We had plans for her to stay at mine on Thursday night and hang out Friday for the day. She just flaked out with a bunch of excuses about appointments, needs to get phone fixed etc. I suspect that a dude who she was seeing for 2 months and ignored her for a week has started talking to her again although I could be over thinking things and be completely wrong. How do I respond to her flakey text message without coming across as a desperate beta? Is there anyway to straight up ask her if she is BSing me without sounding like a cunt or should I just be like "okay that's fine, I'm starting a new job now anyway so I'll be busy too" which is actually true.