Hi guys,

Here's a tricky question I guess :-)

So, I have ED (erectile distinction). Which means that I have troubles getting it/keeping it up. I had sex plenty of times, but it was only 30% of the attempts. I've done medical tests, everything is fine. I've done a therapy, which helped. I've tried Viagra, which helped too. But at some point it wouldn't work at all. I really think it's due to porn (many guys have this apparently). So I started /r/NoFap.

The thing is, while you're on NoFap, you may experience "Flatlines". Which means you have zero libido. No fucking erection, you look at a naked girl in your bed like you would look at you dog.

Before NoFap, it was also often like that. It seems I have no interest in having sex with a girl. I like the emotional connection, the cuddling, but most of the time, sex is not something that I really want. I'm also pretty sure I'm not gay (never tried, but never felt attracted by a guy either).

Well, I hope NoFap fixes this, but now I'm interested in how it's possible to deal with this.

It's funny, I wonder if any of you guys attempted to deny sex to a girl. First they're shocked. They find it impressive. Like you have self control. Then they take it on themselves, they think they're not attractive enough. After that they start being frustrated, and complaining. And if you wait long enough, they turn you down, and start acting like the best example of TRP illustration.

So... Not sure if there's an answer to this (except "fix your ED, which I'm working on), maybe you guys have any idea?