No such thing as 'out of your league.' Thoughts?

Theophagist · 2013-12-02T21:08:23+00:00

There's always that one guy who's not that good looking and even a little stout bringing nuclear-grade hotties to the party.

-Anteros- · 2013-12-03T01:20:23+00:00

There is one sex that is concerned with doing the best that their genetic fitness allows, with the advent of modern technology and genetic fitness concealers they have succeeded in hitting out of their league for a number of generations now.

There is another sex that starts at the bottom and can improve their functional value with every breath they take. While their genetic fitness comes into play, it does not come close to determining their total value as social standing, emotional impact, and perceived status can fluctuate wildly. This sex is almost single minded in evaluating the other sex based on genetic fitness and not much else.

Assigning the sexes is an exercise left to the reader.

McMurphyCrazy · 2013-12-03T14:11:57+00:00

Strange. Last night I was at the super market picking up some groceries after a killer workout at BJJ when I saw this really hot girl that I wanted to talk to but I just shut myself down thinking "yeah, she's way out of my league..." but after I got back out to my car I realized I was just making up excuses not to talk to her. That it was easier to tell myself that she was too good looking for me than to give it a shot and be outcome independent.

Meglomaniac · 2013-12-03T04:19:51+00:00

Ive always subscribed to the idea, that if a woman is a rating of 9/10, you owe it to yourself to go and at least try.

if she is THAT hot to you, where you are like holy shit wow... you really should be making a move.

If shes a cunt, if shes a whore, if she ends up being dumb as a post, that is what spinning plates and playing the field is for. Eliminating the poor matches and finding a good one.

Being a 9/10 is a good start, and as my uncle used to say "dont let yourself say no. Let her do it"

peopleofthepine · 2013-12-03T14:30:07+00:00

That's the funny thing about men and women. To a man a woman who is hot is always hot. Sure it will change a little depending on whether she just woke up or is dressed for success, but not too much. To a woman whether or not you are hot depends on a laundry list of conditions that are in constant flux.

When I see a hot woman I like to think that, right now, I'm exactly what she's looking for.

jmikolash · 2013-12-04T19:28:02+00:00

It is generally socially unacceptable and rude to not acknowledge someone when they speak to you. Women are extremely socially based in their functioning, and understand this rule. It's safe to conclude that if you approach them in a way where it would be rude for them not to respond to you, that they will give you a chance.

Once you have opened, the rest is game.

notapussy-punk · 2013-12-04T21:25:34+00:00

Not sure if this was Dr. Seuss, Einstein, or some business guy.

Whether you think you can, or you think you can't, you're probably right.

[deleted] · 2013-12-02T21:44:11+00:00

It's a good mindset to have but you have to consider your frame and build situation to shorten the distance between in reach and out of reach.

captshady · 2013-12-02T22:10:07+00:00

There's no such thing as out of your league, but that doesn't mean you can land them all. I'm in an LTR now, but 5 years ago, I was just under 400 lbs (lost another 65 since then), and 40. I was banging early 30's that were smoking hot in my book. Solid 9's and 10's. I've always used the "cocky and funny" approach, since that was in my wheel house.

Title	No such thing as 'out of your league.' Thoughts?
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Date	December 2, 2013 8:05 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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