Might of got a girl pregnant, I'm scared.

finitely_eclectic · 2014-12-04T12:00:19+00:00

Might HAVE! not might of! And you didn't use a condom. congrats, you're stupid twice over. Always, ALWAYS wrap your shit up. Not just to contain your little runners, but to help stop the spread of disease.

That said: don't stress out about it until you have her take a pregnancy test in front of you. If she doesn't want to piss on a stick in front of you, just tell her she wasn't embarrassed about you seeing her naked before, grow the fuck up and handle the problem like an adult. (because if she IS pregnant, you're both going to have to grow up Really.Fucking.Quick.)

RunawayGrain · 2014-12-04T12:20:31+00:00

Don't sign anything until you get a DNA test. Even if you turn out not to be the dad, and sign off on the birth certificate, she can come after you for child support.

A DNA test is cheap, and can be done while the child is still in the womb. Get it done.

[deleted] · 2014-12-04T11:14:53+00:00

Did you use a condom?

ProjectShamrock · 2014-12-04T14:58:44+00:00

I always say to hope for the best and plan for the worst. So let's talk about the worst things that could happen:

If she's pregnant, would she get an abortion? If this was a few months ago, it may be too late. Also, morning sickness usually happens very early in the pregnancy. If she's just now having it and slept with you months ago, it's probably not your kid. Don't take this badly, but if she's willing to go bareback with you she's likely riding the CC around town.

So let's say she's pregnant, it is yours, and she won't/can't abort. Then you need to man up. That doesn't mean have her move in with you, marry her, or whatever. What it means is that you are responsible for that child who is your own flesh and blood. You can reassure her, but at your age don't think you're doing the right thing by getting married and ruining your life. Instead, take responsibility for the future of the child as much as possible but feel no obligation to be involved with her outside of the child.

If it helps, I'm a father of three, and while I waited until being older to have kids and I already established my career and everything, being a parent isn't a death sentence. I like it at my phase of life, but it would have been difficult at your age. My brother, however, did get a girl pregnant at your age, and he's been able to adjust and is happy with his life even though it's been harder than it would have been if he wasn't a parent.

Title	Might of got a girl pregnant, I'm scared.
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Date	December 4, 2014 11:06 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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