How do you handle girls acting 'regretful' the days after hooking up?

Meglomaniac · 2014-06-23T09:57:55+00:00

She feels shame for fucking you so early and without a relationship.

Make it clear you dont judge her, wont share her dirty details, and tell her to come chill.

[deleted] · 2014-06-23T19:34:39+00:00

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[deleted] · 2014-06-23T20:06:42+00:00

Not overtly dangerous, but still a little scary. Get her out and about. Make sure that people see you together just in case she tries slinging some bullshit false rape charge.

DO NOT ignore this situation as some people here have said. That is terrible advice and anyone who is giving it should be ashamed. If you ignore it, she may have the ability to hamster her way into thinking you took advantage of her. Likely won't happen. But still, make sure you are seen in public with her. Victims don't willingly spend time with their rapists.

Then go out and get a camera in your place(make sure you have consulted state laws) , so you don't have to deal with this kind of apprehension again.

printzonic · 2014-06-23T13:58:16+00:00

I turn myself in and try to mentally prepare myself to declare my guilt in front of the judge. Hope he trows the book at me like the filthy rapist i am.

joking aside. she is properly looking for affirmation, so showing that you where very happy with the way things turned out and that you look forward to play with her again should snap her out of it. You need to offer her a away out of the "I just had a one nightstand and therefore I was slutty" mindset.

aguy01 · 2014-06-23T18:16:27+00:00

She feels guilty because she made all the moves. Either she realized you're a pussy or she feels like a slut.

[deleted] · 2014-06-23T18:53:39+00:00

Don't give her a reason to feel guilty. Make her always think this is a thing you do and its normal.

One girl was trying to slut shame herself, and I was just like, hey, I'm a bigger slut then you are, so no worries (even though there's no such thing as a male slut).

caxica · 2014-06-23T19:39:21+00:00

Start acting all clingy until she gets sick of you

Cryocasm · 2014-06-23T23:11:29+00:00

I'd cuddle up to her, and tell her that "we're going for a walk around the city tomorrow".

She is quite likely to accept given she wants to bring the slut meter down, don't forget to call one of your boys up to have an eye witness account in case you do get any form of assault charge thrown at you. Make sure she is nice and happy and enjoying herself in company of your third wheel. Don't let her ruin your life, you're a man.

If she turns down, throw her out the house. I don't accommodate sluts.

drqxx · 2014-06-23T12:30:53+00:00

Totally ignore and make sure you dont have one itis. You're the man so act like the man.

captainbloodd · 2014-06-23T14:26:25+00:00

Stupid chick bullshit. She feels guilty for some reason. You could try agree and amplify to make her realize how dumb she's acting, or you could ignore.

Title	How do you handle girls acting 'regretful' the days after hooking up?
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Date	June 23, 2014 9:37 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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Totally ignore and make sure you dont have one itis. You're the man so act like the man.