Using the female social matrix

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October 8, 2018

There was a post earlier that mentioned the female social matrix in the comments. The female social matrix is tricky, but you can get a feel for it and use it to your advantage. I've only started to see the effects of this in my LTR but it's part of the, "women love for their men to be wanted by other women almost as much as they hate it" dynamic. It is easier to illustrate this with examples of ways I have pushed this dynamic to raise my SMV without having to do anything other than what I already am.


My wife knows that the hot little blonde always flirting with me on our cruise wanted to fuck me just by watching the dynamic. She was bragging about how that was happening to a group of women at a party. Bragging, not bitching or mocking it like she would have before. On the drive home from the party I tell her that actually that little gal told me she wanted to "suck your wife off of your cock." near the end of the cruise when I had just fucked the wife to sleep and went downstairs for a drink or two.

She looked at me angry and asked why I didn't tell her on the ship and I laughed and told her I didn't want to have her in jail for throwing the little thing overboard. Her mood changed and she laughed instead of going on a tantrum for 3 days like she would have if I would have apologized. And then she fucked me when we got home instead.

The point? The next week when she broke out that story at another gathering, she used those exact words the little blonde had used, to GREAT impact on the group of ladies she was telling the story to and trying to get their sympathy. They immediately started talking shit on me and giving me dirty looks across the room where I was chatting with another guy. I was just within ear shot but they got more vocal to make sure I knew I was a fucking asshole and they would never put up with that shit and they would kick my butt. The effect my wife was looking for. She's the victim, the center of attention, the poor thing with the husband who attracts girls 20 years younger. Poor poor thing.

Until my wife stepped in to claim her place at the top of the pecking order and have them a big, "I don't blame her, I want to suck me off of him too." Which resulted in laughter and all sorts of praising my wife and admiring me from that side of the room out of the corner of their eyes. Throughout that gathering I was getting kino from randoms as they walked by or caught them watching me from across the room, which means my wife did too for sure. She would have been angry for weeks without me saying the foundation using MRP principles and would NEVER have mentioned it in a group unless it was too harp on me. But here is the same situation making her the big cheese for having the big prize instead.

Got fucked hard when we got home.

And they ALL talk. This will be something that women you don't even know are on the edges of your wife's social circle will hear about. You can raise your SMV while she is raising her social value just like that. She gains value to the women in her life and also creates massive passive dread for herself because she knows which of those women are in bad relationships, or are on the prowl, or have cheated before. She also knows that you were the instrument she used to raise her status and it makes you valuable to her. Since you are just a tool for her validation, pleasure and security She's pushing and pulling herself and you just planted the seed.

Think about that, it certainly would have been UNFATHOMABLE to me 5 months ago. She's BRAGGING about a young hot girl on the cock carousel saying that to her husband while she's asleep upstairs using the same filthy words to shock her audience.

I use this type of thing when I can to generate feelz and get things going. It can backfire dreadfully if you aren't strong enough or centered enough yet (happened once) but used right, it will move mountains.

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Title Using the female social matrix
Author witnessthenomorebp
Upvotes 27
Comments 7
Date 08 October 2018 02:41 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (1 child) | Copy

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[–]milkeway614 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Similar thing happened to me over the weekend (see my OYS post). My wife couldn't wait to tell her friends all about the girl at the concert that wanted us to take her home.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well done. This scenario is a win-win-and-win.

Re: your wife’s reaction to hearing about your blonde friend.

It’s very similar to when an infant takes a tumble.

If you rush over to the infant with fear in your eyes and panic in your heart, the baby will think something bad has happened and cry.

If you laugh at the baby and smile, the baby will be comforted and giggle about this non-issue.

The same is true when dealing with people. If you make an ambiguous scenario guilty or sketchy, you will invite jealous and angry energy. If you treat it as a funny joke that makes you a winner, you will invite winning energy.

Great post

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Good post. Should have more upvotes.

Did the hot blonde really say that or did you make it up?

[–]witnessthenomorebp[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yes she did. She was a smokeshow 9 and 18 years younger. This cruise was about 2 months into my RP awareness and so I approached it with the intent to be George Clooney playing Frank Sinatra in a movie about a cruise.

By day two I was calling about 20 people by name as we bumped into each other and my wife was loving it. A cruise is an easy setting to take RP over the top and be a very popular guy. I need to do an update on that over in MRP because it was fucking epic. If you can afford it you should go and make the whole ship and everyone on it your bitch. Tingle City every day all day.

Also, she and her friend would call me Daddy and Pappi whenever they saw me and oh shit it pissed my wife off and pleased her too. Women are fucking weird.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy


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