Girls think I'm just going to fuck once and never call back

[deleted] · 2015-02-04T22:22:00+00:00

Girls think I'm just going to fuck once and never call back

That's a shit test that you are failing. You think if George Clooney rolled up to a girl and said "this is a one time thing" that she would care?

Her: You're just going to hookup and then never talk to me again

Me: That offends me a a human being. I have a strict rule of no kissing until the 21st date.

red-tinted · 2015-02-04T22:52:53+00:00

I think your first port of call should be to read (or hopefully re-read) this post on the Rational Male: http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/

If this has only happened a handful of times then you next the girl and move on. She's not worth the effort. Why? Because you're the prize and there are a dozen other girls like her.

However, if this is recurring a lot then you need to analyse what you're doing. You might be coming off as desperate or you might be failing a shit test. Or both.

oldredder · 2015-02-05T04:31:27+00:00

Women treat all men, with rare exception, like this:

a) you just want to fuck, I will make you wait to challenge you to show you're really beta by actually waiting

b) you just want to be a pussy beggar, I will challenge you by giving slut vibes to see if you fail to act on them (b, 1) or I will (low SMV for male, option b 2) dismiss you utterly

ddrj · 2015-02-04T22:18:27+00:00

Throw in more comfort. Find commonalities and blow it up, share vulnerabilities, tell her why she's different from other girls. Just don't do too much of it or she'll think she is really too special and will try to go the dating to relationship route.

[deleted] · 2015-02-04T22:19:23+00:00

How do you know that is what they're thinking?

I would say just keep approaching. If a few girls reject you who cares? It's college and your first year. New girls come in all the time.

TheReason13 · 2015-02-04T23:36:32+00:00

Would you say that what they suspect of your intentions is an accurate observation on their part? If so then you're doing something right. Its better women think this of you than to think you're a doormat or an orbiter.

Remember, if they don't put out then neither do you. Escalate, make sure they are aware of your intentions, that you're a man with functional reproductive organs. Take what you want, don't tip toe around it, don't ask for it. If they try to make you wait then drop them, withdraw attention and move on to the next fish in the ocean.

And don't overthink it

Title	Girls think I'm just going to fuck once and never call back
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Upvotes	2
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Date	February 4, 2015 9:35 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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