After a shitty weekend that included my wife threatening to change the locks on our house, I spent yesterday thinking about whether I wanted to continue the marriage. I ignored my wife's texts and emails all day, including the last two -- one that begged me to respond just so she wouldn't worry about me and one that accused me of being just as passive-aggressive as she is.

So this morning, we had a brief conversation. I told her that I loved her and I wanted the marriage to work, and that to do that, I was going to change myself in some ways. Didn't really get very specific but I told her that I was going to be much more involved in every facet of our family.

(Up till now, I've pretty much let her call the shots on our house and how it's organized, decorated, etc., and haven't been very restrictive with finances.)

I made a point to tell her I was not asking her to change or criticizing her in any way.

This led to her throwing her arms around me and trying to fuck me before I went to work. I told her to keep her pussy wet and that I would cum in her mouth tonight, and she said, "can't wait!"

I know I violated acta non verba but I really try to avoid being passive-aggressive, and I didn't want to just, for example, move all of the money out of our joint account without giving her some sort of heads-up that things are about to change.

I know this will get worse before it gets better and I fully expect her to throw a fit when I take command of our finances, nutrition, and organization of the house. But I'm ready.

If she cannot get on board with this process, I'm prepared to walk away. But I'm hopeful it won't come to that.

Thanks.