."

After that, I waited an hour and then just sent the message, "okay".

I'm not going to say anything to her now. My question is though, if she says something to me, how should I respond? If she never messages me again, should I just call it quits and find another girl?

Is it worth salvaging this relationship? Also, are all girls really like this? Because if they are, I'm not sure I can stand being in a relationship with one. I try to be as stoic as possible about these things, but her throwing a fit still affects my emotions and gives me a headache.