I. Am. Stuck.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2014-06-03T04:56:25+00:00

We fight about everything and i mean everything.

This is how Ray Liotta deals with a bitchy woman.

If she raises her voice, start laughing then leave the room and ignore her. Leave the house if necessary. Then her hamster will do all the work of arguing with herself for you. Never explain yourself.

Watch her behavior change 180 degrees. You might need to do this twice but I doubt you'll have to do it a third time.

Refuse to raise your voice from now on.

But I want to see my daughter.

lawyer up immediately and write a custody and child support agreement. But first, just stop arguing with her.

ablank1313 · 2014-06-03T03:16:49+00:00

Hire the best divorce lawyer you can afford and gear up for a battle.

theozoph · 2014-06-03T10:10:11+00:00

A woman who fights with you all the time is either a psychopath, or she can't stand your beta ways any longer. Let's assume the latter, since it's most common and the easiest to manage.

First thing you do is stop arguing. Hold frame, be stoic. When she pushes your buttons, don't fall for it. Walk away if you feel the control slipping, but mostly stop paying attention to her criticism. Learn to identify her shit tests, and agree & amplify, switch or ignore.

A&A : Where you looking at her? — Girl, I look at every girl to check if I know them from my crazy days. One never knows when I'll need to start running.

Switch : I know I asked you to take out the garbage, why didn't you? — Why didn't you take out the garbage if you knew it needed to be done? You're not paying me to be your garbage man, are you?

Ignore : Why can't you be more like your brother? — I feel like taco. Do you want tacos? No? More for me then. (you leave)

Start treating her like your bratty little sister, not a mother you want to impress. Punish bad behavior by ignoring her, reward good behavior with affection.

Mostly, read everything on the sidebar or /r/TheRedPill, and then go to Married Man Sex Life (google it) to push into LTR management material. Everything you need is there to start improving your life.

whatever6 · 2014-06-03T11:38:52+00:00

Does she work?

[deleted] · 2014-06-03T09:34:05+00:00

There isn't a single woman that cannot be brought down to her knees. Release your anger and keep control.

Start disciplining her for her disobedience through the firm of taking away things like financial freedom and cell phones and such. Make her earn those privileges.

In all honesty if you did just that I doubt you would get much further.. even though it's what I think would be the best thing to do... you still seem to lack an actual spine to carry things like that out with confidence. I mean if you get angry daily... then you might wanna work on that.

Title	I. Am. Stuck.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	8
Comments	10
Date	June 3, 2014 3:00 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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