We are Men.

Most of us here are what we call ‘Family Alphas’ men who have successfully implemented what is now called The Red Pill into our marriage. We lead, set the example, assume responsibility, maintain standards, and find comfort in the discomfort of being a masculine Man in a feminine society.

We have several resources in the ‘Manosphere’ - to include books, blogs, and this wonderful forum on Reddit.

But we need to be weary that we are more focused on acceptance and advancement in The Red Pill/Married Red Pill forums than we are in our actual lives.

There have been a few posts recently concerning exactly this. On both sites I have seen ‘men’ asking what they should do, if they acted correctly, what the ‘end goal’ is, and whether or not they were ‘Alpha’.

The issue is that almost all of these are completely unique to their situation.

There are a few universal truths such as

• AWALT

• Importance of Dread, Abundance Mentality, & Body Language

• Lifting and Confidence

• Removal of Covert contracts

• Accepting that a Woman will never love you the way you love her

• Men are the more romantic of the sexes

• Lastly, Our women are not our Entire journey

Understanding and discussing these things is essential for growth and understanding your woman better. Knowledge truly is power; this has been demonstrated time and again with all of the posts of guys who have been able to implement amused mastery where they used to get angry.

I laugh at my wife, just picturing that hamster spin, and spin, and spin…

What we need to avoid is relying on MRP to do it for us. This is a forum to share experience, learn, and most importantly know that we are not alone. There are other Masculine men in this world who are refusing to conform to the feminine standard, knowing that is a huge breathe of fresh air.

The problem is that we have men who are having MRP do it for them; they are not facing the challenge and coming up with solutions themselves.

I advise each and every new member here to please, read Read READ. The books and blogs have covered what you’re asking. Do not ask for justification of an action. You are a Man; you don’t need permission or specific directions from a forum online.

We are growing and that means that the standard of Married men is rising, this is perfect and exactly what is needed to get masculine men off the endangered list. We do not want to dilute our important message with the issue of quantity vs quality.

Do not post everything you think of or have done or shit test you have faced. Use your words like currency; spend when necessary.