She calls me bestie. How do I gain control of the situation?

alpha_n3rd · 2014-11-29T04:32:36+00:00

Initiate sex. If she refuses, cut contact until she re-initiates contact. Then initiate sex again. If this doesn't work after a couple tries, forget her, move on.

nwilli100 · 2014-11-29T06:53:24+00:00

Leave. Fuck other girls. Then either make another pass or don't. It's up to you.

DO NOT keep trying to be her friend and hope it goes somewhere sexual, it won't.

[deleted] · 2014-11-29T04:25:50+00:00

In her eyes, you're a beta orbiter. And, to answer your question, the reason why she's being flirty is because she knows by using her sexuality, you'll stick around and continue to do things for her. That's how women operate. AWALT = all women are like that. The most valuable resource you have as a man is your time and resources. The most valuable resource women have is what is between their legs. Lastly, once you're a beta orbiter, (or some call it the "friend-zone") it's very difficult to get out of it. The typical RP answer for this is to go complete radio silence. DO NOT.. I REPEAT.. DO NOT.. tell her why you're cutting her out of your life. Just do it. Read up on the side bar so you're never stuck in the orbit again.

If you're inclined to put in more work than you should: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/06/14/how-do-i-get-out-of-the-friend-zone/

Kiwikeeper · 2014-11-29T16:23:46+00:00

Leave her. Totally. She now sees you as an orbiter, and there is no coming back just now. Fuck other girls, mind your own business and don't give a fuck about her. Maybe, just maybe she will want to fuck you then. Maybe

ImRasputin · 2014-11-29T16:51:52+00:00

Radio silence & monk mode.

SuperDuperShibe · 2014-11-29T05:58:17+00:00

If I were you, I'd tell her not to call me that.

"Why?" she asks--no need to give her reason.

Title	She calls me bestie. How do I gain control of the situation?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	November 29, 2014 4:01 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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