I'm not sure if this is really where this type of post belongs, but I value the opinions of this group. With that said.

About three weeks ago I had unprotected sex with a girl. I didn't finish, but obviously there was precum. Didn't hear from the girl until today. She randomly asks me when we had sex. Red flag goes off and I ask her if she thinks she's pregnant. She then says "maybe". She's about a week late with her period. I know she's sexually active with others, but she's insisting that they used condoms and I'm the only one that didn't.

She says she's completely willing to get an abortion if she is in fact pregnant, but I'm not sensing any urgency on her part to find out whether she is or isn't pregnant. She's claiming she's busy until midweek and won't have any time to stop at a store to pick up a test which is complete bs.

If you were in my shoes, how would you proceed to move things along? Anyone ever gone through this sort of thing? Any advice or stories would be helpful.

Also, with this scare, it's helped me make my decision about going through with a vasectomy as I never want children. If anyone has had one, I'd also like to hear how that's been and if you've had any pain after the procedure.