How to not text back

mrdudemanguysir · 2014-05-04T06:18:02+00:00

Casual conversations

I'm still scared to not text back

I want this girl

I struggle at the thought of being rude

You're still too damn beta to land this plane. You shouldn't want her. She should want you. You are alpha. You have power. You are the prize. Well, you will be if you actually quit being a beta.

Accept, lift, read, run, learn, think, grow, change.

Fucking transcend.

You won't make it with a woman until you become a man.

itsmsbetty · 2014-05-04T06:21:12+00:00

You don't want her. She uses you for validation. "Oh, i'm bored, ill text beta, he's going to be so happy to talk to me!"

How do you not text back? DON'T. You will NEVER woe her, seduce her, make her want you with your clever 20 minute thought out texts. Completely ignore her.

This will result in two things, she'll either never contact you again (bullet dodged/you went too beta/she isn't attracted to you), or she will try contacting you again, maybe a week, maybe a couple months from now. She'll say some shit "how come you've been ignoring me!" you'll tell her you've been busy. DO NOT try and supplement and say "ooh i've been busy but I want to see you lets hang out!!" nope. From now on she has to ask YOU to hang out, and if she doesn't, it's not worth it.

I was in a 'relationship' like yours for a while. EXACTLY like yours, she'd text me at night, we'd talk for a bit, and then the conversation would end. I eventually got over that shit.

I did exactly what I outlined above, two weeks later she finally starts getting butthurt. She sends me NUDES (she has a boyfriend...) "Happy thanksgiving!" is her text message. I ignore it (that was hard to do). She texts me the next day "I can't believe you ignored my pic :(" I tell her i've been really busy with my family/work, but I tell her i'll look forward to the next holiday. Christmas comes around "Merry Christmas" with a cute santas helper outfit on (still has a boyfriend lol). "Cute, show me the other side of the outfit."

Couple weeks pass, and my birthday is coming up in a week or two.

"Heeey!! Your birthday is coming up!"

"Yep"

"that's the biggest holiday!! ;)"

I don't text her back. I wait a couple days then text her "doing X and X on my bday, come over..."

F-Close

(still has a boyfriend)

liftedhabits · 2014-05-05T05:01:52+00:00

I sympathize deeply with you, as I was in your position few years back. For starters, you can't say you're a beta if you're reading up on this and learning the ways. You're already better off then 70% of the beta population. So for that give yourself credit and accept that as everyday goes by, you're more and more alpha.

Next, delete your old mindset. Pretend that the beta you is dead. And now you are a new person. New habits. New style. New way of speaking. New you.

Now a short lesson in attraction. When a positive magnet is held close to a negative magnet, they attract. Now, if we were to pull away the negative, the positive will follow it. Meaning the positive is attracted to the negative. Apply this to our situation; if this girl is attracted to you, then if you pull away, if she is genuinely attracted to you, she will follow.

By making yourself too available to girls (by replying fast, being free for them whenever, forgiving them for dumb shit) they will overlook you and instead use you as a beta orbiter. (Beta orbiter: a male who is so desperate for female attention that he will consistently pursue females relentlessly regardless of all the signs of disinterest the female shows.)

Ex; every girl has at least 2 or 3 guys she knows want her. She may not be interested in them at all, but as long as she has someone to make her feel wanted she will be content. Don't believe me? Look at social media. Used for nothing but external validation. If a girl takes a cute pic with her brother, it's only special to her if she can post it and get likes. Less likes = less quality of the picture, or so they think. Girls with beta orbiters develop a conceited personality where they feel entitled to the world. This is why hotter girls (who receive a plethora of messages and comments from beta orbiters saying "wow you're beautiful" or "perfect" etc) are such cunts.

By showing beta characteristics, you will lose any chance you had with this girl before you even take a jab. By coming off as beta, she will classify you as beta. And what do girls do to betas? Keep them in their orbit only for attention.

So first things first, don't be readily available to any girl. Meaning that if you want her to use you as a toy, then keep replying fast. If you want her to be putty in your hand desperate for your attention, then don't text her back. Make her wonder, "jeez. I haven't talked to him in days. Did he find someone else? Did I do something?" Their hamster brains will do everything for you.

Now I also suggest you find multiple girls to talk to at once. Think of it as spinning plates on sticks. If you focus all your time and energy onto spinning just one plate, once it falls and breaks you're left with nothing. If you soon 5 plates at once, and one breaks. Who cares? You have four more.

To a girl, a man with options, is a man she can't fuck up with. Because she knows she is temporary to you. She can be replaced within seconds. And once you know you have options, you will start to give off this vibe that you just don't give a fuck. And bitches love that.

never chase. Just replace

So in order for you to go about this without being too mean, just start slow. Don't reply for a few hours. Good rule of thumb; take her reply time, then double it. Next, don't text questions. Only statements. Don't say "wanna come over later today?"

Instead

"Open house come over" ( just an example). Another good tip, text aloof. Don't use perfect punctuation. Make it seem like you don't have time for her. If this upsets her and she stops talking to you altogether, then congrats. You just filtered out your first attention whore. If she wants you, then she will come. I promise ;)

On a closing note, the less attention you give a girl the more she will crave it. She will feed off it. It will be like a drug for her. In the end, women dream about the nice guy. Marry the rich guy. And fuck the bad guy. The douche. The asshole. The alpha. Best of luck.

G4RRETT · 2014-05-04T07:19:09+00:00

People in this sub always say to text only in order to schedule meet-ups with the girl. You should do just that. Stop having text conversations with her. Just tell her you'll be over at x place at y time and she should come join.

Title	How to not text back
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Date	May 4, 2014 4:54 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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