I dont know if my post (this is my first) is suitable in quality for the sub, I am still going to post it since i need your opinion.

I am a Brown Redpiller (since about an year), I apply my RP knowledge to the best for my benefit. I work in a software company in NJ.

Everybody working in the office meetup during afternoon lunch and either indulge in mutual ego massaging or bitching about some collegue who is not present there. Whenever i dont have other works i sit with them.

About a month ago white knights and almost-walled HR women were discussing about Feminism, Men's marital rights etc. Though i rarely speak in the group i think Jezebel's ghosts entered my soul that day. I gave a almost 15 minute monolougue about how the world needs Feminism, Mens' Rights activists are misogynists, the plight of women in India is gruesome, blah blah blah. (I felt that my opinion should be in the same direction of group's average opinion. Though i was feeling like shit inside.)

A day after that a self-proclaimed feminist collegue (who was in the group) asked me if i want to hang out with her for the weekend (Trust me, there is a scarcity of pussy in software business). I pretended that i am busy for the weekend but agreed in a tone that I am doing her a favor.

I am of average height and slightly jacked (thanks to TRP). She is an 8 IMO (Wayyyyyyyyyy out of my league), and a HARDCORE feminist (Bob hairstyle + hula hoop as earings). I was Aloof and Assholic whenever i interacted with her after that. She asked me for help regarding the project a million times. Each time i either pretended to think for a moment and then tell i dont know or pretended to be busy whenever she came looking for me.

I strongly felt that she would chicken out just before the weekend. She didnt.

We went for a dinner saturday night. She kept on playing with her purse for some time and then with her card, suggesting that i pay. I didnt even try to pay the check. I just was giving her stares and opinionating who should succeed Obama. She payed for the dinner herself (I didnt ask!). We went to her apartment after that. She asked me if i could help her tidy up the living room a bit. I said Women know the best, to which she gave me a pissed off stare.

This was the first time i was in her apartment. As she was tidying the living room i went to refrigerator to get some drinks. I complained there arent any. She apologized! and told me she would keep some by the next time.

She told that she is no more interested in cleaning the room and stood with hands on her hips. As i walked back a gave a peck on her lips asking her to rest for some time. I was expecting a slap. (she didnt slap \o/, she just stood there). As i was about bid her bye I told her that i had good time . She told we could go for a dinner again, I replied "lets see".

Right now i am sexting her /No Sex so far :( /

How should i escalate?, Is what I did wrong?

// I pray that she is not on reddit, even if she is LHFH.

EDIT: 1)Was it immoral of me to pretend to be a feminist when i am not? 2) Should i try to plate her?