Primary plate has been great for quite some time, or as great as can be expected, right?
A little background on me LTR wise: 2 in my entire life otherwise. 1 was a marriage, the other did not last 6 months, which logically would not even qualify as LTR. At 31, it's been rare for me to find any interest in keeping a female around for any extended period of time.
I've been working the up/down range of 10 years (give or take) for quite a while. From 19 to 41, I've found on the spectrum, I can't tolerate women my age or younger. Logically I know why they're all as mentally and socially screwed up, and deal with the shit as one should, but 35+ has just seemed to be a better fit for me as far as interests, conversation, overall maturity, etc.
The candidate is 10 years my senior. Objectively, she is good looking, active, fit, no kids. 8 years army, degree, successful. She has hobbies (I didn't know women could do that), married 13 years previously. About as direct as you could hope for; and shit tests have been limited, and dealt with appropriately. Dare I say, an alpha female.
I'm never unwilling to walk. My confusion on this one is, do I want to really consider LTRing someone 10 years older? Age aside, I haven't found a dis qualifier. If I take age as a factor, I circle back to having never met any girl 18-33 I could tolerate being in the same room with for any amount of time unless I was screwing her, or about to be.
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