Hey fellas,

GF was really tired last night as falling asleep with head in my lap while I drove her car to my place(mine was unavailable to use yesterday) to drop myself off. She has fallen asleep once at the wheel after seeing me and hit the curb. I told her to "text me when you get home safely" like I always do when she seems really tired at night. She has always texted me in the past. She did not text me when she got home last night but she did arrive home safely. Her family was in town(she lives at her parents home) but she could have texted me when parking her car or after chatting with her fam before bed. She hasn't contacted me yet today and normally does almost every morning.

I'm thinking of calling her out about it for 20 seconds or so without making a big deal. To me it shows lack of respect/consideration/cooperation for what I told her to do and it makes me worry a bit if she doesnt text when home when she is tired like that(she did get home ok last night) and this is the first time she hasn't texted when home when I told her to. I did lose frame last night and the night before(acting beta/insecure and chased a bit too much at the beginning last night) but she is still very attached to me and for the most part I am always leading and I am on my purpose.

So should I call her out when she contacts me next or do I sound too much like a bitch by caring about her behavior/lack of respect and cooperation that much?

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TL;DR: When gf is really tired, I tell her to text when home. Gf always texts me when arriving home when I tell her to but last night she didn't. Should I call her out or is that a bitch move?

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