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read "No More Mr.Nice Guy - DR. Robert Glover" In it he explains "The opposite of crazy is still crazy." Let me help illustrate that like this, Take a guy who meticulously washes his car, freaks out about a small piece of dirt, Crazy. Now the opposite of that guy is A person who never cleans their car and has it filled with garbage like a hoarder, also CRAZY. So long story short, If you are a nice guy, being an asshole will not help you. Good Luck out there!
/r/askTRP18/06/16 04:12 AM
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I'm still having trouble coming up with things to say Harsh truth then, chances are you are not an interesting person then. Like i said previously STOP waiting and START doing. OK here is what I think you should do (going by what you put in this post, new account so i dont have much to work with) Go out and learn a new skill, go on an adventure, or do something WAY out of your comfort zone. There is NO quick fix, NO easy "playbook". DONT look for short cuts. Go and find yourself as a man, when y…
/r/askTRP07/06/16 07:03 PM
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unless I'm talked to OK that is not good, you want to be part of the conversation. Like i said Make a point and interject but dont OVERTAKE the conversation. I've read the sidebar I suggest you read - how to win and influence friends. ( I thought it was part of the sidebar) I'm a ghost watching as life goes on by around me. You said you are watching your life, which is a passive term. You want to be experiencing life! You see one of the ideas I took from TRP that helped me the most is: Do you wa…
/r/askTRP07/06/16 05:00 PM
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OK if you are "that GUY" first order of business is STFU! Pay attention to the group. If you think you have something to add to the convo add it QUICK then back off. Watch the "ALPHA" you are "following" take cues from him, learn from him. If you are early stages understand your place and dont try to "out alpha" him. You will fail. Once you start to internalize the sidebar material (you should be reading), the rest will come natural. If you dont know what to do next. Read the side bar AGAIN lol.…
/r/askTRP07/06/16 03:21 PM
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How the fuck do people have raw unprotected sex so casually? Commonsense is well not as common as you think. People who dont use protection during casual sex are simply put, idiots. As for yourself ask, do you want Kids or an illness? if the answer to either one is NO, then bag it up and dont care what anyone (male or female) thinks. Why are you worrying how other men are being idiots? If a friend said to you "HEY TAPEROLL, I ate 4 triple bacon cheeseburgers dipped in mayo and deep fried." Telli…
/r/askTRP03/06/16 03:36 PM
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with a mindset that says RP is something you do to your wife to make her want to fuck you This RIGHT HERE!!!! Kudos and well said!
/r/askMRP27/05/16 01:38 PM
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1:1 is a ratio for lean body mass, yes that is for serious lifters and experienced lifters. I am not saying your wrong, because you arent. But as someone who is just starting out that high of a goal is hard to reach without being crazy vigilant. like you said We dont know any other info then what he posted, his lifting routine, his max lifts, body weight, or even his age. So to some one new, telling a 30 year old 300lb guy to eat 1:1 do you think he will eat 180g protein or 300g protein? I also …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 06:52 PM
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I lost 130lbs in the span of about a year, I had weight loss surgery 2 years ago. I started lifting at about month 8, I learned way more about nutrition and exercise after my surgery than i ever knew before hand. The web is a great resource! its better to go slow than cause issues in the long run. basically the reason you start squating with and empty bar your first time and not trying to hulk out 225 squats!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 05:47 PM
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for a sedentary average male you are looking at about 56g that web MD recommends so i added a bit due to work out (and why i said "at least" 64)(google results range anywhere from 50-60 for average). Now if you are a power lifter or body builder it is way more minimum requirement 1 - 1 for lean mass. BUT if he drop 20lbs in a month i wager alot of that is in fact more muscle mass loss than actual fat loss.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 05:37 PM
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Listen I am happy about your success, if you are only a month into MRP, you are just scratching the tip of the iceberg. You can not nearly internalize all of this, that being said DONT STOP be ever vigilant! Also 20lbs in a month is extremely unhealthy weight loss be careful bro, mixed with your gym and cardio routines YOU may be doing more harm than good. Make sure you are getting at least 64g protein in, that is your average daily need.WATER WATER WATER! Your body may go into starvation mode a…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 02:14 PM
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EVERY electrician has been shocked once. No matter how safe you are you are bound to get hit. First you are putting getting laid as a top priority. Warning hard truth: The fact that you are excited to bang a 5-6 that has herpes (that makes her a 2 bro) shows you are not a quality man. your SMV is low, if your SMV was higher you would be able to pull girls much better than the herpes sisters here. So Priority NUMBER ONE: Forget about sex and improve yourself! Lift, if you are lifting LIFT MORE! G…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 01:21 AM
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Oh no I got what you were saying, I even agreed with you. I was elaborating on that idea and adding my own spin. I agree with what you were saying. Example: Apples are THE only TRP fruit! a statement that is simply silly. Such as the only way to find a high value girl is via religion.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 01:55 PM
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It is simple, she asks you about who is X? X is a friend. You say X is a friend. She says Liar (she doesn't trust you). Listen, you are overthinking this alot. Like i said before, STOP TALKING, only say what needs to be said. Dont add a lie because you think it will make it easier!!!! Tell the truth. If she doesn't believe you, so what! You told the truth, nothing more nothing less. Her thoughts are HER problem not yours. I was called liar for about 12 yrs. Sometimes, in fact, I did lie. OK so w…
/r/askMRP25/03/16 01:45 PM
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Everyone internalizes TRP differently and it means different things to different people. But i do have to jokingly point out the hypocrisy of your comment, you define TRP than say people need to stop defining TRP. The red pill is nothing more than the truth about women People need to stop coming to this sub and saying " this is red pill or that is red pill." That's all bullshit Honestly you are not wrong, My personal take on TRP is it is more about the improving yourself and being the best versi…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 02:02 PM
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Nice simple to the point! good luck!
/r/askMRP22/03/16 04:37 PM
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OK STOP! You are over thinking it man! like i said Shut the Fuck UP! only say what you have to! You: "Alex's ex gf" (only say that if this is the truth) or "She is a friend" Her: something something liar <-(red flag!!!!!!!!!!!) You: (who cares what you say here, she has huge trust issues and you should not LTR her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She is blaring a warning to you!) but if you need some AA here: smile and chuckle : Yup you caught me I am a professional liar. (then go back to doing what ever yo…
/r/askMRP22/03/16 03:40 PM
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Dont worry about her period that is just her reason, dont let it be a excuse for shitty behavior. This is simple you can do one of two things if she keeps bringing it up (red flag BTW), answer her honestly then make fun of her jealousy in a cute fun way, like you would treat a young child, or AA laughing it off. You are over thinking this: You have 0 romantic ties to this other girl so who cares! You are in a relationship that is VERY new (less than 4 months from what i can tell) There should be…
/r/askMRP22/03/16 02:59 PM
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Why lie? unless she really is Alex's ex... The only reason to deflect is if you are fucking this women. If you are not fucking her why lie about who she is? If she was like "who is Dave?" you would answer, a buddy that i hung out with a month ago. should not be different if she asks "who is Sally?" either Ignore all together or AA... I would not even warrant it with an answer. If she brings it up again, AA to the extreme, have fun and tease her about her jealousy all with a little smirk.
/r/askMRP22/03/16 02:04 PM
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I was around 360lbs and was miserable, I ended up getting weight loss surgery (best thing I ever did) I have to date lost around 130 lbs. Weightlifting was difficult because it would mess with my head. Scale going up still scares me. BUT as others have said the amount of unsolicited attention you get from women is unimaginable. That boosts your confidence which also helps game. Be at a healthy weight, have some muscle and that puts you ahead of 70% of guys out there. You are more active in your …
/r/askTRP16/03/16 11:55 AM
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to answer your question, YES. You are still using covert contracts, If i workout and wear nice clothes, then she will want to have sex with me. Stop it! From what I am reading here you are trying to change your self not because you want to be a better man, but in hopes you get laid more. This is the wrong perspective, you want to improve yourself because you are worth it and THEN she will notice and THEN the sex should (could) be a byproduct of that. If you are working toward the best version of…
/r/askMRP17/02/16 02:50 PM
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I will be honest with you, I think you (and many people) have a skewed view on what TRP is and what an "Alpha" is. an Alpha is not a jerk who treats people like shit! The core of TRP teachings is simple "Become the best version of yourself! Never stop improving yourself!" also dont allow people to walk all over you. Ignore all the PUA garbage that has flooded this place. If you are in fact good looking and intelligent as you say, you have natural alpha tendencies. I know you are trolling, but i …
/r/askTRP16/02/16 05:45 PM
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This right here is when i really raised my eyebrow! When was the last time you walked up to a cop and said, "Howdy officer, I am not breaking the law at all sir!" Trust your gut!
/r/askTRP16/02/16 05:03 PM
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yes took me a few weeks and jumping on a deal.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 06:55 PM
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Craigslist is your friend man! I was tired of the gym and waiting for my turn on equipment and so i started buying stuff on Craigslist. I got a bench and over 300lbs of weight Olympic bar and curl bar all for less than $180 total. You have to have patience and pounce on good deals. If that is too much, start saving money, look into body weight fitness to supplement until you can get money for weights.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 05:34 PM
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I honestly stopped reading after this So to give you some background, I met this girl 4 months ago in the mall. OK man, let me give you insight 6 months ago you didn't even know she existed! If she is telling you "Sex will already slow down." It will NEVER speed back up. Do you want a sexual relationship? if the answer is YES then move on because she is literally telling you "I dont want to have sex with you!" So if your question is ""can i salvage this?" the answer is: why would you want to? It…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 02:21 AM
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well seeing how you are only a redditor for a month i wager you are new to TRP, so you are still in the anger phase and the "Aww poor me, women have it so easy" phase. Well core teachings of TRP is to work on your self and to improve your life. Wasting time debating if Lesbianism is real is the real time waste. I didnt answer the question as it does not warrant an answer. Simple! Stop complaining about women and fix yourself!
/r/askTRP22/01/16 03:33 PM
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TRP is about sexual strategy TRP is about sexual strategy FOR MEN... Are you interested on how a chicken attracts a mate or its sexual strategy?
/r/askTRP22/01/16 03:28 PM
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OK man, honest answer.....WHO CARES? how will this help you be a better man? Listen, me personally, I don't care what two, three, or four consenting adults do in their bedrooms. Simply put, if you dont turn her on, move on to the next women. It maters NOT if she is turned on by a guy or a girl. Wasting time on things like this is silly mental masturbation.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 01:49 AM
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I'm having troubles figuring out what the contracts / motives are first. Posting this here so others can read and relate maybe I think later in the book (if i remember correctly) Dr.Glover even says understanding where the issue comes from is 10 times less important than, what you would do to fix it. Otherwise, who cares what happened to you yesterday, what are you going to do to make today or tomorrow better. focusing on the past and things you cant change is unhealthy let it go and start anew.…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 04:00 PM
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5x5 is a great starting program. It focusses on the main core lifts. It is strength building workout, where as 3x10 would be a hypertrophy workout (focusing on looks). Basically it is easy to follow so it is recommend for beginners.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 08:16 PM
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Seeing this tells me you dont know much about TRP! and how is it the top comment? So No this is not how TRP tells people to treat other people. NO where on here would it say to invite a girl over then when she does come over immediately ask her to leave. So your ideas about TRP are misguided. Please take time to read about a sub from its sidebar before you ridicule it.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 01:31 AM
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Hey, Listen you are only 17, 90% of us here could have only wish to be given this info that young. Your life is just starting, you dont need to "turn it around". You need to start your life. You have a great set of directions in front of you. Improve your self and never stop! That is priority #1. You are the most important thing in your life, remember that. Set realistic goals and go and achieve them. As for the no fap, It doesnt give you magical powers as some people tend to say. It is ok to re…
/r/askTRP30/11/15 08:05 PM
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even suburbs have bars, check them out. don't waste time online. Like you said, you tried and failed already, why do it again. Also "my top priority is to get laid" is a bad way to think. Your Top priority should be to have a good time, thats it. If a girl comes home, that is icing on the cake. If you come home alone, you still had a good time.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 04:30 PM
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Building off of this: One of the reasons we always say to lift, is it is not instant gratification. It is 100% long term goals. Working on your self wont happen over night and you need to work on it for months and years, in order to get where you want to be in life. It also has the added affect of making you more physically appealing and also gives you self confidence. That is generally why it is always step 1. READ - be that sponge of knowledge, not just TRP side (which SHOULD be first and fore…
/r/askTRP17/11/15 04:33 PM
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online should NOT be your main source for women either! So that way you can keep it fun.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 09:43 PM
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Are you female? if not, WHY are you in a female sub? Are women, as a whole, capable of proper leadership? I thought that was the man's job? i think you need to do some reading man, TRP is about self improvement. Better YOURSELF, dont worry what they are doing over there. To answer your question YES women can lead. What you are miss interpreting (imho) is you need to be the leader of YOUR Life. You dont see a group of women standing at a bus stop and think "Crap, do they need me to lead them to t…
/r/askTRP13/11/15 06:37 PM
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OK who cares what we think about this, what is your gut telling you? Listen I will be honest, TRP teachings are about your self respect and self improvement, will this girl add value or subtract value from your life. YOU are the only person who can answer that. If your gut is saying "DANGER DANGER", pay attention to yourself. Good luck man!
/r/askTRP11/11/15 03:33 PM
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Well i think there ok and bad: First the ok, you spoke your mind and came back to your frame. That was good you relayed that her request was silly. However it was not the right time for this. and momentarily stepped into her frame. The Bad, You should have agreed and amplified. like (all of this being said with a small smirk) "You know you are right, maybe we can work on a point system you know, like i say good morning and kiss you on the cheek that equals you sending me some sexy photos of you …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 03:38 PM
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it is all good, no need to apologize.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:07 PM
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lol you interpreted alot wrong, and maybe it was my wording. I was simplifying abundance mentally, he is insecure so he will come off as thirsty. If it happens good. If it doesn't what ever. I never said for him to be a clown, i said be the fun guy. Being a fun guy is some one people want to be around. I do like your advise about treating her like an old friend. Yes, I do agree bringing up money is bad, when i was typing it it was more of an jab poke fun to see how receptive she is to the idea h…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 01:49 PM
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OK, your post screams insecurity. OK here is a few tips. 1) assume she won't sleep with you, takes the pressure off 2) go on the date have fun and be the fun guy. 3)see if she has you pegged as an orbiter, do not offer to buy her a drink, or buy first round and tell he she has next round. If her buying drinks is an issue, she was just using you for free drinks. 4)sit close to her. Touch her see if she is responsive to you touching her. 5) have a plan, take her to park before the bar, so you can …
/r/askTRP27/10/15 12:21 PM
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Honestly you seem to be over thinking too much. How a girl feels about your past relationships is inconsequential. What is more important is what YOU want, ask yourself do you want a relationship? If yes then go get one, if no then dont go get one. See it is that simple. Focus on yourself, TRP made me understand this fact, "I am the MOST important person in my life." Start focusing more on the self improvement aspect of TRP, put the PUA stuff on the back burner. Your question is literally worryi…
/r/askTRP26/10/15 02:17 PM
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Yes You are correct and maybe i was a bit simplified in my answer, but yes i agree with you 100%.
/r/RedPillParenting20/10/15 01:40 PM
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OK, I know some times idioms are lost some times due to translation issues. Being a helicopter parent: Basically parents that hover over their children, hawkishly "helping" them face any adversity the child experiences. the issue: The child never really learns how to deal with things properly or on their own. RED PILL Take: Dont be afraid to let your child make mistakes but be the rock for them when they fail. Help them, teach them how to correct it, but let them do it. Much like you would with …
/r/RedPillParenting19/10/15 07:42 PM
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ok i would have stopped when she literally said eww to sending you a snap! You didnt ask for a nude snap, but she said eww to thinking about sending you a workout snap. that there says all you need to know. I hate saying this cause people do way to much in this sub, but MOVE ON. stop wasting time and effort on some one who wont even send you a picture of her self. Sounds like you are in college, there are prob 1000s of single and willing ladies on campus who would be happy to send you nudes on s…
/r/askTRP09/10/15 05:04 PM
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I see it so much in this sub, stop focusing on your nationality as a negative. FLIP it to a positive you are an exotic male, use it as a bonus NOT a crutch. Think of a few conversations to have them at the ready, IF any awkward silence rears its ugly head. Women love talking about them selves BUT not like an interview. So ask questions like "Do you travel?" follow ups "where is the farthest you have been?" But pay attention to her answers and look for clue to spring bored to another topic or to …
/r/askTRP08/10/15 03:40 PM
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OK here is some advice, HERES what ya need! Take her on a solid date. BUT go in not expecting sex or anything at the end! covert contracts ruin everything. So Pre date: Pick at least three places to go on your date night. like dinner (maybe nicer than usual) then to a nice bar or coffee shop then to a park for a walk. some thing along those lines. then tell her- hey tonight when you get home get ready to go out, wear something nice. I will be picking you up at X time. then take her on your date!…
/r/askTRP07/10/15 03:43 PM
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Alot is per-programed, But the best i can do for my daughter is to show her what a real man is. Be her rock, make sure she knows you love her! If you notice alot of red flag women have daddy issues.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 07:13 PM
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seen this a million times. Keep an eye on your buddies weight, no doubt she will hamster him into gaining weight. Thus her SMV wont go under his.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 06:26 PM
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I saw this video that explains this perfectly! Check it out
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:13 PM
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Yeah lol not always fat girls but even average girls who arent used to having to try, but think they have to when talking to me. It always makes me giggle inside when it happens.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:44 PM
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One thing i found is women have NO idea how to properly flirt, they have never had to do it before. So generally they go straight to super sexual. Its a fun game i like to play at bars. You see it way more when your SMV is WAY higher than the girls.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 03:29 PM
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It was highly publicized that he was there to give a talk locally and some feminists tried to get a petition to keep him out of Canada. protests and everything. She knew who he was before he even saw her.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 01:11 PM
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my Jaw is dropped! Good for you, for finding out what TRP really is about! I too try to explain it as self improvement first and foremost! Good luck man!
/r/askTRP23/07/15 07:59 PM
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That is a common misconception, TRP is about improving yourself thus your life will improve. Continue to read the side bar. Improve yourself and the rest will follow. There is alot about women on here and how they think. It is up to you what you use that knowledge for. Keep on going, dont sell yourself short. Shit life is to short to be unhappy! It isnt like you get a do over. Live for yourself, make yourself happy because that is no ones job but yours. Good luck my friend.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 05:32 PM
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That is a hard question to answer! I would do anything for my child! I love her so much it is the only absolute love i have ever experienced! Being a father also showed me what real true love is. Now ask if i could go back and not get married (but still have my child, I would never give her up) I would not get married in a hart beat!
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 07:33 PM
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My guess is you are not a parent. I would wager to guess that is about his "son" and not her. Not blue pill brainwashing in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 01:23 AM
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LOL TRP is about you! Who cares what people on the internet think of X type of girl. Question should be How do YOU feel about girls that lift? Also there is a difference between girls that lift and "fit" girls, and many variations in between!
/r/askTRP04/06/15 05:24 PM
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Well Said!
/r/askTRP21/05/15 01:40 AM
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i need a citable source That is why i asked.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 07:11 PM
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She wants to be "friends" first. Would you buy your buddy's drink? OR would you split the check with him. If you paid for his drink you probably would have said "Ah you owe me a beer next time we go out" or something like that, correct? So why wouldn't the same hold up for her? As for seeming "cheap", if she gives you a hard time about a $5 drink that makes her cheap as well, and not to mentioned a bit self entitled. She is not a "Hot Chick" she is a person just like you and me! Treat her as you…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 05:39 PM
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Are you writing a paper, trying to convert a friend, or in a debate with someone?
/r/askTRP20/05/15 05:28 PM
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The way you keep referring to frame, makes me think you really do not understand it. Let me try to simplify it. It is simply a state of mind, pushed out through your actions. It has been called many things like "being stoic" for one. The idea is to be in control of your self and not let other peoples emotions or actions control you in general. I hope this makes it a bit more clear. So to answer your question, i am sure studies have been done on "attitude" types many times. But I feel this is jus…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 05:13 PM
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Dom hits this topic straight on the head! LOL plus he is a riot! BROScienceLife
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 04:36 PM
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So your first 3 some was you watching your GF and her? High chances are she is not into you, but more your girl. I was trying to let her know that I wouldn't want to take the first opportunity that presented itself. First, that seems like a covert contract there. Be up front with her, and your GF. Simply Tell your GF that if you aren't involved (watching and you only "fooling around" with your GF is not involved) that it doesn't happen again. But dont be butt hurt about it. Second, Sounds like s…
/r/askTRP11/05/15 07:57 PM
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Do what YOU want to do. If you want to lift and stay home, do that. If you want to take this chick to the party, then do that. If you go, use your head, let her be DD if you want BUT don't drink to where you would need one! Have a back up plan for a ride home. Otherwise you have no control over the night. Be smart!
/r/askTRP08/05/15 07:19 PM
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Is there Misogyny, yes but not any more so than misandry in other pro female sub. Unusually on here top comments on these posts are people telling them to calm down and to not focus on the woman and to work on themselves. At least that has been my TRP experience.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 06:32 PM
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I think the "less hated" also has to do with people ACTUALLY reading and finding out what Redpill is. Then realizing that there is no hate going on in the sub. A tiny bit of anger yes (we are in fact human), but no real hate. People start reading what we are about and see it is "Improve yourself" and NOT "Women are the worst and should be destroyed!" as a lot of uninformed people seem to be thinking. When i see people being banned simply for subbing TRP, I giggle because it shows how uninformed …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 05:10 PM
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Found the comment to give her an upvote! Started reading the responses HOLY COW! They started to analogize it to the difference between Premeditated murder and murder by just snapping. Man, and she points out its a good analogy because end result is still A) person is dead and B) they go to jail! So A)Person cheated and B) Break it off immediately. Results still the same. I wish more people were as logical as she.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 04:55 PM
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Hardest would be doing squats safely without a rack. And that is the one exercise that is on both workout A and B.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 06:07 PM
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Ok depends on what you want. If you want to build strength. Look into strong lifts 5x5 even has a great free app. It is a simple routine based around the core lifts. If you want to build muscle purely for looks, look into a PPL (push pull legs) routine. Lastly a good mix of both is Ice Cream fitness routine. I suggest strong lists so you focus on the main lifts! Good luck
/r/askTRP23/04/15 02:20 PM
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Most times i respond with "That is her problem, not mine"
/r/askTRP15/04/15 04:42 PM
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Yes it is only a few jokes however, you called them "TRP related" jokes. None of which are TRP theory related what so ever. It is posts like this that people point to saying "See, these TRP guys are just losers advocating women violence, calling all women bitches,....blah blah blah!" which is the furthest thing from TRP teaching! TRP gets alot of hate from people who dont understand the message behind it. So dont help the people that are looking to tear this great wealth of knowledge down! Good …
/r/TRPOffTopic14/04/15 06:02 PM
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I think you need to read more of the main side bar, because not one single joke is related to what TRP teaches.
/r/TRPOffTopic14/04/15 11:13 AM
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reward his behavior! Positively explain to him that it is good and that a MAN owns his mistakes and learns from them. Be stoic, show him the path, and that outbursts and being super emotional (cursing and yelling) is not what a MAN does. Remember it is your job to show him what a man is. Not what a women THINKS she wants a man to be. You are his rock. Good Luck!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 03:29 PM
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Run if it is a multi-level marketing job. If you aren't sure what that is click the link. Basically if you have to PAY for something in order to "start" making money (example: Buy the example kit in order to sell insert product here )! its a scam! If they talk alot about how much you could make and not what the job actually entails RUN! If the job sounds to good to be true take a step back. Basically, i have never had a job interview anywhere not at the location. That trows up a red flag for me.…
/r/askTRP01/04/15 01:45 AM
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You Don't! Some may and that is OK, but there is no "easy mode". No shortcuts. Sitting back waiting for them to come to you, subconsciously she will most likely think you are insecure. Dont be afraid to talk to women! Lock eyes with her, make sure to smirk or small smile, If she smiles back, go and say hi, introduce yourself. Ask her for her name. if she is with friends talk to all of them. If she or they are unreceptive, Fuck it, tell them it was nice meeting them and to have a good night. Walk…
/r/askTRP25/03/15 04:58 PM
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The only unconditional love i have ever felt was with my daughter! True Love is a unicorn we were told exists and there is one out there for everyone "GO FIND IT!" when truth is they are all just horses. Live your life for yourself, it is OK to be selfish in life. Shit you only get one shot! why not be happy and live for yourself.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 08:01 PM
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TRP is not PUA, with that being said. The way i interpret TRP: be the best version of yourself, then things will come naturally in life and in love. In Mark's book models, gets the idea close (or how i read it) the best PUA "Trick" is for you to be awesome. So have good stories, be likable, and try not to use "methods". If she isnt into YOU, then is she worth your time? No. As for shit tests, think before you speak always. Take a moment before everything you say, your words and time have value. …
/r/askTRP18/03/15 07:55 PM
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but he's easy to provoke He was passionate YES, but i dont think he was EVER really mad at anyone he was speaking to. He would yell, but it was always to make a point. Other than laughter i dont think he ever lost control of himself or his temper. He was a master of frame.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 07:34 PM
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You know it is also completely subjective right? My 5 could be a 6 to you or vice versa. So like the other guy said. It is better to go binary. 0 or 1 would not bang or would bang.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 03:42 PM
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I meet this woman in a mall in working at mistake 1, Dont shit where you eat. so I reply asking if she wants to come over and watch movies, and I'll make an early breakfast That comma should have been a period and you should not have added the second part. TXT = logistics only! Basically she took it as you asked her to come over and sleep with you. Which is why it is now effecting your job! Stop trying to pick up women at work. As for story 1, I feel like you are leaving info out. But since you …
/r/askTRP10/03/15 02:24 AM
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How about we patch things up, you can come over and we can binge watch sex and the city and drink mojitos. [Smirk] OK Good luck out there brother!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/15 02:52 PM
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WOW lol cute. Both of your post show you have much to learn about redpill. Yes there is gaming your wife and then there is being an asshole. Making her late because you are upset at her is NOT RP at all and certainly NOT dark Triad like you think. One of the top books for this sub is No More Mr. Nice Guy, in it Dr.Glover says "the opposite of crazy is still crazy". So being a vindictive asshole is just as bad as being a blue pill pussy. So to be a good red pill husband you have to have a mix of …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/15 01:43 PM
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I would have made her juuuuust a little more mad and made her late for what ever she needed to go to. That is very passive aggressive! Also in no way shape or form would it help the situation. So why do it? Plus like he said he had more important things to do like homework.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 05:16 PM
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The late GREAT Patrice O'Neil once had the best retort for the "All you want is sex from me" he said something along the lines of "Yes, if that is all you have to offer."
/r/askTRP18/02/15 07:43 PM
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And i always think of the time Goku was telling Gohan That rest was just as important as Training. I always think of that moment on my rest days from lifting.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 04:01 AM
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Buy him a copy of Dr.Glovers No More Mr.Nice Guy. In all chances he WONT read it. BUT if he does you will see the light switch turn on. But dont push it. Buy it for him give it to him then drop it. As Morpheus said "I can only show you the door, you're the one who has to walk through it" Clip for Fun
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 03:11 PM
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Nice try KANYE! we know it is you!
/r/askTRP06/02/15 04:05 PM
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Respond with "OK" and that is it. Don't over think it, that is her hamsters job. If she didn't offer a reschedule, just let it ALL slide. Next time you see her continue to flirt but don't go overboard. PS Go out and have fun anyway this weekend, whether it is with your self, your buddies, or another girl. So when she asks how your weekend was you can honestly tell her how great it was.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 02:24 PM
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If its an LTR this can only be answered by you! There is no hard set rule for this, dont over think it!
/r/askTRP04/02/15 09:16 PM
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Wow why the downvotes that is funny! it did actually make me laugh
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 05:35 PM
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The most basic principal to the red pill is: In order to improve your life, Improve your self. Be the best version of your self. Some sub principals are theories on why women and men act the way they do. Alot of the things you have cited are Generalizations of examples usually put on here, to point out the theories. One of the first stages of becoming "unplugged" (like in the matrix "you cant go back") is anger and hatred. So you will see alot of angry posts but look through that and try to unde…
/r/askTRP26/01/15 03:12 PM
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I miss his knowledge and view on EVERYTHING
/r/askTRP23/01/15 02:51 PM
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Simple, Dont worry about things you have no control over. You cant change the past so there is NO reason to dwell on it. Also it was a dream, I had a dream i was eating crayons the other night. Dreams are just head movies LOL they dont mean anything.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 02:47 PM
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I am no Doctor and as a med student you should know, this post reeks of depression. So many things to hit on in this post: 1) If you dont like sex with the girl and you dont want to LTR or plate then why are you having sex with her? 2) You claim this girl is nothing to you, the only reason you would be a friend is she was "relatively interesting". So you dont value her BUT you value her opinion of you. That is very confusing. 3) Dont Drink! If drinking makes you feel shitty and confess to your f…
/r/askTRP21/01/15 09:28 PM
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Is it plausible? Maybe, is it likely NO! However the comment throws up a huge red flag, and here is why: First things first, he is working on his fitness for himself and if she doesn't LOVE him ONLY because of his muscles then that is a HUGE issue! I dont care how you spin it. If my Wife were to dye her hair jet black (not my thing) and say she loves it so much she is never going back, Would it be sane of me to leave her over THAT no! Second most women have no idea what they want. They say how t…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/15 07:53 PM
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Good Luck my friend, just remember: You only get one life, why be unhappy? Stay strong PM me if you need anything
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/15 03:42 PM
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Go into roommate mode - Treat her as you would a MALE roommate. Also look into implementing the 180, Its usually geared towards women who are cheating but it may work in your situation. link to the 180. After reading your post i have a feeling you are coming off as needy. you saying good morning met with a "I'm not ready" is a red flag there. SHE has all the power, and you are letting her. That is where the 180 will help. I know you want to save your marriage and oddly man the only way to do it,…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/15 12:57 PM
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This needs to be higher up!
/r/askTRP19/01/15 09:43 PM
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Dont worry about the "Right Way" there is no real RIGHT WAY to do anything. Keep reading anything you can get your hands on, I personally took the most from the book "No More Mr. Nice guy". Dr. Glover even covers, "Nice Guys" always thinking "If I do everything right, then I will have a smooth, problem-free life." This is generally not true LOL. Good luck and just keep moving forward!
/r/askTRP16/01/15 09:07 PM
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You seem to be worried about your friends saying you are a creep? Well if they do, treat it as a shit test. Agree and amplify, like "You know what you are right!" or even making a comment about how they are right and how like minded people flock together. But make it sound more fun and not butt hurt. Or you could do an amused mastery, just smile and say as little as possible. If they give you alot of grief about this, they arent your friends, dude find a new group. IF you are worried about girls…
/r/askTRP16/01/15 08:41 PM
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Also Know trp =/= pua . TRP is about understanding your role as a male. Then working towards making your self the best possible version of yourself. Getting women while implementing TRP is more of a side effect and not the goal.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 08:28 PM
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Very simple narrative. All beta behaviors have the same underlying cause: they are strategies for avoiding emotional pain. Wow absolutely perfect! I love this insight. Best way to sum up beta behaviors and the reasoning behind them I have seen. Slow Clap
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 08:38 PM
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And should have to register as a sex offender as well. LOL but ah he got what he deserved!
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 06:43 PM
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Remember women and men are different, chances are he wont care.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 06:47 PM
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OK How is your SMV compared to his? Or your relationship in the circle of friends? for what i gather, Since you have made your intentions to be sexual with him well know as you said, this is what i am guessing. He likes fooling around with you But doesn't want to be "with you". Something is stopping him. He may want to just simply fuck you but he doesnt want to be a couple at all, FWB. But maybe he is worried about the social backlash if he does fuck you (IE his boys make fun of him). I will giv…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 05:29 PM
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I enjoyed No More Mr Nice Guy.. I also like Models by Mark Manson
/r/askTRP09/01/15 03:48 AM
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I would say Nice guy is to woman, what slut is to a man. Example: A "nice guy" will do anything at the drop of a hat for a women he is attracted to, Be her emotional tampon, Work on her car, or Help her get HER needs met hoping for validation. While she does little to nothing on her end to validate him back. FLIP SIDE is A "slut" will do anything at the drop of a hat for a man she is attracted to. While he in return puts up little to no effort. I believe Dr. Glover had a whole section on that in…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 08:23 PM
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First, Yes read the whole thing! Start at page 1. He may have some insight on something you think you grasped from this sub. It is not that long of a read! TRP can be harsh at times but it is worth it, stop looking for short cuts! Second, is this the first book from the sidebar you are reading? It is touted as much like the Bible of TRP. Have you read any of the other books?
/r/askTRP07/01/15 06:27 PM
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I dont think pointing it out will help at all. It comes across as butt hurt. The only way to win is to not play! There is no upside to pointing out her sisters flaws, so why do it. She is a female, she prob doesn't even realize that is why she is doing it. So in her head she will hamster it to "See He is an Asshole!". Best way is to ignore the Sister, Smile and be cordial to her. That is it. Look at like a massive shit test, If her sister brings it up IGNORE it, however if your GF brings it up A…
/r/askTRP07/01/15 06:18 PM
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Correct, TRP is NOT PUA
/r/askTRP06/01/15 04:10 PM
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Why? Just smirk in your head man! By picking a fight with her you are dropping down to her level, not bring yourself up. Simply knowing the truth is better than attempting then inevitably failing at trying to show her logical truths. This is basic stuff! The only way to win is to not play!
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:34 PM
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sex has transitioned from semi frequent to almost non-existent quick question, Did you have sex with her in the past month? Also If you did, did you finish in her? Your post did not mention any doubts, sometimes you dont want to think about it and remain blind.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/14 04:57 PM
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"Good Guy" is positive response where as "Nice Guy" is orbiter material. Well Done man.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 08:23 PM
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100% of bits and phoney phone calls are fake on all radio shows. Due to legal issues in the US it is all a bunch of BS. Stop listening to the radio! Listen to audio books or Bands you like.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 04:46 PM
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Nofap only works if you have a problem. Like SS said if you didnt have a chronic problem with masturbation and porn, you wont feel that psychological benefit either. Health masturbation is actually good for most people. Alot of talk on TRP about the superpowers obtained via no-fap, I just dont see the benefits (personally). Its like a diet, some people can have the piece of cake and some people have to never eat cake again. So if you feel it helps you, FINE that is cool. Will it work for a major…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 08:27 PM
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Step 1: Talk to everyone not just girls, Just make conversation to people around you. Try when talking to not have a motive, like makeing friends or get her number. Just be that fun guy chatting it up! The more people you talk to the easier it gets!
/r/askTRP15/12/14 09:39 PM
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I'm married and realised trp really doesn't apply to me but the sticky of this sub does. Um Marriage is TRP on Hard Mode. However maybe "spinning plates" might not apply But basic TRP principles will DEFINITELY apply. When i read up about game or picking up girls in the recommend reading, I like to try it out on my wife. Good luck my friend! Edit: there is the Glossary of terms from the main TRP HERE
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/14 08:37 PM
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Also you can check out /r/nmmng or even the forum from Dr.Glover HERE
/r/askTRP15/12/14 02:41 PM
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I WISH I knew this 20 years ago!
/r/askTRP11/12/14 08:05 PM
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You just summed it up perfectly, and i agree it is a shame.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:00 PM
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Oh dont stop reading RP stuff, just shy away from MMSL. Check out No More Mr.Nice Guy by Dr.Glover. His site is good too. There are tons of things to read, dont stop now!
/r/askTRP11/12/14 07:40 PM
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Wouldn't it be TRPs stance that women change after marriage if you let them? Yes, however due to now they have you "locked down" it is exponentially harder for you to maintain that control. At least that is alot of women. OK so now the sex stops, what are you going to do? Stop paying your bills? Stop telling her you love her? Beg her till that one time she gives up and she lays there like a dead fish, and you feel just as hollow as you did before the sex, cause it meant nothing? If you are in a …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 07:37 PM
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So wouldn't then a married man in a monogamous relationship, that has a woman locked down and is in charge of the relationship, not have this issue? LOL that is assuming he is in charge! Most married men find this Sub AFTER doing what they thought was right and what they were raised to believe, and being completely dis-satisfied with a portion of their life. I was a "Nice Guy" for all of my life, I have a "loving" wife, and a great Child. My wife never wants to be intimate with me, and i couldn'…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 07:06 PM
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the MMSL forum is filled with Women giving shit advice! After i read the primer i went to the forums and after alot of lurking, i was surprised at the amount of bad advice. later It was all confirmed after reading a TRP posts like this
/r/askTRP11/12/14 06:05 PM
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I might need to send Doctor Glover a bill soon BUT, Dude, read No More Mr.Nice Guy! I have read it multiple times and i listen to the audio version almost monthly now! It has helped me soo much! Also a great book to read is Models, they are by far my two best TRP books I have read! Any questions feel free to PM me!
/r/askTRP08/12/14 08:45 PM
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WOW, i cant recommend that book to enough people! The chapter about Mothers and Nice guys i am sure hit home for you too. Dont live for your mother. Stop worrying at length about what SHE will think of your actions. You are an adult, she will not abandon you! Be strong brother!
/r/askTRP08/12/14 07:36 PM
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this right HERE! I was about to say the same thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/14 04:43 PM
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It is ok man! Find what works for you! Good Luck!
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 06:55 PM
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Honestly I prefer to lift alone! The first few times i wanted to go with a buddy, then i felt like he was getting in my way! Now I am so happy when i can just pop in my headphones and bang out my sets! I never lift to failure so I usually dont need a spot. But if i did i just ask a Gym Bro to spot me real quick, most people are very cool about it. I was scared of lifting. But when i started i found that my biggest fears were far from the truth. I was worried people would judge me on the amount i…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 09:28 PM
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Buy him the book No More Mr.Nice Guy, tell him he should read it!
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 09:04 PM
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Oh NICE! It hit so close to home for me! Each page to me was like "is this guy following me? is this like the movie the turman show, and i am secretly the star of this book!" LOL if you need anyone to talk to PM me or you can check out /r/nmmng or even the forum from Dr.Glover HERE
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 05:23 PM
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Most of us were raised to be Blue Pill! Judging by your post i am guessing you either just finished or are currently reading No More Mr.Nice Guy. That book hit VERY close to my heart and I listen to the Audio Book in my car, to and from work, almost once a month. We were taught how to be a man from women, and what they thought they wanted in a man. But as we all come to see women have NO IDEA what they really want or how to be a man. So we were shown the wrong path. But there is hope. Once your …
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 04:28 PM
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Nope! you didnt do anything wrong. You told her you wanted more sex, she doesnt. End of story. No Contact. Dont Say Sorry! Delete her number and move on.
/r/askTRP22/11/14 02:19 AM
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Also Dr.Glover has his own website/forum feel free to check it out here and a lil subreddit too /r/nmmng I have the audio book and am on my 3rd listen through! I listen to and from work. I need to start doing the exercises. The book rung SO true for me!
/r/askTRP19/11/14 07:20 PM
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got pregnant with one of the men she was fucking on the side's children. Did i read that right? So she fucked the Dad and the son?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 08:07 PM
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How to Be a Man Funny movie, Guy sprinkles some good lessons. obviously not all are gems LOL
/r/becomeaman04/11/14 02:24 AM
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If the girl is interested she will find you! Dont get hung up on her. Like they are saying, Use this as a live and learn.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 03:33 PM
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If i am reading it correctly Both times you cave in to her demands. obligatory "please read the side bar" now for me to actually help you out. When bickering with your SO imagine she is a child, how would you act? how would you respond? Example: (I will use your second one) Her:"I saw a free table in the terrace, let's move there." YOU:"No, the waitress said she will tell us when a table becomes free." Her:"I saw a table becoming free while I was going to the bathroom, and told a waiter I am tak…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 05:54 PM
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OK, first things first mate, it is not unheard of for these procedures to fail. But it is super unlikely. High chances are she is bluffing or cheated. I would, assuming you just found out, have her go to a doctor and do a blood pregnancy test, you cant fake that (be in the room with her for results). This (may come off as passive aggressive) would also be a good time to ask the doctor if it is possible for your surgery to have failed. Keep your frame as information gathering. If there is a real …
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 04:11 PM
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OK this has been said here before but i will help you out. 1) Read the side Bar material 2) Dont get oneitus! (oh i really like this girl she is "the ONE") There are TONS of girls out there! Dont waste your time. 3) Dont respond to her text or selfies! Tell her, you arent looking for a friend Then flat out ignore her or move on. You are her male "slut"! A female slut gives the man what he wants for nothing ie Sex! A male slut gives the female validation and attention for nothing. DONT BE A SLUT!…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:17 PM
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Nova is so inconsistent lol dont get me started! I will be watching!
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 05:37 PM
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Good luck against Michigan this weekend!
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 04:54 PM
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Ummmm 2 things. 1) Daily show is a comedy based show with news sprinkled on top. 2) I felt the segment was making fun of the women complaining about catcalls! They showed WAY more clips of news people saying cat calls are not a big issue. Even the post wall lady admitted to being upset she DID NOT get cat calls! So NEVER take any daily show clip at face value!
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 04:45 PM
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I am having a hard time as well, getting my wife outside of her shell. (I have seen small glimpses of it but I have known her for 15 years and can only count on one hand the number of times i have seen it) However I now know (from the No More Mr.Nice Guy book) When i was dating her/ married her I was thinking i could FIX her. I am seeing maybe i cant. I am also starting to turn my thought process to, well that is now her problem not mine. Am I thinking the right way? Marriage is definitely hard …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/14 01:51 PM
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Almost all "feature" movies have HUGE beta undertones. I thought the movie How To Be A Man is the closest we will get. Funny movie too! Edit:answer 2nd question: YES i was raised beta and to believe in the Disney fantasy, be nice and she will like you back. Put her on the pedestal, make her #1 and she will eventually see you as the good man and come down and lift you up! Man what a waste of my good younger years LOL
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:58 PM
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