I'm 25 years old. I'm a man of few words so I will try to keep this short looking for outside opinions. Dating this girl for a year and wondering if it's worth proceeding forward. I think yes, not marriage by any means but my time is precious to me and I need a fresh pair of eyes.

Pros:

  1. Cute, has a real job, is smart, low shit tests and can take of herself.

  2. We still fuck like Jack Rabbits and she is into all my bondage kinks (Never tried it before me but was reading 50 shades of grey before we dated and it peaked her interest). Also occasionally surprises me with outfits.

  3. Spends money on me. Actually dropped $300 on me for Christmas and thanks me multiple times when I do pay for things.

  4. Isn't needy of my time and is fine with my frequent travel schedule for work.

  5. Doesn't throw tantrums during arguments and is willing to admit fault when in the wrong.

  6. Has never disrespected me and has yet to try to cross any boundaries I have set.

  7. When she drinks she doesn't lose control and always texts me after leaving the bars with friends to come over to fuck.

  8. Her parents are still married after 35 years.

  9. Doesn't hang out with slutty friends.

Cons:

  1. Has had ten partners including me. She's 28 btw. One was a one night stand and another a fwb (She claims she just wanted sex at the time but no relationship) take it as you will. Though she doesn't maintain contact with any ex or the previous fwb.

I know the mantra is if she gave it up for free why bother. I don't have oneitis by any means and I'm not dumb enough to know I'm not being impartial. So what's the take on this? Do the pros out weigh these previous instances? The realist in me says yes but I don't know if that's just a BP side of me talking.

Yes I know fuck as many chicks as you can and I will walk if the sex ever dries up but there is something to be said about hanging out with a girl who loves to fuck, has a brain and is willing to go out of their way for you compared to the bimbos at the club's I've fucked which often make me consider slitting my wrists when they speak.