I initiated sex way too late at night and got a NO for the first time in a long time. I respected the no and went to sleep, kept frame, and didn't whine. There was some flirting and drinking earlier, but I let the conversation go too late and we were both tired when I tried initiating.

Now I would like to initiate tonight, but I'm not sure what the best way to escalate after getting a no the previous night. Any thoughts?