Two words that always hear before I get dumped

FrameWalker · 2014-12-08T19:03:23+00:00

You have to take this with a grain of salt Girls will backwards rationalize so if there is enough attraction and she puts out on the first date she might say I slept with you because you were nice to complete the hamster loop. A girl might say this if shes used to asshole game and she encounters a more mature amused mastery older man dynamic.

However as a general rule you're a great guy/nice guy is a reminder to you the you are offering emotional validation and attention for too low of a price, ie male sluttiness.

tombreck2 · 2014-12-09T03:21:57+00:00

I get called selfish, jerk, douche and even asshole right after sex and I don't care.

If a girl calls you a good guy or nice it means that you are coming off as beta.

ilikesquash2 · 2014-12-08T20:45:46+00:00

I might need to send Doctor Glover a bill soon BUT, Dude, read No More Mr.Nice Guy! I have read it multiple times and i listen to the audio version almost monthly now! It has helped me soo much! Also a great book to read is Models, they are by far my two best TRP books I have read! Any questions feel free to PM me!

Cyralea · 2014-12-08T20:09:29+00:00

You have beta qualities that are turning off the majority of women. You can next a chick that tells you you're a nice guy, but perhaps you should read between the lines of what they're saying.

Learn to be less available, take care of yourself more. Women aren't attracted to nice guys.

wakethfkupneo · 2014-12-08T22:39:25+00:00

Standard. Everyone here can remember getting that line: "you're a nice guy but ...". We've all been there. It's funny that people tend to see that as some sort of excuse or them trying to soothe you or something, while in fact they are literally telling you why they don't like you: "you're a nice guy". It's even amazing that it takes so much reading of TRP posts/sidebar/manosphere blogs/books, to fully comprehend that simple message hiding in plain sight.

PizzaTaster · 2014-12-08T23:08:58+00:00

Well are you being a Nice Guy™? The problem is usually you're being too nice, as in, not actually being yourself. Nice to the point that it is off putting because you are not acting like you, you are acting "nice" because you believe (consciously or unconsciously) that acting that way will get you what you want.

If you are hearing this often, please read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" you can find a pdf online of it pretty easily on google, but buy it if you can to support the author.

Title	Two words that always hear before I get dumped
Author	eazy_bgko
Upvotes	3
Comments	14
Date	December 8, 2014 6:50 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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