How do you deal with aproaching groups?

mordanus · 2014-09-01T03:26:01+00:00

Just keep staring at them all until the panic sets in and they scatter. Then you can pick off the weaker ones without incurring the wrath of the herd.

Subcommandante_Khan · 2014-08-31T22:46:44+00:00

If you have a phobia, why do you have it, and how do you make it go away?

(hint: previous experiences for the former, and exposure therapy for the latter)

CloakedOrchid · 2014-09-01T04:02:50+00:00

Depends on what your goal is. I'm in a small college, so my goal is usually to make a great impression to take advantage when I inevitably see the girl again.

With that in mind, I act just as I would if she were alone, except I enjoy the added benefits of her friends being around her. Being direct and friendly is surprisingly rare, and is usually met with favorable responses if you're at least okay looking.

So I just pop in with an "Excuse me," say something nice and insightful, exchange names, and leave on the point of something like telling the group to enjoy the rest of their lunch or whatever. Then I walk away to the sounds of crazed chatter as the whole group of girls loses their fucking minds over what just happened. "Oh my god I can't believe he just said that!" "I wish more guys would do stuff like that!" etc.

The friends just amplify whatever good feeling the girl was going to experience, and only help in the end. Even if the "target" seems shy in the moment, almost no girl doesn't enjoy being complimented, and doubly so if her friends are right there to witness it. Not only do you have something nice to say about her, but you have something nice to say about her that obviously outweighs everything nice you could say about her friends. All the girls know that you saw all of them, but liked her the most.

And the next time you see her? "Hey, you're [name]! How have you been?" and you're fucking in.

Obviously this only works when you can depend on seeing them again within a short period of time.

karmacrunch · 2014-09-01T00:02:20+00:00

Its really fun, you just go up and don't say anything just smile and be generally a nice happy person, the worst thing that can happen is that you run into a defensive guy who thinks you are trying to amog, best thing to do when he tries to amog is to hold frame, honestly though you should also just give people some peace.

SgtTRP · 2014-09-01T04:27:23+00:00

my personality shines after some time people meet me.

You are not a special snowflake. You are just awkward.

Title	How do you deal with aproaching groups?
Author	nebojssha
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Comments	7
Date	August 31, 2014 10:15 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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