No, it wasn't.

We've been seeing this on daily posts. It's a lie. We have told ourselves that the missing sex was the only thing wrong in our marriage. It's not true for me, and I seriously doubt it's true for you.

For one thing, we weren't good for our marriage. We change. Our wives weren't good for our marriage. She can change. With all this change we effect by our new focus, we see one thing clearly: Our marriage was not good, and the lack of sex was only one of the most glaring and frustrating indication. But it wasn't the root cause.

We were, and therefore, we are the solution.

EDIT: formatting and clarification.