Alright brothers, this is a mess. I have so many questions lately and it would be great to get advice on everything thats wrong here.

Some context: I am a college student in my twenties, swallowed the pill around a year ago. Biggest mistake was that I grew up always with a girl or girlfriend by my side--with the absence of a real solid male circle throughout high school and my early college years. My recent long term relationship ended, mostly due to my realization of the silliness of a LTR and the wastefulness of the resources invested into the relationship. I learned a lot through my two long term relationships in college, and I am glad my thought process and mindset were justified when I came across trp (things I would argue with my feminist 1st college girlfriend or things I pointed out were right or wrong with my 2nd college girlfriend).

Now, my Field Report: After my breakup, I was able to finally put the red pill to the test as I found TRP during the middle of my last LTR. In the past two months I have raised my count by eleven. It really opened my eyes to what I have been doing wrong throughout my life with many girls, however it really made me think back and question why beta actions worked on some girls who were in no way lower than a 6 or 7. I definitely had a lot of beta characteristics in my game pre-trp. However, in no way was I a virgin or not able to get pussy.

For those of you who are wondering what I changed the most after TRP:

  1. Escalation. Escalation. Escalation.

  2. Immediately but discretely state intentions (let them know youre only meeting to fuck)

  3. Let them know you have shit to do and don't want to waste time.

But here comes my problem, men. When I got pussy in my pre-trp days, it led to a pretty solid relationship with the girl or plate. They would talk to me and text me all the time. Sometimes we talked this much before the sex and most of the time it continued after the sex. I realize this is NOT what men need, we dont need the text and shit if we get the sex. However, although I know women should not be that great of a companion, I enjoy when plates and girls text me everyday. The problem is, my current plates, my new plates after my breakup, all think of me as a massive player as I make it clear that nothing is exclusive, and don't tend to text me. They are more cautious and sometimes state that I am not good for them. I need to actually take some initiative to get them to come over so I can fuck them. I want to be at a point where they contact me and theyll just come over if I tell them to. Am I doing something wrong?

I think a big mistake is that sometimes with these girls, I sometimes fuck up and tell them my thought process, sometimes the roles of red pill criteria are said and they understand. They always all understand when I explain why I think the way I do. However, their actions dont change and it leads to them sometimes avoiding me. So many fuck ups here and there and now I dont tell girls anything, and just fuck. But then, they say I am bad for them and dont contact me unless I tell them to come fuck.

Am I retarded for desiring more substance with some of my plates?